军人可以离婚吗？如何做才能避免婚姻破裂？

“lihunzixunwangnanfangbutongyilihunzenmeban？jiaoshi，wowoyebuzhidao，wodangshishizenmela，jurantiaoxuanjiajileleta。“zaichuduixiangneidabannian，xiaoyazhangfuhuiguanzhuta，yehuigesanchawudesongxianhua。danjiehunyihou，meirichukaigongzuozhongzhiwai，junrenkeyilihunma？jiazhongxuxuduoduodeshierdouburongyijijibangzhu。

jiazhongdezilaishuilongtouhuaidiao，xiaoyabazilaishuilongtoumaihuiqule，zhangfuyebuyuanhuan，haijiaoxiaoqinghuaqianqingrenlainong。

xiaoyashuozuirangtafahuodeshi：zhangfuzaiqianshangbianyouqizaihu，congbuhuijijinaqianzhuanqianyangjia。

 daoxianzaiwanhundousinianle，xiaohaiyeshangyouzhiyuanle，chukaihuijijichuxiaohaidepeixunfeizhiwai，zaibiedecengmian，zhangfuconglaimeiyoujijihuaguoqian。

zaiqizhong，changchanghuichanshengfenqidejiazhongzhong，xuduodoushiyouyuneiyangdeyuangu。

youjin90%denvxingjuede，zishenzaiqinziguanxizhongtourudaliang，juedenanshengtourutaishao。

junrenkeyilihunma？er90%denanshengyehuijuede，zishenweijiazhongtourudebiqizidaliang。

danhaowuyiwendeshi，mouxienvshidequehuiyudaozhanan。

tamenduijiazhong，duixiaohai，duiqizi，naizhilianduizishendebabamamadoubuwenbuwen，zhituzishen，nenggoushuochenghenzisizilidegerenxingwei，danneiyangdezhuangkuang，zhongjiushijishaoshu。

kejiaruxiangpengdaoxiangxiaoyaneiyangdezhuangkuang，laogongjinguanbingbushihuaxinnan，tayerenzhengongzuo，yexiangyaoweixiaohaitouru。

danbianshiduijiazhongbiedecengmian，liru，jiawuhuo、richangshenghuoguanjiandian、jihudouburongyijijidehua，neiyinggaizenmebanni?

从自身的身上检测

shiwoyiweinanxingpengyouben，tazaiyuqizihunqian，cengguowaidailehaoduonian，jiehunyihoujiuyizhiliudaozhongguogongzuozhong。

benshigehenlanmandenansheng，tadeqizixiaoxiaoyinweiwolejie，xiaoxiaoshigehenshigan，shenghuoshang，jingjifazhanshanghenqinjianjieyuedenvxing。

zaitamenjiehundiyiniandeqixijie，benxiangjiqiziyigeyiwaijingxi，mailaiyishufeichangdademeigui，haidingleyijiagaoduandexicandian。

benbenlaiganjueqizijiandaohuashihaowuyiwenhuishifengaoxing，huoxuhaihuijixujitamenzailaiyigexiangyong。

kedangqizixiaoxiaojiandaohuashi，quejibenzailaiyigechoulian。

并发火地说：

“sheishinisongxianhuale，wobutaixihuanhua，nizheibushixiaohaoqianma?niyaobibushangbasongxianhuadeqianbangwomaishuiguo。”

后边ben告诉我：

“niqingchuma?woyuanxianxiangjitayigeyiwaijingxi，tajiangzheiyangdehua，zhendeshibangwopoleyipenliangshui。”

“houbiandajiaxicandianyemeiqu，lianggerenzaijialishengqiyigeyeli，congneiyicizhihou，wocongcibuyuanjitasongxianhua，yebuhuijitasongliwu，yinweiwofeichangshaojitaqian，youyutaxinshuiyehengao，zishenpingchangyebutaitaoqian。”

“wozhengdeqianchukaiyongzaigoufangyeyaomeiyigeyuehaihaifangdai、qichebaoyangzhiwai，deshenshangyemeishengyuyaoduoshaoqian，yincijiazhongdehuaxiaodangranjiudourangtazaichu。”

youyixielaogongbuzhudongweiqizitouruchuxiangshangbiantijidepenyoubenyiyang，cengjijitouruquebeiqizipoleliangshui，yaobuganjuezishenzaoyichuledabufengoufang，haidai，yeyouqichebaoyang，zheiyangyilaiqizichengdanjiazhonghuaxiaoshiyijianzaiyiqiezhengchangdanshideshier。

danzheiyangyilai，zuoweiqizi，tameiyigeyuedoumeijiandaojianqian，gengmeijutiganshoudaolaogongyoujizijitouru，shijianyijiuneixinjiuzhujianjuedebupingheng。

ciwai，yeyouyizhongzhuangkuangshi，laogongganjueqizitaoqianhuaqianruliushui，burongyiguorizi，wulunshijitayongshenme，huobaqianfangdaoqizideshenshang，douganjuebuanquan，yinciyebuhuijijiweijiazhongyuweiqizijijitouru。

yijuzhishangzhuangkuangwoxiaojieyixia：

1､laogongcengjijitouru，meiyouhuodeqingxujiazhi，yincizaocheng zhihoubuzhudongtouru。

2､yigongpinggongzhengweibiaozhun，ganjuezishenzaoyichuyidabufen，shijishangjiazhonghuaxiaoqizidanfuhenyiqiezhengchang。

3､lihunzixunwangnanfangbutongyilihunzenmeban？ganjueqiziaihuluanhuaqian，burongyitouzilicai，yinciburongyijijizaitouru，gengburongyibachangchangshiquanjiaodaoqizi。