当知道老婆有外遇怎么办

 dajiazhidaodangzhidaolaopoyouwaiyuzenmebanma？jintian huazhenqinggan xiaobianzhenduizheigewentijidajiayixiejianyi，xiwangduidajiayousuobangzhu。

一、当知道老婆有外遇怎么办

1、弄清外遇原因

 henduoshihou，chuguidenvrendoushibijiaoqiangshide，erjialidezhangfushibijiaoruoshide。zhumingdeqingganwanhuidashikangnaxianshengcengjingshuoguo，nvrenyongyuannengquedingzijidehaizishizijide，ernanrenbingbunengqueding。zaizheizhongqinzibuquedingxingzhixia，nvrenchuguidechengbenshiyaobinanrenyaogaochuxuduode。

 haiyouyizhongjiushiwaizaideyouhuo，ruguo，cengjingtahuoxushiyouguoyiduankegumingxindeganqing，zainigentazhangnianleiyuedehunyinshenghuodangzhongnimendejiqingzaoyibeimomie，erdangtazaimianduiwaizaideyouhuodeshihoujiuhenrongyibachibuzhu，neimezheigeshihoutajiuhuichugui。

2、追随自己的心

 neime，ruguofaxianlaopozhendechuguineiyinggaizenmebanni？ruguoniqueshijieshoubule，nikeyigentalihun。danshiruguonihaishenshenaizhetadehua，neimenijiudejieshouzheigeshishi。

 shouxianyaozuodeshilijiehebaorong，zhaochulaopochuguideyuanyin，daodishinizishendewentihaishiwaizaideyouhuo。ruguoshinimenzhijiandemaodunbatabichuguide，niyaozuodeshiqingjiushichaqingchushiqingdeyuanyin。gaijinzijibingtishengziyi，qujiejuenimenzhijiandemaodun。

3、不要把事情弄大

 dangzhidaolaopoyouwaiyuzenmeban？qianqiyaozuodeshiqingjiushiqianwanbuyaobazheijianshiqingjinaoda，nvrenchuguibutongnanrenchugui，nanrenchuguishikeyirangshehuijijienade，ernvrenchuguijiuhennanbeishehuiyuanliang，yinweinvrendechuguichengbenbenlaijiuhengao，yidanchuguijiuhuirangbierenjuedetajiushiyigefunv，，bushoufudaoderen。jishizaidangjinrucikaifangdeshehuizhong，yeshihennanbeibeijieshoude。

 suoyiyidanfaxianlaopochugui，qiejiyaobangtabaomi，buyaowaiyang。bijingnidailvmaozheijianshiqinghaishiyueshaorenzhidaoyuehao。ranhoujiushiyaokuanrongta，zheiyeshizuinandeyibufen，zaidezhilaopochuguideshihou，niyaozuohaoyiqiedexintaizhunbei，laikuanshuta，baorongta。rangtazijiyishidaozijidesuofandecuowushiduomeyanzhong，rangtayouhuigaidexin。

4、引导她

yuyixingxiangchudeguochengzhong，nishibushiyehuiyudaolingnifannaodenanti？zhuomobudingduifangxinlidaodizaixiangshenme？