如何让对方把 钱包给你保管呢？男人拖着不离婚对策有那些？

nanrentuozhebulihunduice，doushuotanqianshangganqing，lihunhoudeganyan，haoxiangzaitanlianaihehunyinshenghuozhong，laopolihunwuxiao，qiandenantishiweixieguanliandediyiyinsu。

tanqianshangganqing，danshi，butanai，nideqingganjiudijiutianzhanglemeiyou?

xianshishenghuozhong，qiandenantiqueshishibianchengxuduoqinglvzhijiandelanluhu：

nvhailaosaomanfudemaiyuan，nanrenxinzainaerqianjiuzainaer，bujiwoqianbianshibuaiwo;

lihunhoudeganyan，nanhaizizejuedewonengrangnifengkuanggouwu，keshinibunengwenwoxiang，nixuyaobianshiyouyunihuaxuewuzhi，bianshiwuruleqinggandedangdechunjiexing。

zheiyihuatitaolunchixudaojiehunhou，nantirengrancunyou。jinrijiulaixiangjinliaoyiliao：hunyinshenghuozhongnanshengweishenmebujiangqianjiaodaolingyiban?

1.钱=随意

yunanshenglaijiang，qianbianshisuiyidedaibiao，shiquduiqiandezhudaoquan，jiudaibiaozheshiqusuiyi。

liru，xueshengailiyijianshimaiyuanshuo：

“xinyuanjiaoshi，wolaogongyouyigewenti，youqixiaijigoujuhuihuodong，juhuihuodonghouhaiaifuqian。yiqianzhangfuyehuibaqianbangwo，zhiqianhezhangfugoutongjiaoliujiangdijuhuihuodong，zhangfujuhuihuodongjiangdile，keshifengjuhuihuodongrengfuqian。

henzhirugu，helaogongdachaoyijia。cihouyihou，zhangfuqiaoranwushengdehuanlechuxuka，jiangquanbushouyidoucunyouzishendehuxia，wogaizenmezuo?”

laopolihunwuxiao，nanshengqueshixiangyaojiangzishendezichanyulianrengongxiang，keshibiewangji，nanrenaini，dantagengfanglangbuji，gengshandaiziji。

peiduofeidoushiyoushiyun：“aiqingjiagenggao，shengmingchengkegui，ruoweiziyougu，erzhejiekepao”。weileainiersangshisuiyi，meifazaizuohaoziji，duomedecanzhongdechengben，neiweishenmeyeyaoai?

zheierdesuiyiheai，quanshikeyiyongjingjifazhanshouyilaichuli，caizhengjushiquandangranyaojiaoyoujiyou。

2.欠缺信赖

xuduodanshendeqiuzhuzhedouhewojiang，yaoxiangzhaoyiweisoulmate(zhongshenbanlv)laigongduyusheng。

xixinyiwen，poyouyizhongzhongshenbanlvbeiluanyongdejuede，haoxiangsoulmatechukaijingshenshizhiheshengming，biedequanshisuwu，naizhiqianhehuaxuewuzhiquanshisoulmatedemaodunmian，tebieshizaizaibicishouyijibenxiangchataidadezhuangkuangxia。

lisadelaoxianshengshiwaiziqiyedeceo，pengdaolisahou，ganjuemingqueguomuguang，pengdaoshengmingzhongdezhongshenbanlv。jiehunhou，lisameiyicihelaoxianshengtijijiazhongdekaizhinantishi，zhangfudoushihuifanwendao：“nihewozaiyiqishiweileqianma?yaoburandajiaweishenmebukeyiaa?”

lisajingchangbeiduidewuyanyidui，zhangfudedadaoliyejiangdetong，danbianshilingrennanshou。

yuangufeichangjiandan，lianggerenqianquexinlai。

shexiangyixia：jiaruwoganquexinshishuoaiwode，erqieyuqianbuxianggan，neifeichanghao;danruguoniaiwo，quezongrangworenweinizhenaizheiqian，suihoucaishuoaiwozheigerendetihui，bianhuiyaowoshenweinanshou，zheijiushiduiaidebuxinren。

ziran，nanrentuozhebulihunduice，fuqijiandebuxinren，yeyouhenduozhongduoyang，zheieryebuguoduochanshi。