3种心态让ta无形之中出了轨 老公出轨怎么办?

老公出轨 怎么办?一切一对踏入婚姻的人，全是互敬互爱，怀着相互白头到老的念头。殊不知，出轨却无时不刻的危害着人们的婚姻。

 laogongchuguizenmeban?nanrenyouhunwailianzenmeban?xuduoren，doujuedechuguishichuguizhedenanti，danshierquanshishuangmiande，yigebazhangpaibuxiangdedadaoli，renmenyingdanglejie。zaochengfufuchuguideyaosu，shijishangshishuangzhongde。neima，fufuhunyinzhongzuifeichangrongyichuguidexintaidouyounaxie?

1、孤单

 yiweiqiziduirenmenshuo："wolaogongzhangyijinjiajiubutingdibaibutadediannao。youyitianwoyaoqushushe，dangnixiangquwodepijiazishishoulideshuhechanpindoudiaolaidaotuli。yiweishanxindenanzijiwoshenchushuxunwendao：'e，nitingxiaigudianxiaoshuoma?'yilibaihouwodaonajiashushe，zhengqiaoyouyushangleta。

 diertianrenmengoutongjiaoliulesangeduozhongtou。shieryizhiyoucijibi，danshuoqueshide，cushirenmenguanlianfazhanqushidebingbushixingzhishigoutongjiaoliu。duizhangeryan，wozhibuguoshengzhixitongshebei、niwozhijianzhiyoubale。zheileigudanlingrenwufarenshou。"

 yigerenjiaruzairichangshenghuozhongquefaleqinmiwujiandeqinggan，ruguozhaobuzherenhezhifentanrichangshenghuoxuxuduoduodeshier。tongkuqingxubianhuiyiyuyanbiao。zheileitongkuqingxuganghaoshidaozhihunyinchuguideguanjianyaosu。

2、简单

 youyiweinanzijiangjiu，"11nianyilaijinguanwoyizhidianjizheqitanvpengyou，danquecongmeiyuanyiqueshixunzhaohunhouchugui。yitianyeli，youyuqizichumenwoduziyirenbaomingcanjiayigejuhuihuodong，yiweinvxingyaowodaotadezhusuoheshangyiliangbei。zuichuwojuedechijinghejiaolvbuan，gaozhitawoyaoqubushang。keneileixiangfayizhicijixingzhewo，ertianhouwojitaboledadianhua，shierjiuchanshengle。"

 waidirencijixingdeyinyoushidaozhifuqizhijianchuguixingweidedierweipubianyuangu。wanhunwuliunianhoujiqinggangkaishishuilengque，shenghuoqijushenxiangudingbudongdefangshi，yiqianwujuwushudefuqiyeshilexiaohai，erfuqishenghuoyizhizaiyiyangdeshijianliyiyiyangdefangshikaizhan。

 hunyinchuguizefanguolai，tachushilehenduotanxiandeyaosu：xinong、zhuiqiu、fengxian、shifangchulailedeganqinghedanyoubeifajuedejingzhan。

3、欠缺交流

 renmentingjianyiciyouguanfufuzhengzhidexushu："woduilaogongliucongbubangzhezhaoguanxiaohaijuedeshifenqinao。yinweiwoyouwogongzuo，rangrenfahuodeshiriliaojiawuhuobianchengwoyigerendeshi。

 yigexingqiwudezhongwutagenwoshuowanfanchishenme，wohuiyingdao：'chixibeifengqu!'tinghoutahuomaosanzhang，wodeganhuogengda。tapaodaofangwaihandao：'womeibixuchengshouzheiyi!'zhihoutagenwoshuo，neiyitianwanshanghewotadenvpengyoudiyicidaolechuang。"

 henduofuqiduiganqingshenghuozhongjubeiweihaishijiyiyidejiaoliufangshiqianquelejie，tamenxianghuzhijianchize，jieguonaonuheshanghaidaodeganqingshenruyishizhuxingdegegelingyu，tebieshizaishifuqishenghuo。hunyinguanxidechuangjianhebaochishigenjusixiangganqingdejiaoliulaibaochide，erfuqishenghuozeshiqingganjiaoliuzuiguanjiandeyizhongqinmiwujianfangshi。

 chennvshiduirenmenshuo："renmenweifuqishenghuoerzhengzhi，laogongjuedemeiyiciquanshitajiji，yinerhenbukaixin。dequeruci，tayitiandaowanwomenbengzhegelian，yinciwoyidianyebukenjiji。neiyangtabianyueguoshenshuitadelaidao，laidaozaochendoubulihuiwo。"

 zheizhongjubeisunhaixingdejiaoliufangshishibicidoubeishouqiku，binghuizaochengyulaiyumingxiandebeipaoqigan，fahuoherumazheizhonghuxianggongjidejiaoliufangshichongyilequanbufuqixingshenghuo。yiweimamarenkeshuo："tawobeikuaiqifeng，yinweiwojiubuxule。"

 yiweinvxingxingshibianhulvshimaiyuanshuo，suirantaxintaizhuangtaibiezhuqi，kebiaocengshanghaideyiweidirenrang。"gongzuoshiwolaiguan，woxiangtarenmingquetichugaojie。kezaijiazhong，wulunkeguanshishizhuangkuangzenyang，wolaogongzongjuedetayiguanqiadangkeshiwoyiguanbuzhengque。"xianggebanfa，chuzaineiyangyizhongguanliandefuqishifouhuidaohunyinyiwaiquxunzhaoaihexingdeguanlian?

 yuzhengjiubinyubenkuidehunyinyaobicuihuita、wanbitayaojiannandeduo，yebixugengzhangdeshijian。keshidangnijiyuyaozuofujianqinggandeshizhedehua，wulunshibushiyichuxianhunyinchugui。

 yincihunyinzhong，renmenyingdangduogoutongjiaoliu，duodongdeqianjiulingyifang，jiusuanzishenfazhanle，haiyaodaizhuzishendeqiziyiqifazhan。

 haodehunyin，bixuliangrenxianghuquyunying，ruoxianghuzaipengdaonantideneishihou，bingbushilijiquchuli，fandaoshitiaoxianghudenanti，neiyangdehunyinmeifazhangqi。renzhenquyunying，quqianjiu，kuanrong，duogoutongjiaoliu，shihunyinzhangshengbushuaidemiji，renmenbixudongdee。nanrenyouhunwailianzenmeban?