怎样挽回婚姻?先懂得怎样相互理解

怎样 挽回婚姻感情 ?龙幸与张辉完婚十五年了，现有2个小孩。张辉是一个工程建设监理，龙幸在小孩出世前是一个大学教师，如今是一位家庭主妇。

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benlaishitasunhuaileliangrenzhongjiandexinlai，sunhailewo，weihetalianjurencuodehuayemeiyou?

benlaishitapanbianledangshizhenduihunyinshenghuodefuwuchengnuo，panbianlewo，weihetajiuguannianbushangnantideyanzhonghouguo?

suoyourenfancuowu，buquanshixianglingyifangchengrenzishendebuzhengque，zhiqianma?gengshineiyangxiang，longxingyueduobushufu。

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 nanrennenggouxiangyixiangtangruojinriwaiyudeneirenshiqizi，yingduifancuowuqizihaiduinizhigaoqiyang、huangyanlianpianmeiyouyisichengrencuowudezhengzhao，nixintaizhuangtaihuishiyizhongnaxieweidao?zenmewanhuihunyin?xiandongdezenyangxianghulijie。ruguoai，renmenjiuyingdanglizaiqizidebuweixiangyixiangtadetongkuyujinghuangshicuo，jiaruyingyong，renmengengyingdangxiangqizichengrenzishencuo。

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 jiarushi，neimaqizijiuyingdanggaoqingchushuobushuozheijuhuaduizijinanreneryanbingmeiyoushijiyiyi，chediburongyiweihaitahuigaidexinxin。neimaqizizhixuzixikannanrenzuochudetongyixingdong，bingshuxinhenanrenyiqinulixiubulianggerenzhongjiandeqinggan。hunyinweijixintaizixunzenmeyang?