如何解决姻家庭问题

 xianzaiyouxierenzaichuxianhunyinjiatingwentideshihou，budongdezenmezuo，yebudongdezaihunyinjiatingzixun，huozheshihunyinjiatinglvshiqulejieruhejiejuewenti，zuihouluodefenshouxiachang，neiyaoruhejiejuezheixiewentini？

一、学会沟通

 goutongduihunyinguanxishifeichangzhongyaodeyihuan，hunyinguanxidehaohuai，shigengoutongdehaohuaichengzhengbide。womenzaixianshishenghuozhong，womenkenengjingchangjiandaodeshifuqiguanxihunyinganqingjichushihaode，danshizaixianghugoutonghejiaoliushangyouxiewenti，congeryingxianglebicideguanxi。zheijiushuoming，meimanhunyinxuyaoyoulianghaodegoutong。

二、问题假设

 dangniganjueziyihunyinchuxianwentiyoubuquedinghuobuxiangtongposhi，keyishidangquzuodianhunyinjiatingzixun，zuochujigewentijiashe。ru，laogong/laopo，nizuijingongzuoshibushibushunxinni？kannizuijinxinshizhongzhongdeyangzi。fuqijiupabugoutonghuobuhuigoutong，nenggoutongyouwenticaikeyijiejue，ruojujuegoutongzhinengdengjieguole。

三、结果预演

 jieguoyuyanjiushidangnifaxianwentibingjiancedaozheigehunyinjiatingwentidezhenshixing，zheigewentihuidaozhizenyangdejieguo。ru，nihuaiyiduifangyouwaiyu，zheiwaiyuyouzhenshicunzai，nihuiruhechuli？shiwanliuhaishichengquanni？zheigeshirenpinerding。

四、互相欣赏

 kewangbeirenxinshangshirenleizuijibendexintaixuqiuzhiyi，youdefufuzhengshiyonghuxiangxinshangdezuofagaibianletamendeshenghuo。“womenzaihunyinshangguozaodixianruleyizhongkunjing”zheiweiqizirenwei，bufendeyuanyinshiyouyuwogemudulebushaofufuchanghuxiangkebodiwakuduifang，tebieshihaidangzhebierendemian。womenyebuzhibujuediranshanglezheizhongexi。buzhibujuedishanghailefuqiganqing。xianzaiwomenshizijiduokanzijiyiyoudedongxi。ershaokanwomenhaiqueshenme。

五、对方出轨引起婚姻问题

 xianshehuiyouhuoduo，dangduifangbuzhonghunyinshidezhihou，biechongdongduolengjingxiangzijinalizuodebuduibuwenroudedifang。jiuzhaohunyinjiatinglvshilejielejie，chongdongkunaozhihuibaduifangwangwaitui，ershixiangfabaduifanglahuilai，ruguopingshibuzuofanzheishijiukaishijitazuozuofan，pingshibuhuazhuangzheishiyegai，zongzhirangzijimeiliqilai。

六、不要太过依赖对方

 dangbicitaiguoyilaiduifangjiuhuizaochenghunyinbupingdeng。bupingdengjiurongyichuwenti，biciyidingyaoyoudulixing，shiyeduli，rengeduli，jingshensixiangduli，caibuhuichengweibicidefudan。