当女人有外遇怎么办 女人的真心话

 jintian huazhenqinggan xiaobianjintianyongyizhongteshudefangshigaosudajiadangnvrenyouwaiyuzenmeban，xiamianshiguanyuyixieyouwaiyudenvxingdezhenxinhua，congtamendehuayuzhong，xiwangninenggouzhaodaojiejuezijihunyinchuxianwentideyixiefangfa，zhongxinzhaohuixingfu。

一、当女人外遇，说出的真心话

1、情感排挤

 zheishiyixieyouguowaiyudenvxingxinlihua：“woyouguojiciwaiyu，danzhiyouyicibijiaojiu，chixule4nian。wojuedewozaijialiyidianyebushouzhongshi，danshitaaiwoerqiezhongshiwo。waiyuduiwodeyingxiangjiushizhongxinjianliziwo，zhichiwo、bangzhuwoduguohunyinnanguan。”

 “wobuxiangxinzhuanyi！neishishenme？zongjiaoma？kexuelilunma？zhuanyishiaiqingguanxikenengdexingshizhiyi。woyouguowaiyu，neishihouwofeichangjusang，genzhangfuzhijianfeichangshuyuan，renhenmamu，woxiangyaojiechuyigehuodedongxi，rangwozhongxinhuoguolai，kankanwodaodiyoushenmeganjue。”

 “woyou12ciwaiyu，qizhongduocishitongshifashengde，zhiyouliangcishidandufasheng。wowaiyushiyinweiwoxuyaoaihexing——liangzhetongshiyongyou——ruguokenengdehua。yaoshiwozheixiexuyaodebudaomanzu，woshibukenenghuodaoxianzaide。waiyufengfulewodeshenghuo，bangzhuwohezhangfujianliqihaode、bolatushideguanxi，keshuowaiyudequezhengjiulewodehunyin，wozhangfubingbuzhiqing。”

 zheikanchuleshenme？qishicongyanjiubiaomingdaduoshuyouwaiyudenvrenshuo，tamenjuedefuqizhijianhenshuyuan，zaiqingganshangbeizhangfupaichizaiwai。nvrenyouwaiyu，you60%denvrenjuedewaiyushixiangshoushenghuo、zhuixunziwodefangshi，suiranzhangfubuzhongshizijidejiazhi，danhaiyoubierenzhongshi。suoyidangnvrenyouwaiyuzenmeban？yinggaijiantaoyixiaziji，zheishijiejuedeyigebanfa。

2、缺少性生活

 “woxiangxinzhuanyishizuijiankangdeshenghuofangshi。danshiyinweiwodehunyinzaishenglifangmianfeichanglingrenbumanyi，suoyiwoyoule4ciwaiyu，congweiqishuyue，yuchundanjiliedekuanghuan，daoweiqi5nian，xiangdangtouru，shuangfangdouhenmanyideguanxidouyou。jiusuanwozhangfuhuaiyiguo，yeconglaimeiyoubiaoxianchulai，huozhe，kenengshiweiledajiahao，suoyitayayizhebushuo。”

 “zaiwohuaiyundeshihou，wozhangfubingbuhuiyinweiwolongqideduziergandaotebiexingfen。wobudebuchangchangziwei。shengtoutaizhihou，wodeyaocechuxianledapianderenshenwen，zhidao9geyuehoucaixiaoshi。xingjiaoshiwochanggandaotengtongbuyi，wozhangfuduiwomeishenmenaixin。ruguotanengduoguanxinyixie，wodexingfanyingyexuhuihaoyidian，womenzhijiandexuduoshiqingyexuhuigaibian。wodeqingrenxiangwodiaoqingshi，wojianzhibuganxiangxin，yinweiwozhangfuconglaibuhuizheimezuo。”

 yanjiubiaomingnvrenyouwaiyu，20%denvrenwaiyudezhuyaoliyoushi，jiazhongquefaxingshenghuohuoshixingshenghuohenpinfa，suoyizaixingshenghuoshangwomendouyaozhaogudaoduifang。dangnvrenyouwaiyuzenmeban？shichubiyouyin，womenyaochazhaohaozheigeyindaodishishenme，zheicaishijiejueshiqingdefangfa。

yuyixingxiangchudeguochengzhong，nishibushiyehuiyudaolingnifannaodenanti？zhuomobudingduifangxinlidaodizaixiangshenme？