发现老公出轨要怎么办？男人拖着不离婚对策

nanrentuozhebulihunduice，zaiwodewanjiuhunyindezixunzhong，lihunhoudeganyan，zhangfuchuguidewanjiuhunyindeshilixuduo，fajuezhangfuchugui，laopolihunwuxiao，shiyijianjiqitongchuqueyoupobudeyiyingduideshi，

yeshiyijianyouqimingdanshiyouxiweidaolingrenpobudeyiquxixinchousuandeshi，youyuxuduoqingkuangxiadajiahuanshiqidainenggouwanjiuhunyinde。

jintianwojiangguanjianjinjinweiraoruhechulihunhouzhangfuchuguijiqiwanjiuhunyinlaishenrutantao。

zhu：tantaodeqiantitiaojianshi，nihuanshiyaowanjiuhunyinde，shibuyuanliyide。(ziranjiarunibuyuanzaici，neimejiugengjianyi，zixunzhiminglvshijiukeyi。)

一、最先，出轨的定义，及外遇的类型有什么呢?

zhenduiwaiyudajiayouyigeguilei，laogongjingshenchuguiheroutichugui。

zheilianggecizaoyihenpubianle，pubiandaohenyoukenengdajiashenpangderenhuozishendouqinshendezaoshouguozhizhongdeyigehuo2ge。

lihunhoudeganyan，laogongjingshenchugui，guanjianzhideshiyuhunyinshenghuowaideyixingpengyouzaochengleqinggan，huozhezhenduihunyinshenghuowaideyixingpengyouzaochenglezhiaizhiqing(youbieyuqianmianyizhong，zheilizhideshianlian)。

yiner，laogongjingshenchuguihaikeyizaicifenchengliangdalei：

shuangzhonglaogongjingshenchugui：yuhunyinshenghuowaideyixingpengyouzaochenglelaogudeganqinglianjie

danbianlaogongjingshenchugui：duihunyinshenghuowaideyixingpengyouzaochenglezhiaizhiqing

routichugui，laopolihunwuxiao，zaizimianshangshangdeyisifeichanghaolejie，zhideshiyuhunyinshenghuowaideyixingpengyoufashenglehunyinguanxinaizhixingxingwei，zeweiroutichugui。

danyoubieyulaogongjingshenchuguideshi，routichuguidezhuangkuangyeshiyouerzhongzhuangkuang——baokuolaogongjingshenchuguidejiweibaokuolaogongjingshenchuguide。

1、baokuolaogongjingshenchuguideroutichugui

cileiqingkuangzhideshiyuhunyinshenghuowaideyixingpengyoufazhanqushichulepingwendeganqinglianjiejixinghuobanguanlian(zheidayueshijiaonanjienadezhuangkuangle)。

yiban zhuangkuang，zheileigerenxingweidelingyifangxingweizhutiweidanyidepingwenmubiao。

zheilikelejieweilaogongjingshenchuguide“quanxinshengji”。

2、weibaokuolaogongjingshenchuguideroutichugui

cileiqingkuangzhenduizhideshishoushenglixuyaojutizhidaoyuhunyinshenghuowaideyixingpengyoufashenglexingxingwei。

gaileiwaiyuzhuangkuangyiban jubeisuijixing，yezaoshouhuanjingyaosuweihai，

biru，hunhoufuqishenghuobuhexie，huoshiyoumouleiyouyiyuyubiedenvshidaliangchupengdewaizaiziranhuanjing，ruoyouyidingdiwei，gongzuofangmianchupengnvshidaliang，waidizheixie。

yiban gerenxingweineilingyifangxingweizhutibugudingbudong(bingbushiyupingwenderenfashengguanxi)。jugeshili，zhaoxingbanlvhuoshipiaochang。

zhu：yumouyihunyinshenghuowaibiedeyixingpengyoupingwenfashengxingguanxi，bulieruzhishiroutichuguidefanwei。

youyupingwendexingxingweijubeijudagailvhuicushibicifazhanqushichuyidingdeganqinglianjie，yinercileiqingkuanglierubaokuoroutichuguidelaogongjingshenchuguidefanweizhong

二、对于不一样状况，大家该如何处理呢?

liuyizaiduzhuzhong：zheierwomendoushiduiyunideyaoqiuqujueyuwanjiuhunyin，bingfeizenyangduifulaogonghexiaosanheliyi。

1、danbianlaogongjingshenchugui：duihunyinshenghuowaideyixingpengyouzaochenglezhiaizhiqing

——ruoshichengduan，mubiaobingbushidanyipingwendemubiaodehua，cileiqingkuangzaiwobenrenkanlaiguishuyujiaoqingdechugui(neimeshuohenyoukenenghuirangyixienvshitongbaomenjuededaobushigan)。

guyuyun，“waneyinweishou，lunjibulunxin，lunxinzhongguwuwanren”(zheili“yin”deyisishitanyu，houdaiyingyongquanguochengzhongsuidaduoshuzhixiuxiudeshi)，

suoshuodebianshizaiduiyugezhongxiuxiudeshishi，ruoshidanchunxingyankedecongxinlisuoganjiuyaodingyidehua，neimanidelingyibanpashibutaikenengshijizhideren，naizhihuipanxingyicicisihuanle。

yinci，wodeyigejianjie(ziranhenduorenhenyoukenenghuichuquduiwo)，bianshishijishangzaihunyinshenghuozhong，duibiedeyixingpengyouzaochenghaogandushijishangshiyigehenpubiandeshier。

nanrentuozhebulihunduice，ziranzheicongshehuidaodeshijiaobingbingbushiqiadangde，dandequeyeshishichuyouyin。