军人可以离婚吗？如何让和谐相处成为婚姻常态？

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 jiehunqiandetiexin、zixi，shiyigenanrenzaixinlizhuangtaishangxianggenvxing;jiehunhoudelaoliu、suibian，shiyigenvrenzaishenglixueshangxianggenansheng。

youxierenshuo，tanlianaishi：quanbusharendouxihuandeconghuishi;wanhunshi：quanbucongmingderendouhouhuimojizuodeshashi。

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junrenkeyilihunma？meiguodeqingganzhuanjiadui2000mingmeiguojihunfufuzuodiaoyan，shujuxianshi，zaisannianbandeshijianli，xuduoduifufuzhujianhuxianglihui，ningyuanduziyirenrushuidoubukaizhanfuqishenghuo，yebuhuizaishuo“woxihuanni”。zheizhongfuqifenbiezhaodaozishende“shushiquan”，yezhujianyuelaiyuegengweijiaozonghezishen。yinqibuyukuaideshier，zaitamenderichangshenghuoyuelaiyuejingchang，yerangyinranfufufenqihezhengzhidefangfayuelaiyuecengchubuqiong。

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yinci，fuqijiandejiaowang、goutongjiaoliu，bixuxuexipeixunhezhangwo、lejielingyifang，erbushipingbenrendezhuguanxingfenbianlaigenggailingyifang。dangfufuzhujianzaochengyonghupingjia，bingzhujianchizemaiyuanlingyifangdeqingkuangxia，zuixianyaozuodebianshifanshengziji：weihetahuineiyang?jiushiwodeshenmegerenxingweicushiletaneiyang?

jibianlijingsisuo，pingdingweilingyifangdecuowuguandianzaocheng lebuzhengquexingdong，yeliyingyikuanronghebaoronghexinlizhuangtailaiduidaizheizhonggerenxingwei。youyukuanronghebaorong，nenggouhelijiejuemaodundejiqi;ermaiyuanhechize，zongshijiutuobujue，jiazhongfuqijiandeliefeng，jiakuaihunyinpoliedeebian。

tiaochulaizishendexintai，weichipingjingdexinlizhuangtai，baocunyikekuanronghebaorongdexin，shijiejuefufufenqizuilaokaodeqishidian。zhenjianduimaimang，zongqidaigenjunaonu、youshang、yanfan、chize、zenghen，lairanglingyifangtuoxie，tongchangzuihouhuodelezhengchaoshangdehuosheng，queniangchulehunyinshenghuoyujiatingshangdebuchenggong。

enaifeichangrongyijiaowangnan，fuqizhijianzenyangjiaowangjuecezheyizhuanghunyinshenghuodechixumaixiang。xingfudehunyinshenghuo，laiyuanyufufubicideyitongrenzhenyunying，zheileimanzugan，bingbushikaoranglingyifangtuoxieerhuode，zhishicongfufuhexiexiangchuzhongdedaoganqinghezhenqingdeyukuaihekaolv。

lihunzixunwangnanfangbutongyilihunzenmeban？kuanronghebaorongbingbushiyiweidifangrenlingyifangdecuowuguandian、jianjie、gerenxingweihexiguanxing，zhishigenjuyouxiaogoutong、goutongjiaoliu，qiadangdejiupianzhuangzhi、jiuzheng，laidedaofufuhexiexiangchudeguanghuifazhanfangxiang。