老公出轨，生两女儿离婚的人多吗？

 shengliangnverlihunderenduoma？dajiachangchangyanxian“yishengzhiaiyirendecongqianman”，jinnianyidinghuilihundeshengxiaoshishenme？wei“zhiqianwupinhuaidiaonenggouxiu，rujindiudiao”erbeishang。

 yanxianguiyanxian，beishangguibeishang，kezaihunyinshenghuozhongpengdaonanti，gailiyiyiranhuiliyi，wupinhuaidiaohuanshiguoduandehuanzuixinkuan。

 xiandaishehuidezhongguolihunlvhengao，henjuedaduoshudeyuanguqujueyurenyulaiyuzishen，ganjuerendoujinyouyibeizinenggouhuo，renshengdaoluyingdangzhijizijihuo，womendouaizhejiuwanhun，fenqinanyijiejuedajiajiuliyi。

 duoshaorenmangranditaruhunyinshenghuo，laidaohunyinshenghuobianyanhuoshizaoyiliyicaifajueganqingwenti，caixiangqiyaoyunyingyaoxuexipeixun，jiarunibuyuanfuchuyingyoudedaijiacairumengchuxing，neixialieyouguanqingganhunyinyunyingde4gefangfa，yidingxukan。

1、向着彼此之间挨近

zaixuduofuqiguanxili，benlaidajiashibicizhijianzuiqinmijiechuderen，quechangchangzaijialigezuogedeshier。

jinnianyidinghuilihundeshengxiaoshishenme？zaipengdaonantishi，zongshihuiyouyu“zishen”lizaiduilihelingyifangzhengchaobuxiu。

 naizhilingyifangdekunaoyunimeiyoumaodunshi，yexiguanxingcong“zaihuni”deshijiaokeguandijiangli，nanyibimiandiliangrenyuelaiyueyuan。

 dajiayaozuodeshi，zailingyifangshushuozishendekunaoshi，yongxinlingting，tihuitadexintai，rentongtadetihui，haowuyiwentadeshiyongjiazhi。

 dajiayeyaozuodeshi，huijialeyiqizuogejiawuhuo，yiqiwanyouxi，yiqikandianshi，ranglingyifangganshoudao，nideaihetajinkaozaiyiqi，niderentiyutatongxingye。

2、关心彼此之间进展

nvrenhenanrenzaishehuifazhanshangmianjianfuzhebuyiyangdeyiwuhezhizefengong，jishibuyiyangbianhuizaochengbuming。

qizibuqingchulaogongweihejiabanjiadiandaoshengengbanye，laogongbuqingchuqizihuijiahouweishenmeyaochoumeibuzhan。

ailaiyuanyuzhangwo，zhangwolingyifangdetihui，zhangwolingyifangdedongtaixing，zhangwolingyifangxinuaichou。

 yinerdajiayaochangchangshengjidajiadeganqingdixingtu，neiyangdajiaxinlihuijuedeanwen，yekeyilianggerengeciyincilejie，jiangdigoutongjiaoliudejiedi。

 lirumeirichumenkouduitashuo，libaitianguodehenkaixin，danwozheizhoujieleyigejiaoweifanzadexinxiangmu，huibipingchangxiabanlewanyixie，henyoukenengduininyouhushidediqu，ninenggenwoshuo，danxiwangnibienanguohuofahuo，nizhidaowoaini。

3、塑造赞扬的习惯性

 hanxudibiaoshuduibierendezhongai，koumenduibierendezanmeishihenduorendexiguanxing，zheiyerangxuduofufuzaijiaowangzhongchangchangjuedemangranhexiaochen，tamenbuqingchulingyifangdeqingyi，yebuzhidaozishenshibushiqueshiranglingyifanglingrenmanyi。

yincidajiadouyingdangsuzaozanyangdelianghaodexiguan，yizhouzanyanglingyifangyici。

 nihenyoukenenghuiganjuezanmeiduolelingyifanghuijiaoaoziman，danshishishang，niyuejuedelingyifangzuodebutaihao，lingyifangjiuyuezuobutaihao，dannidezanyanghuiranglingyifangyouxinxinxiayicizuodegengqiang。

 ruguonijuedeqinkouzanyangwufazhangkou，neihebubalingyifangzuodehaodeshierhuozheyoushixiechuqu，tiedaolingyifangyidinghuikandaodediqu，naizhishizangdaolingyifangyifukuzidedaizili。

neiyangdexiaojingxi，nengranglingyifangyitiandouyouzhehaoxintai。

4、设置关联的自我防御机制

liangrendejiaowangzaisuonanmianpengdaogoutongjiaoliubutaihaodefenqi，fuweibushangxintai，cikebianhuichanshengzhengzhi。

 zhengzhibingbukongbu，zhengzhinengshinigengzhangwolingyifangdeyaoqiu，fenqiyebukongbu，zhixuyouyiqichulidexinxin，kongbudeshi，zhengzhihou，lingyifangcaiyinishibushihaiaita。

yincizaidajiaguanlianzhujianzhichu，nenggoushezhiguanliandeziwofangyujizhi。

 lirunenggouyuefasanzhang，wulunchanshengnaxiehaoyubutaihao，huoshizhengzhifenqi，doubukeyiliusu，douxuyaobicizhijianwanan，huoshilinshuiqianxiangyonglingyifang。

 dajiayishengdoushizaizhuiqiuwanmeisuiyi，zhiduizijihaodian。dandajiahuozaizheishijie、zheiyishehuifazhan、zheiyijiazhongjiunanyibimiandeyaojianfuqidajiayingdangdanfude。

 shengliangnverlihunderenduoma？erzaijiatinghunyinguanlianli，danshijiushinigaiyidianwogaiyidian，xiangzheyitongdefangweiqinfen，xieshoubingjianzouzaihuodedexingfulushang。