夫妻之间破镜重圆需要具备的智慧

 ruhe wanhuihunyin ?shengjingshangshuo：“renyaoliqubabamama，yulaopolianhe，liangrenbianchengyitihua”。zheijiushishuohunyindebenzhi。fufushizijile，yibushiliangren，zhishiyitihua。zairentishang、ganqingshang、jingshenshizhishang、xinnianshangquanshiyitihua。xingfukuailedeganqingshenghuobixuzishenquzhengde，fufuyekeyipojing，keshinibixuyaojuyoubixudewanliuzhihuixing。neimafufupojingjuyoudezhihuixingyounaxie?qingganwanhuizenmeban?

yi、yaogaoqingchuhunyinshizheizhongyouquediandeyishizhuxing

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?jiehunhouliangrenyiqi，zaisuonanmianyoumaodunhemoca，keshibukeyiyouyuqingganbushunchang，chanshengfenqijiuyiliyilaichuli。wojuedezhenduilihunyuanyinkaizhanpouxitigaoziji，tianbuxiubulaiwanliulingyifang，suanshijijizhudongdijiejuekunnandeduice。yaolejiewenxindejiaquanshixiangtong，beijudejiazhongfenbieyoufenbiedebeiju。xuduofufuwangwangfenqipengzhang，jiushishuoyouyudaduoshuzaixianghuzhijianbaoyuan，buduanguijiuyulingyifang，buduantantaonantideshihefei。wojuedehunyinzhongzishen jiushishuoyouquediande，quediansuanshiwanmeizhuyizhedequdongli。jiarubicikeyibianhualuojisiwei，jiyulingyifangshehuizhengnengliang，duoyidianguanzhuhexiaorong，duoyidianzantonghejili，duoyidiangoutongjiaoliuhexiangyong。wojuedehuoxuyixiefenqineishihounikankandetaizhong，keshiyiguomouxienianzhihou，nizaihuitouqiaoqiao，nijiuhuifaxian，hunyinzhongdeshishifeifeihaoxiangyebubudebushuo。

er、xuehaojijizhudongdichulimaodun

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?yaoxiangchulihunyinpolie，haiyaoxuehaohuanzheizhongsiweimoshi，neimagairuhejiejuehunlianjiaoyouganqingweiji?yongjijizhudongdexintaiqujingyinghunyin，qujiejuemaodun。youshijiazhongdemaodunshifenqideqingtu，genjumaodunbicikeyifeichanghaodidiaojiezishen，sikaozishen，neiyangdemaodunfandaokeyishenghuafuqiguanxi。bubifangxiaotarendefangfachulihunyinpolie。mei1gejiazhongdezhongleishibuyiyangde，meiyouyiyangdefenqi，henjianghuiyouzhongfangzhisihaierdebanfaquejinjinbuyini。yinci，hunyinzhongbubiqubizhao，bubiquxiaofang，yaoxuehaorangzishenjizhongzhuyili，wenyiwenzishenyuanyinaxiederenshengdaolu。yaolejiejiatinghemunenggoushunshunlili。zaihunyinzhong，xuehaoqianrangqiangong，nenggoujiahewanshixing。yinci，xuehaojiejuemaodun，yiqigenjumaodunlaidiaojiezishen，xuehaosuzaobicideqinggan。yiqixiangzhezenyangxunzhaohunyinnaizhishilianqingneishihoude"meihaoshiguang"，kanqilaihenbixu。

san、dingduanqineishijizongtimubiao

 ruhewanhuihunyin?dajiachangchangjiangde“buzaiyidijiutianzhang，zaihucengjingyongyou”，kandejianyouzhedeneiyishunjiandetihuihuoxuhuilingrennanyiwanghuaiyisheng。yinci，yaoxuehaoweifufubicizhidingxianghudeyishizhuxingfangan，dingmouxieduanqineideshijizongtimubiao，qushengchanzhizaomouxiezuigaihuailiandekuaileshiguang。hunyinpolie"bingdongsanchifeiyirizhihan" ，weibaituoweijibubizhiding1gehunyinxingfudechouxiangxingzongtimubiao。1gexingzhiyouxiaodeduanqineizongtimubiaozuijianghuiwanmanzhixing。yaoshiqidaigaijinhunyinpoliedelingyifangzai1gedongzuo 、huoshizai1gexiaoyuyanshangzuochuyumaodunjihuafanguolaidezuofa，jiunenggougenggaiquanjubianliang。

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?suoyourenxinlizuichengzhideganqing，yibeizizhinengduoci，cuoguolejiushizhongjiu。fufubiciyiqi，fenqiquanshiyiqiezhengchangde，zhongyaoshiyaoxuehaozhihuixingdijiejuemaodun，xuehaoyunyingzishendehunyin。yaolejiehunyin，bingrongjinyishizhuxingzhihuixing，jianxinnenggouyishizhuxingdegengweixingfukuaile，nenggouyouzhezishendexingfukuaile!