离婚女人的心态：女人离婚后的生活是什么样

 lihunnvrendexintaihuodongzenmeyang?nvrenlihunhoudeshenghuoshishenmeyang?fenshou，liangdifenjuheliyidouxianglianyuxiangtongpengshang。zaban?gaohaozhei8jianshigailaidexingfukuailebixuyaolai!

一、离婚女人的心态：女人离婚后的生活是什么样

 zheieryou8getiyinenggouxiezhuninjiejuejianghuishininrichangshenghuojiaodadeganqinghexintaizhuangtaitiaozhan，lihunnvrendexintaihuodongzenmeyang?nvrenlihunhoudeshenghuoshishenmeyang?

1.活好时下，做好自己喜爱做的事

 meiduanqinggandewanbitongchangbeibichengshenwang。beijixingdelinchuangyixueshehuixuejia，jiazhongkangfushibabala·daideke(barbara dydyk)shuo，zheiyixiangduihenshihe，bingqietamenhetamenyikuaierxingfukuailediyishizhuxingguo?nvxingzaoyuliyiheliyidejianlveshengcunzhinan。

“zheijiushinihunyindeshenwang，jiqiniduijianglaiquanbuxiangxiangdeshenwang，”didikeshuo。

 yiner，zailiangdifenjuheliyiqinei，ninengganshoudaoyiyangdetihui，rutongnidaonianqinpenghaoyouhuopenyoudeshenwangxiangtong，tabiaoshushuo，xintaibaohanhuijue，youshangheduixinshoudenaonu。

rangyanleiliudang。tajianghuijuedebuhao，danzheishibixuhedazirande。youyiri，ninaizhinenggoukanjianhunlizhaopianshuorip，

2.终止与你的前女友争执

 ruguonitongdianhuajitamenshi，nijianghuihuijuedewangzhanzaitadeguandianshang，keshijiaruzaoyiyiguoliangnianbingqienihaiyaoyunideqiannvyouzuozhan，nizhenshizaizuodejiushishuoweichiyigebeijudehunyinhuozhu。

 “ruguoninhaizai5nianhuoshinianzhihoudajiadouou，neimawochangchangduidajiashuodeshi'nihaiyaowanhun!' nitidaobeifenlidannigenjunaonuxianghuwanhun。“dydykchushi。

 lihunnvrendexintaihuodongzenmeyang?nvrenlihunhoudeshenghuoshishenmeyang?daoshihouruguoniduishiyongzuochujueceshi，ninengyuanyizuizhongyiduanhua，shenxiyixiazi，xiangyouniyibuwanhundekeguanshishi，yinerbuyonghetayikuaierjindao。

3.让一切都是这儿

 niyeshibeitongyujue，nanguohenaonu，jiaruwaiyuhunhouchuguizaidajiagonghuideshuailuozhongchongfenfahui，niyehuitihuidaozheizhongshishiyiyangdepanbiangan。nibixuxuduorenyuzhigoutongjiaoliu，danneirenbuyingdangjiushinideqiannvyouyuyinxinxiang，ni12suideguinv，xixindepengyouhuoshinizuiaidekafeitinglimangrandekafeishi。

 dydykshuo，yuyimingkexinlaidepenyou，yimingjiatingzhuyaochengyuan('hai，muqin;zaidujiushiwo')huokangfushigoutongjiaoliu。jiaruzheibuyini，neimaqingbaocunzheifenwujushudegerensuibi，xiangximiaoshunideqiqifufu。zhongzhongzhizhongshixunzhaoyizhixintaidezuihelihezuidebanfa，erbingbushijiangqiweichiyinei。

4.再次营造你的恼怒根据了解到它是这种刻骨铭心损害的病症来

 jiejuenaonudexintaihetongchu。dydyktiyidajiagenjuguanxinnaonushenhoudezhenshisunhailai“zaicijiegou”naonu。dydykshuo，ruguonirenkezishenzaoshouleruhedesunhai，jiunenggouzishengangkaishijiejuetaerbingbushiqidaifanzuifenzichulita。

5.让小孩杜绝他

 e。jiyoukenenggaozhixiaotammyweihetadebabazoule，tashizenyangbaozhengdejiqitazenyangzhengzhixiaohaideshiyong。dandidekeshuo，zheibingbushiyigehaodexingwei。

 bujin，zhizenixiaohaidebaba，erqiezaimouzhongyiyixihuanniyekanzhuntamen，jibenshangzaitixibaofangmian - tamenzhongjiugongxiangdna。

 “tashiyigehuaizhuyi，youyuzheiyijingdiangushiyou2gecengmian，dangnineimeshuo，xiaopengyoumengaozhifuqin，fuqinhuiyuanyisheqizishendelingyifangbingqiexiaopengyoumenbeibawozhuleshikangfushihuoliangrendebabamama。yanlidajixiaohai[dangtamenbixudeneishihou]shi2gebabamamadeanquanxing，tamenyijingchengcai，bingqieweitamenchushianquanxingdeqianguohuojiayongpin，bianyuzaitamenhuxiangebianshizhenghaoxiangfan。“

 rujinjianghuimeibanfa，danshikuanweizishenneiyangyigekeguanshishi：zai10huo20nianzhinei，nidehaizihuoguinvjiangkeyixiexienideqingjingnengliang，nizuoqiadangshierdexinxin，jiqiniqingwuxuanhuadewuxiangongzuonengli。ba。

6.照顾自己

 zudianying。xiujiao。dydykshuo，daizhumouxieshifenjiageangguideyoujihuaxuepaopaoyuxigereshuizao - buguanniganshenme，ruguonilaidao“shengsuozuishenchu”shi，guanjiandeshiyaochenniyuzishenzhaoliao。

 jiaruninyouxiaohai，qingyingyongxiaohaiyubabahuoyeyenainaihuandudeshijian。“tabuyongshiguanjiande - libaitianqushuiliaospaguanlizhongxin - jinjinniyuniyijingchupengdeshierbaochilianluobingzhaoliaota，”dydykshuo。

tatianbushuo，zhaoguzijinenggoujianyidaobaozhengnidedaoyigexingxiangdeshuimianzhiliang，meirichisancanshenxinjiankangdefanshi。

7.不必极端化的看待自身

 jiarunishipanbianjiazhongdeganqinghaozi，huoshidangnigangkaishiliyi，neimanihenjianghuihuiduizishenjuedexiaochen。zheihendaziran。keshiyizhishaodezishenzenghenjiejuenidekuijiu。

 “jienatashiyigebuzhengque，nibukeyihuilaigenggaita。kuanrongzishenbingjienayishizhuxingwubijianchixiaqu，nibukeyijiangnidexiaohaiheqinrenjushuzaizishenbianchideqingganhegerenxingweishang，“dydykjiangdao。

8.冷淡的总体目标

 rujinzaoyijiangwanle：fangwubeishoumai，caichanbeiqiefen，wendangqianding，mifengxinghejiaohuo，rujinwenyiwenzishenniyuanyideyishizhuxingheweilaishishenme。dydykshuo，yigejianghuizhengshiyouxiaodezongtimubiaoshi，dangshejinideqiannvyou，tadetiaoxuanhetadexinqianzaixingairenshi，zongtimubiaoshibuwenbuwen。

 tashuo，liyidemudibingbushizhisheng，zhishizongtimubiaoshibuwenbuwen。keyijuedeshierbujian，jinidexiaohaiganjuefuyangjingyingtuanduishilaokaode。“

 lihunnvrendexintaihuodongzenmeyang?nvrenlihunhoudeshenghuoshishenmeyang?youxieren，bubijinideqiannvyouxunzhaoniyeshiyigezhangqixingdezongtimubiao，danbuwoyiweidemimiqidaitahuixiaotuizaiqitizhong，tashiyigenenggoubaochidezongtimubiao。