我们要离婚了，男人离婚后的心理阶段是什么？

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zhihouqueyulaiyuduodezhengzhi，liangrenyeburangbu。

youbuyiyangjianyimeifarongqia。zuihouzhishengyudachaodanao，chaozhechaozhe，xinjiuyuanle，xinyuanlelianzhengchaodouxianbubian。

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 lihunhouzuitongkudejieduan，youxierencengshuo：hunyinshenghuo，yikaishikaoganqing，zuizhongkaohengxin。donglexinbuzaiyiqideren，buaizaiyiqiderenquanshizheiban。

ganqingzaihunyinshenghuodelingsuihedadanaonaozhong，zhujianbeimoqu。

 lihunhaizhuzaiyiqidehaichu，yicicidezhengzhishiyouyufufumeiyoucongzhengzhizhongfajuelingyifangdexuqiu，duikangxingmaodunmeiyouhuodechuli，zhiyouyongzhengzhibilingyifangrangbu。

xianshuozhengzhideshizhishisha?

1.想推脱自身的义务

zaizhengzhizhongdajiaxiangmingque“daodishisheidecuo”。

xunzhaonantidexishengpinhenongqingchunantizishenshibuyiyangde。

dangdajiaxunzhaoxishengpin，biannenggoutuituozishendeyiwu，zhujianmaiyuanchize。

zheileimaiyuanhechizexiangchanshengdeshilingyifangdegenggaiherangbu。

2.因会计纠纷案件而起的争执

 henyoukenengfufulianggerenhuiyouyujixuyongqian，libutouzilicai?yishuangxiegaihuaduoshaoqian?zheizhongnantizhengzhiqilai。tashejidaoledajiazhongjianbuyiyangdejiazhiganhexiaofeiguannian。

lingwai，nvshifeichangrongyibaqianheyouduoaidengtongyuqilai。“nibuyuanyiweiwotaoqianbianshibuaiwo。”

3.有话不想说

weihedajiahuichuxianhuabuyongshuo，youyubuyuanyiranglingyifangjiandaozishendexitongloudong。

 dajiabuyuanzhuyaobiaoxiandezishenbixutaren，youyu“woxuyaoniaiwoxiangdangyuwoqiuniaiwo”，neimawojiudiniyideng。jiaruwobuhuizhuyaobiaoxianchuqu，danniquenengkaolvwodeyaoqiu，neimawojuedenishishuoaiwode。

dajiahailisuoyingdangdejuede，“niaiwo，jiuyingdanglejiewozaixiangnaxie”。

yidanfahuojiuyuyuguahuan，xincunzenghen，zhujianlengbaoli。

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dajiahaihuijixuxianzai“jiaruniqueshishuoaiwo”zheigeyouxili。

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