我们应该怎么看待外遇

 duiwaiyuzenmekanniduiyudajialaishuo？jintian huazhenqinggan xiaobianjiushuochuwoduiwaiyuzenmekande，ranhoujiyixiejianyidajia，xiwangnenggoujidajiadailaiyixieqifa。

一、我对于外遇怎么看

1、renxingbuyaoqukaoyan，yaoqurenzhi

 qingbuyaojiyufouding“womeiyou！wobuhui”，wojuedechuguihuobeichugui，yiyinhuobeiyiyin，aimeihuobeiaimeidoushizhengchangderenshengjingli。yeshitongguosikao“liangxing/hunyin/chugui”zheigewenti，womingbaile“zheishirenxing，renxingbuyaoqukaoyan，yaoqurenzhi”zheigedaoli

 hunyinbingbudoushimeihaode“yijianzhongqing”he“mingzhongzhuding”，lianggerenzuchengyigejiating，bingbuyidingdoushiduifangzuishihederen，zheigeshijiehenda，kendingyougengshihezijideren；dandaduoshuqingkuangxia，womendoushicongshenbianzhaogerenjiaqula，yinweiwomenhelingyibangongtongjinglideshiqingjileduifangyizhengui，rangbiciyuanyichengweiduifangdeqingganjituo。qishihunyindeouranxingdayubiranxing，meiyouwenyizuopinlishuodeneimelangman。

2、buhuiqingyiquchongpoxintaidefangxian

 renmenzaixunzhaodaolewendingerchongmanzhichideganqingguanxi，tongshiyouhuibeihoumianxinxiandetiyansuociji，zheigemaodun，shiwomenshengcunzhongyonghengdezhuti

 wulunshijingshenyihuoshirouti，rendoumeiyoubanfazaimanzhangdesuiyuezhongbaochiduitongyigerendereqing，nanrenruci，nvrenyiruci，zhibuguoyouxierenlunlibaofugengzhong，buhuiqingyiquchongpoxintaidefangxian

 danrenhexingweidebeihoudoushimouzhongdongjihedonglizaiqudongzhe，zenmepojieqizhongdemima，zenmequexinzijihuizouchulunhui？yishangjiushiguanyuwoduiyuwaiyuzenmekandeneirong。

二、应该怎么看待外遇

1、bingfeisuoyouchuguideliyoudouneimedebukanrumu

 yinggaizenmekandaiwaiyu？youshihourenshiduizijichongmanqiangliedebuquedingxinghekongju，duigerencunzaizhuangtaiyouyizhongweijigan，duizijixianyouderengecunzaiyiyimamu、queshi、huozhemimang、yanjuan。suoyidaduoshurenzhenzhengsuoxiangdeshi，banlvzhendezaihuwoma？xiangyaowoma？woduita/tazhongyaoma？wozugouyouxiuma？wozheiyanghaobuhao？neiyangduibudui？

 ruguozheishihouchuxianlelingyigeren，tadaijinianquangan，tarangniyouxuanxiedechukou，tarangnifaxianziwo，tarangniyujianyigezhanxindeziji，zheijihushiyigenduizijidejiumingdaocao，nihuipinmingxiangyaoquzhuaqunikenengfengkuangdaorenweizheicaishi“queqiedeyishengzhiyouyicideganqingtiyan”zheishijiaowomenyinggaizenmekandaiwaiyudeyizhongfangxiang。

2、懂得放肆和克制

 womenyouxuanzedeziyou，danmeiyigexuanzebeihoudouyinhanzhezeren，kankanshenhoudeneigeren，xiridebanlv，tacengjingyeshiyigen“jiumingdaocao”。

yuyixingxiangchudeguochengzhong，nishibushiyehuiyudaolingnifannaodenanti？zhuomobudingduifangxinlidaodizaixiangshenme？