如何拯救婚姻，要找对方法

dangwomenhunyinchuxianzhuangkuangdeshihou，womengairuhezhengjiuhunyinni？xianzaixiaobianjiujidajiajiangjiangwomengairuhewanjiuhunyin。

一、如何挽救婚姻

1、避免语言生硬

 ruhewanjiuhunyin？qunian，tuomasiheqizizaijiujinshancanjialekechengpeixun。tashuo，tongguokechengtaxuehuilezaibushanghaiduifangdeqingkuangxiabiaodazijidexuyao，zheishitamenyijingchixule8niandehunyingengjiawengu。“tamenjiaoshoudeyixiefangfafeichangyouyong，biru，dangduifangbiaodazijidexiangfahou，zhongfuyibiantadehua，biaoshikending，bingchenshunidejingyan，xiangduifangbiaoshitonggan，zheizhongtanhuafangshishiwomendejiaotangengjiayukuai。guoqu，womenzhijiandehenduochongtudoushiyinweiyuyanshengyingerfashengde。”tuomasihaishuo：“jishiyanyufashengleyidianchongtuyebuyaojin，xiaokeyihuajiemaodun。”zheishiwanjiuhunyindeyizhongjiqiao。

2、感情就像银行

 ruhezhengjiuhunyin？zaijieshoupeixunzhong，fuqimenhaimingbaileyigedaoli：meiyijianxiaoshikeyishihunyinzouxianghexie，yekeyishihunyinzouxiangpolie。shalihesaimu6nianqianjieshoulekechengpeixun，congzhong，tamenxuedaoleyigehenshenkededaoli：ganqingjiuxiangyinxingzhanghu，yecunzaizheshouzhiwenti。dangnimenzhijianfashengkuailedeshiqing，jiuxiangdangyuzaizhanghuzengjialeyibishouru；fanzhi，dangnimenzhijianfashenglezhengchao，huozheshuolelingduifangshangxindehua，jiuxiangdangyucongzhanghulizhiquleyibikaizhi。yinci，womenyaozhuyixiangyinxinglichuxu，zheiyang，jishifashengleshenmeshiqing，yebuzhiyuhenkuaitouzhi。erdangyinxingliyijingmeiyoucunkuanshenzhifashengletouzhideshihou，yejiuyiweizhehunyindaodalepoliedebianyuan。meiyibikuanxiangdegouchengkenengdoushihenxiaodeshiqing。bazheigechulihaozhengjiuhunyinchenggongdejilvhenda。

3、表达的重要

 wanjiuhunyindeguanjianzaiyubiaoda，fuqiguanxipeixunkechengtongyangqiangdiaolebiaodadezhongyao：niyinggaiqingchudishuochuzijixiangyaoshenme，erbushidengdaiduifangcaichunidexinsi。biru，nihenxiangdaomouchuqulvxing，danshinimeiyouzhijieshuo，ershiwennideairen：“zheigejiaqinixiangzuodianshenme？”erruguotameiyoushuochunixiwangdeshiqing，nijiuduqidexiang，nandaotalianwodexinsiyekanbuchulaima？ranhou，nideqingxubiandehencha，erduifanghaibuzhidaofashengleshenme。nimendemaodunbianchanshengle。keqiuduifangdezuofashiyuchunde，jishitashinideairen，yebukenengshishilejienidexinsi。suoyi，ruguoniyoushenmexiangfa，tanchengdeshuochulai，ranhounimenyiqitaolun，zenyangzuonengshinimengandaokuaile。

 tongyangcanjialepeixunbandeshaenheaiwahaimeiyoujiehun，tamenrenweitiqianjieshoupeixunkeyifanghuanyuweiran。shaenshuo：“woyouyixiepengyouhunhouyudaoleyixienanti，ranhoutamenquxiangzhiliaozhuanjiaqiuzhu，worenweiyuqizheiyang，buruzaimafanshifashengzhiqianjiuxuehuichuli。”xuehuilebiaodawanjiuhunyindejilvhuihenda。

4、找到问题的根源

 zhulihejieyiguoquzongshiweijimaosuanpidexiaoshizhengchaobuxiu，shijianzhangle，tamenfaxianlezheixiexiaomaodundegenyuan。“womenliangrenderichangshenghuodouquefatiaoli。jihumeizhoujieyidouhuibaoyuanshuo，zhijiadaoyouzhaobuzhele，suihoutajiuhuifenfenjiashangyiju‘zaizanmenjia，shenmeyezhaobuzhe！’erwojuedetazheihuashizaigongjiwo，yushiwokaishiziwobianjie……”zhulishuo，zheizhongmaodunbingbushishenmebukeyuyuedehonggou，tamensuoxuyaodezhishizhaodaochulijiawudexinfangfa。yushitamenpinqingleguihuazhuanjia。“womenhua1000kuaiqingtabangwomenliaolijiatingshiwu，congciwomendejiabianjingranyouxule。zheiyangwomenjiubuhuilaoshiyinweizhaobuzheyaochizheileixiaoshierzhengchaole。”

5、保留私人空间

 kailunhelichadeyijingjiehun6nianle，tamenweichijiatingdehepingdefangfashifentebie。zaijiali，tamenyongyougezidefangjian，yibandeqingkuangxia，liangrendouzhuzailichadedefangjianli，tongshi，kailunyoushuyuzijidefangjian。zaineili，takeyixiezuo，bingcunfangzijizhongaidedongxi，biruyigegulaodexiangshuiping。kailunbadefangjianbizuochahudepenzui，shijieyadehaoquchu。“tashiyonglaishifangduoyudeshuizhengqide，ruguowomenzhendeshengqile，wojiudaozijidefangjianqushui，bingzaineilishizijideqingxupingjingxialai。”

 bianzhean：yexu，jiuxiangzoushangmouzhonggangweiyiyang。zaizoujinhunyinzhiqian，womenyexuyaojieshouxiangyingdejiaoyu。zhiyoujubeilejianfuhunyindesuzhi，womencaixuehuizhengquedejiejuewenti。kefuhunyinshenghuozhongde“luzhang”，wanjiuaiqing，youlezheixiezhunbei，womencaiyounenglijianghunyinjinxingdaodi。zhengjiuhunyinzaiyufangfa。

6、享受私人假期

 duiyudaduoshufuqilaijiang，jianli“ziliudi”kenengxiandeyouxiejiduan，butaixianshi。buguo，xiangshouyiduansirenkongjianyekeyidadaoxiangtongdexiaoguo。haiyouyigebanfashi“fenkailvxing”，yigerenqudujia，huanhuanxinqing，zhixuyaojitiandeshijian，duihunyinqueshifeichangyouyide。neisenhelusidedisangehaiziganggang6geyueshi，youyuneisengongzuodiaodong，zhaogusangehaizidefudanyijiquanbudejiawudouluozailelusiyigerenshenshang，tamendehunyinyeyincimianlinzheyichangyanzhongdeweiji。zaizheige“jinjishike”，neisenfeichangjishideweitachuangzaoleyigedujiadejihui，lusidedaolesitiankongxianshijiandaojialifuniyakanwangyiweipengyou，zaineisitianli，tazanshifangxialeyigejiatingzhufudesuoyoushiqing，xiangshouyiduanqingsongdeshiguang。erneisenzeliyongzheisitianshijianweifangzizuoleyigedasaochu。lvxinghoudelusiduineisensuozuodeyiqiefeichangganji。