夫妻之间如何沟通？

 kanlefuqizhijianneixieshierderendoulejie，fuqilianggerenzhongjiangoutongshishifenguanjiande，zheiyeguanliandaofuqihunyinshenghuodefazhanqushi，neifuqizhijianruheyouxiaogoutongni？xiabianjiuhedahuoergaikuoyixiaba。

一、沟通时要清晰、实际，不必让另一方猜想或感觉手足无措

 fuqizhijianchangshuodehuashi“neihaiyaowojiangma”，hanyishizuoweifuqihaoxiangbenyingshiyoushengrenxianming。keshikeguanshishiquebingbushixiangdajiasuoqidaideneiban。lirulaopojiaruganjuelaogonghuijiawan，jiulijigaozhitadelaogongqidaitajigedianhuijia，erbujinjinshuo“xiabanlezaodianhuilai”。

二、沟通中言语要符合实际，要有效

 zaizhizelingyifangshi，bukeyiyong“nijihunaxiejiawuhuodoubuzuo”，yeyou“niyizhiyuwodashenghoujiao”dengshengdongdebiaoshu。lingyifangjianghuiyaoshuo：“bushiwojihu”，“bushiwoyizhi”，bujinburenkebeizhizedekeguanshishi，bingqiejianghuihaizhizelingyifangmanhengwuli，bingsichanzaijiujingzuoguoshiduoshaode“pinci”shangyizhiyuqianyileguanjiannanti。

三、尽可能了解夫妻之间的非語言个人行为

 renherenzhijiandegoutongyou65%shishifeifeiyuyande，xuduorendeyiyanyixing，doubaokuozhegoutongdexinxineirong，jiarufuqizhijiannengjinkenengquganshou、jingquejuededaobicizhijiandefeiyuyanxinxineirong，youliyufuqilianggerenzhongjiandeyoulianggoutong。shuo“hunyinshenghuojiushishuoganqingdemuzang”，dadishimeiyouganwudaojingyinghunyindefangfa，zaihunhoushenghuozhongzaoshoulenantimeiyouhaohaodideshutongchuli。

四、积极地显露自身十分关键

 xiangranglingyifangduorenshizijideneixin，zhinengjiangtaxianluchuqu，tarennenggoulejie。biaoshushitiao1gehaodeshijian，jinkenengzailingyifangxintaijiaoweihaodeneishihoutanmouxiefanzadenanti，youliyujiangdimaodun。 zailingyifangzhengchuzaijiaoweijingshenjinzhangdegongzuozhonghuoyishizhuxingqingkuangshi，jinkenengyulingyifangtanmouxiekaixindehuatitaolun。zheiwojuedeyezaizhuandazheduilingyifangdezhongshi、tiexinhelejiedexinxineirong。

五、倾听另一方的响声

 jijizhudonglingtinglingyifangbingjiyuyijianfankuidoushishifenguanjiande，lingtingbudanyouliyuzhangwolingyifang，bingqiedoushitiexinyuzhongshilingyifangdezhuyaobiaoxian，lingwaidoushizaixianglingyifangzhuandazheneiyang1gexinxineirong，tayeyingdangneiyangqing tingzishendexiangsheng。duirichangshenghuodeguanjiannanti，bixuzhao1geteshuzhuanyedeshijianshencengcitantao。wulunshihaizijiaoyunanti，haishifuqidehuxiangqingganwenti、xingshenghuowentizheixie，bicidouxuyoushencengcide goutongjiaoliu，neiyangnenggouchaoguozhenshidehuxianglijiegoutong。

六、激励与夸奖

 xiangdianshijufuqizhongjianneixieshierxiangtongjililingyifang，pingchangchixujilihekuajianglingyifang，shifuqiyoulianggoutongdehelifangfa，zanyangchaoguozhize，shifenyouyiyufuqiganqingshenxinjiankangdefazhanqushi。kuajiangshiyaoshiji，wulunshidashierxiao，yaoshilingyifangzuodehao，haiyaochixujiyuhaowuyiwen。neiyangzuokeranglingyifangjuedeniqueshihenzaihuta，binghuicujinlingyifangzuodegengqiang。