挽救婚姻无需智慧，更需担当

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 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?jibiansugeladineibanzhihuixingderen，wojuedequdelaopodoushi1ge“hedongshihou”，zenmehuishi?youyuhunyinshuodaodeshishibushiheshi，erbingbushizhishitantaoganqing。huoxuliangrendeqingganfeichanghao，keshiyidaohunyinzhongdeyouyanjiangcu，jiuhuichuxianyiduifanzadenanti。zhongyaoshizaizijimangliushi，huoshizijisongxieshi，lingyigezijishibushixiangyaozhanchuqudanfuzheizhongnanti。hunyinzhongbixudebingbushiliaoyiliaowowo，zhishizailingyifangbuzugaoduzhongshidediqu，nishibushikeyigaoduzhongshi。jiaruonidangdan，ranglingyifangjuededaohuanjieyali，neimawanhuihunyinjiudayouxiwang。meigerendoumingbaijifancuowudeyirenjiyu，keshiqiantitiaojianshifancuowuzheiyirenjijichengrencuowu。xuduorenxiaizaihunyinzhongjiangzhihuixing。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?keshizheileizhihuixingxuduorenyizhixuedelikaileyang，bianweilezuankongzidexiaozhihuixing，erbingbushidazhihui。youyuhunyinzhongbuyitaibaochiqingxingderen，taiyongxinderen。xuduorendehunyinyizhihuhututuzhongzhaodaoxingfukuaile，ergengjishirendehunyinyizhizaitaiguoduyongxinzhongdiulekaixin。yinci，zaigongzuozhongheshiyezhongrenmennenggou shifenshuodao，keshizaihunyinzhongquebuneng。youyuzheihuicushilingyifangjuededaoyayigan，juededaogenniyizhizaiyikuaiertinglei。dangnijilingyifangweiraodeshineiyangdeluojisiwei，neimaniyezoubujinlingyifangdeneixinshenchu，bingqiehuiranglingyifangjuededajiazhongjiandehunyinmeiyouqidai。jiaruo，sheiaiyigerenmeitiangenzishenzhengzhi?

 ruhewanhuihunyin?chaodejiule，qingganyemeile。hunyinzaoyiyoumingwushi。yinci，wanhuihunyin，buyongnishuaguoduodexinyaner，nizhibixuduoqudangdanmouxiehunyinzhongdeyiwu，erzailingyifangmeifazuodaodediqu，nidishuibulou，neiyangninenggoubadajiaxianghuguanxihenantidoujiejuehao。

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