决定感情的质量是什么？男方不同意离婚怎么办？

nanfangbutongyilihunzenmeban？youyuzhengchaonaobieniu，xifuwuyuanwugujiupaozouniangjiadeshi，lihunlezenmefuhun？zaifuqizhijianhuanshihenpubiande。yibanzaizhujiandeqingkuangxia，zhangfudoushihuijiaoweijiaolvbuan，gankuaizhuiguoquzhao。zhihoujiarulianggerenyinaobieniujiuchangchangzouniangjia，zhangfuyaobuzengjialeqingxifuhuilaideshijian，yaobusuoxingbuzhaole，gaodenvhaijintuiliangnan，helaopochaojialenaolihun，buqingchuzenyangshouwei。

qianbujiu，wojiushoudaohaoguimiyuanfangqinqitangmeixiaohuidedianhua：

“qinjiejie，helaogongzhengchaole，yiqizhixiazouniangjiazaoyi20laitianle，kezhangfuhaibudaolaijie。

gengyaorenmingdeshizuoriwoshuadouyin，kandaozhangfupengyoufadeyigeshipin。libianjuranshiyiduinannvzaiktvyinjiugechang，zaiqizhongjiuhuiyouwolaogong。

wolaogongpingchangcongbuquktvde，zhei20laitianmeilianxiwo，bingbushiyouzhuangkuangleba。ninshuowogaigaizenmebanni?”

yiqianyetingguimishuoguo，xiaohuinadouhao，bianshiyihezhangfuxiaozhaozhengchao，bianhuiwangniangjiarenpao，zhizhixiaozhaoshiruochengrencuowu，batajiehuiqucaisuanwanle。

lihunlezenmefuhun？xiaozhaodaoyezhuyaobiaoxianhao，meiyiciquanshibuliusudegenhuilai，zuizhonghehao，shuangshuangbajiahai。

benlaicicizhengchaoyebushiyinweishenmedashier，bianshiyitianwanshangbixuqilaijihaizibaniao，xiaohuitebiekun，jiutuishenpangdezhangfuqilai。zhangfuyezhenghutuzhe，qilaimanle，xiaohainiaodaochuangbian，xiaohuineishihoujiubaohuo。

“meirixiabanlehuijiajiulejierushui，yagenbujiwodaiwa、jiawulaodong，shinijihaizibageniaohaineimemomocengceng，yaonigansha?”

neiyangyichaochao，xiaohaiyehehuaile。zhangfuyejile，helaopochaojialenaolihun，jiubianboleyiliangju。

xiaohuiyitingjiugengshengqile：“xiaohaiyoubushiwoyigerende，nanengwoyigerendaini?”

lianggerenjiufashengzhengzhile，zuizhongxiaohuihenqi，baozhuxiaohaichongpomenqu，zouniangjiale。

xiaohuibenlaizhunbei，zhangfuxiangzhiqianyiyanggenhuilairengecuo，bazijijiehuiqujiudele。xiangbudaoyixiaziershijitianzhangfudouhaimei，bujinbulaijiezishen，jingranpaoquktv。

tashiyouqiyoupa，danyebutaihaojijirenrang，yiyemeishui，gankuaibangwotongdianhuaxunqiubangzhule。

xiaohuideqingxuwochedilejie，rendaoshouqideqingkuangxia，zuibennengfanyingdefanyingbianshixunqiubihuhexiezhu。erbabamamashijinqiqin、zuiyougongzuonenglibaohuzijideren，zouniangjiashihenduorenxiayishidetiaoxuan。

neimajiujingzhengchaozouniangjiazenmeyangni?zheibukeyiyigaierlun。

jiarufufuzhengzhi，pengdaoshejidaoshengminganquanhuoshiyouqifengxiandeqingkuang，zouniangjialinshibikai、qiuzhuyeshixingdetongdefangfa。

keshi，jiaruzhishishiyibanxingzhengzhi，wuyuanwugujiupaozouniangjia，duiqingganyidingshiyoubaihaierwuyilide。

changchangpaozouniangjia，henyoukenenghuiyinqishenmenantini?

1、阻隔有效的沟通机遇。

xuduozhengzhidoushiyouyuwuguanjinyaodesuoshi，lianggerenzaiqingxujidongdezhuangkuangxianengzhengchaode。doushuofufumeiyougeyechou，dengxintainingjingle，yigexiweidezishihuoshimuguangjiuhenyoukenenghehaoruchu。

paozouniangjia，lijiduankailezheileidiaojiefangshi，huirangwujiejiazhong。

2、很有可能会把分歧扩张。

zhengchaoyuanbenshifufumaodunjihua，yeshiyizhonggoutongfangshi，dengqixiaole，xuduofufujiumeishile。

danshinijihuanghuangpaozouniangjiafalaosao，babamamatongchanghuiyouyuzaihuni、chaozheni，erhaohuaibufendetinichengzhe，chizenvxu。

jinguanzhangfuaiyumianzidixiatouchengrencuowu，neixinzaisuonanmianyoujiedi，duiyuefumuyoujianyi。

3、造成丈夫的心寒。

nvxingchangchangzhaolaozhangrenchengzhe，huirangzhangfuganjueninaqinrenyata，hetabingbingbushiyitiaoxin。zheihuiyanlidajitadexinxin，ganjuezishenshizhongshigebieren。

yeyoudebiduanbianshi：xifuzainiangjiaren，youbabamamazhaoliao，anquanyinhuanbubidanxin。jiaruzhangfuneixinyeshiyouqi，buyuanfangrennini，qiahaoshinizainiangjiarenhaohaodiziwofansi，tayeledeyoujing。huoshishipoguanposhuai，gandianpingchangxiangzuoyouhaipagande，zhaodianxinlipingheng。

nanfangbutongyilihunzenmeban？jieguobianshi，laogongbudanyouxifudiule，fandaoshinvhaizhujiandanxin，juqishitouzalezishendejiao。