不想回家的女人，是世上最孤独的一批人

 xianzaiyouhenduowenzhangzaibangnvxingfasheng：weishenmeyuelaiyueduodenvrenbushengertaile？weishenmeyuelaiyueduozongbuxianghuijiadenvrenle？weishenmexianzaidezhongguonvrenyuelaiyuebuhaipalihunle？

qishi，suoyoudeweishenmejiazaiyiqi，jiushizongbuxianghuijiadenvrenyuanyin。ruguoyonglianggezigaikuodehua，jiushi“gudu”。

 duinanrenlaishuo，nvrenjiuxiangshitamendebingxiang，renheshihoudakaimenjiuyoushiwu，huailesuiranhenbufangbian，danshitamenyebuhuiqubaoyang，yongyuanshenzheshousuoqu，suoquwanjiubatamengulinglingliangzaiyibian。

jiatingduiyuhenduonvrenlaishuo，conglaibushishushideqixidi，ershiyigerendezhanchang，zhiyouguduweiban。

 henduonvrendeshiwang，bingbushiyinweinanrendeqionghuozhezenyang，jinjinshiyinweiguduxiaohaodiaoletamenduishenghuodesuoyouqidai。tamenyoujuexinhexinaiderentonggangongku，quemeifarenshoubeixinaiderenpaoqizaitongkudebianyuan，gushenyiren。

 yiqiankanguoyigexinwen，yiwei38suimamaduziyirenzaijiadaiwa，tufaxingengcusi。zhidaosantianhou，tadeshiticaibeiqinqifaxian，neishishitiyijingkaishifulan，ertadehaizihaizuozaimamashitipangchilingshi。haizibingbuzhidaozijidemamaqushile，haiduilaideqinqishuo，mamashuizhele，buyaochaodaota。

yigedahuorenzaijiasilesantianhaishibeiqinqifaxiande，sheiyewufatihuitagulinglinglikaizheigeshijieshidejuewang。

 zheirangwoxiangqimeiguonvyanyuansijiali，2011nianxiatiantalihunhoujieshoumeiticaifang，yidushishengtongku：“genbenmeiyoubanfaqucaokongzheixie，meiyourennengjiniyigemingquededaan，yemeirennengjiniyixienixiangyaotingdaodejianyi。zhendefeichanggudu，mouzhongchengdushanglaishuo，jiuxiangshinizaizuoshijieshangzuirangrengandaogududeyijianshi。”

 youxiangguanshujubiaoming，zaiquanqiuhuantongkuzhengderenqunzhong，nvxingbinanxingduoyibei。meiyigekansimeimandejiating，beihoudouyouyigegududenvren。

 zainianqingdeshihou，kandaowanjiadenghuojuedegudu，zongyiweijiehunshigududejieshu，houlaicaizhidaojiehunshigududekaishi，erwanjiadenghuozhibuguoshihaishishenlou、menghuanpaoying。

 ciweigezai《yigemoshengnvrendelaixin》zhongxieguodeyijuhua：“wohaowuyueli，haowuzhunbei。yitouzaijinzijidemingyun，jiuxiangdiejinyigeshenyuan。”duiyuhenduochengjiadenvrenlaishuo，zheihuoxushiduitamenhunyinshenghuozuirugudequanshi。

 nvrenyidanburuhunyin，yejiudiejinlezijimingyundeshenyuan，yimianrenshouzheshuimiandebuzujingjingyeyedishangzheban，yimiancongxiaoyanmimandezhichangchechu，daqidoubuganduochuanyikou，jiutuozhemanshenpibei，ganjintourudaochaimiyouyandejiatingshenghuozhong，xiaoxinyiyipinghengzhegongzuohejiatingzheikuaiqiaoqiaoban。

zuibeiaideshi，tamenyongyuandoushizaigujunfenzhan，suoyiyuelaiyueduozongbuxianghuijiadenvrenchuxian。

 yourenshuoyouaijiubugudu，danyinduzherenkelixineimutiyeshuoguo“youyilai，jiubukenengyouai”，dabufennanrenduinvrenyoudezhishiyilai，tamenshibaomu，shichushi，shiyuershi，shisiji……weidubushiziji。

 erqiezaidabufennanrenxinli，zhaoyigenvrenjiehunzhibuguoshiyixiangzuihuasuandetouzi。yikejingzi，huanyigehaizi；yizhizhengshu，huanyigenvrendexiabansheng，haiyouwushugedeyichunxiao；yijuchengnuojiukeyihuanyigexinganqingyuan、gannaotudidebaomu。

zhiyaoshizaijia，tamenyongyuandoushizaibeiyaoqiu、beiqidai、beiyueshu、beijiaodao，weidumeiyoubeiai。