妻子该怎么看待丈夫婚外恋

老公出轨了 怎么挽回？婚外恋，这一在以前我们中国人来看不可饶恕的不正确，伴随着男士婚外恋状况更加普遍，非常一部分人觉得它是取得成功男生的“标准配置”，男士愈来愈觉得这算不得哪些大“不正确”，它是男士的本性。不管男生见解怎样，应对婚姻破裂，聪明伶俐女性要懂得解决。

一直尝试挽救男士

 zuixiankanlaiyixia，weishenmehuifashenghunwailianni?yongyijuhuaeryan，fashenghunwailian，dabufennanshishixixinyelianjiu，jishuobaile“jiazhongwuxinghongqibudao，waibiancaiqipiaopiao”。yidanzhangfu“yiyuchengchen”，qizitongchangbajingongzongtimubiaopianxiangdisanzheerkuanrongzhangfu，yizhiyuyongfanbeiderouqingsishuiquganhuazhangfu，yituganhuazhangfu，haotahuifanranhuiwu，“qixinfujiu”。

女性外遇损害更大

 fashenghunwailiande，zhangfuyou，qiziyeshi。yixiezhangfusuiyuqizipixinghebulai，danyinweiqizipingchangdangzuohaoqiziyouwushenguoshi，burenxinsunhaichuzailieshidefaqi，huopobudeyibiaozhungongzuoyali，burongyisuibianchongpohunyinshenghuoyuanqiang。ernvxingfashenghunwailian，tongchangshiaimuxurong，rentihexintaizhuangtaihuiqingbuzijindidichumuqiandezhangfu。yiner，nvxingfashenghunwailian，duihunyinshenghuodeweihaigengda。

外遇方一直找原因

 laogongchuguilezenmewanhui?nanrenyouhunwailianzenmeban?xuduorenganjue“hunneichuguibugouhunwaiqingbu”。fashenghunwailianderen，douhuiweizijidewaiyuyigekanqilaishidangdeyuanyin，lirufuqifenqiduo、xingshenghuobuxiediaozheixie，pengdaozheizhongnanti，fuqibuxiangquchulihuozhebumingbaichuli，bibushangzibaoziqi，zhaoyige“wenrouxiang”gengjianyi。

 fuqibiciyaodongdezenyangjilianggerendeganqinglengzang，raokaiganqingshenghuolide“taohuajie”。ganqingshenghuozhong，sanxiangbiaozhunyidingyaozhangwo，zheisangefangshi youliyuxiaochuhunyinshenghuozhongde“weiji”。

三个男人女人沟通交流标准

 fuqizhijianweichiyouxiaogoutongshihenguanjiande。zuixianyaozhongshilingyifang、yongxinlingting，suihouchongzubiaoshuzishenzhenzhengdejuedeheniantou。yingduimaodunshi，shaomaiyuan、chizehezhiling，tebieshizaibutantaosheiduisheicuo。

 hunyinshenghuozhongdeweiji，dalianglaiyuanyuyushenghuoqijuzhongdexiaoshier。dangzhengzhinanhaierbaidianfengzengjia、fenqitisheng，fuqizhongyouyifangbuyuanduodaizaijiazhongshi，shijishangweijizaoyidaolai。zheishi，jiuyingdangtuoshanchulifenqi，bixushi，yaokenqiuzhuanyerenyuanbangzhu。

 fuqijianyeshiyinsibaohu，bieyizhifanyuelingyifangdeshoujishang，bubiyizhi“chagang”，buxinlailingyifangtongchanglingrenshangxinyujue。yiner，fuqibicidouyingyouzhesuiyideneixinshineikongjian。

没哭不闹理性解决

 yaoshifuqizhongdeyifangfashenglehunwailian，beiciwaiyifangzhidaodehua，jiazhongdeyichangduijueshimianbuledele。dabufennvxingduizhangfudechuguixingweiduozhuyaobiaoxianweiyiku、ernao、sandiaosi，keshishishang，naodeyuexiong，zuizhongtongchangburongyitiaoxuanliyi;ernanshiquezhenghaoxiangfan，wufakuanrongqizifanxiadebuzhengque，gengbukeyijienaneiding“yuanliangmao”，80%zuoyouhuitiaoxuanliyi。

聪明的女人的解决之法

 jiarufashenglehunwailianzhihou，fuqibicidouqidaikeyiwanhuihunyin，neimahaiyaobaozhengxiabianjidian：bubisichanzaizheizhongshiqingshang。wulunlingyifangzenmeshuohua，bixushuodongzishenjianxinta(ta)。shizuogehunyinzixun，jijilingyifangyeshiweizijizhaoyigejiejuenantidejiyu。bubiqujingongdisanzhe，huoxudihuitaaiderenjiushishuodihuita。

 nidihuita，tajiumeiyouyaneganle。bubisichuchuanyang，bubixiangqinpenghaoyou、qiyelingdaoganbusuku，tashifuqideyinsibaohu。buranwaiyudeyifangmeiyouhuitoulu，weiyouliyi。

 zhaoguziji，bajizhongzhuyiliqianyidaoqitashiqingshang。shidushuomingnidexintai。bubizhouzhemeitou，gengbubikuti，ninenggaozhiwaiyudeyifangnizaoshoulesunhai，danbubiquzhuizeta(ta)guoqudeguoshi，ranglingyifangjuedejinjiadewennuan。nanrenyouhunwailianzenmeban?