老公坚决离婚如何挽回挽救婚姻？

 rujindefuqiguanximinganderutongyizhangsuliaozhi，qingqingdiyichuo，jiupole，shehuifazhandeduozhongyinyou，neixindegeleichongdong，douweihaizhefuqiguanxi，zaihunyinshenghuozhong，jiaruzhangfutiqiliyi，xintaiguoduan，laogongjianjuelihunruhewanhui？nvrenxiangyaowanhuihunyin，gaizenmezuoni？

控制自己，不必询问离婚理由：

 zhangfuguoduanliyi，ernvxingbuxianglihundehua，jiuxuyaocaozonghaozishendexintai，bubiquxunwenzhangfulihunyuanyin，jiarulingyifangxianggaosuni，dangranhuijijigaozhizishen，yuefaxunwen，yuefarangbierenjuedeziyimeirenzhidaozishendequedianside。

心态调整，不要抱怨，接纳客观事实 ：

 zhangfuguoduanliyi，nvxingxiangwanjiuhunyindehua，yibanshiburongyide，zuoweinvxingbianshiyaodiaojielianghaodexintai，qianwanbiequmaiyuanle，ganjuezishenmeiyoufancuo，weihezhangfuhaibuzhiaixi，yaochulizhangfuguoduanliyidekeguanshishi，neiyangxinlizhuangtaishangbianhuishifangyalixuduo。

留意言谈举止，切勿争执，声嘶力竭：

 zhangfuguoduanliyi，zuoweinvxingjiarubuxianglihun，xiangzhengjiudehua，jiuqianwanbiehezhangfuzhengzhi，zhenglun，chaodaogouqiang，naizhihuishiqulizhi，yuelaiyueshengsilijie，jiangchuyixiemanmalingyifangdehua，zhinengrangfuqiguanxiwanquanxiaohaodaijin。

理智不冷暴力，仍然关注另一方：

 zhangfuguoduanliyi，jiaruzishenbuxianglihundehua，jiububihezhangfuqulengbaoli，laogongjianjuelihunruhewanhui？zishenkeyilizhiyiduanshijian，zheiyishijianduanbunengguozhang，sansitiandeshijian，haohaodifanshengziji，hunyinshenghuozenmehuilaidaozheiyibu，lizhiyihoujiarudouhaimeiliangdifenju，rengranyaojijiwenhao，guanzhulingyifang，shitaganshoudaozishendeqingyi。