抵抗婚外恋：提高“正室”竞争力

男人有婚外恋 我该怎么办?第三者“转正定级”的实例，想来大伙儿都有一定的了解，即便沒有亲眼目睹见过，也应当从各大娱乐新闻媒体今日头是多少了解一些。

 xiangjinneiyangdeshilizaiwomenderichangshenghuozhongsikongjianguan，yixiehaoxiangbutaihedefufu，jielehunhenduonian，rengranxiangairuchujian;raneryoudefufu，queyouyuchuguinanren，nvxingcuoshi“jizhihua”ergebendongxi。nanrenyouhunwailianwogaizenmeban?nanrenchuguizenmeban?

 weihaizheiyiqiede，jiushishuo“zhengshi”dehunyinjingzhengli，zhengshuobaile：goubugoudezounanrenshidisanzhedefengcai，shoubushoushoudelenanrenshi“zhengshi”debenling。

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和谐聚财，不搞家庭内耗

 yigeguojia，honglaozaihaiheneizhanyueda，laobaixingjiuhuiyuepinkun，jiatingdoushizheiban。jiarufufuyitiandaowangaodeheyuanjiayiyang，bingbushiyouyuweihubaoyangfenbiedequanyierzaochengenyuanqingchou，jiushishuoweilingyifangdewaiyuerqijibaihuai，gesanchawuchaoshangyijia，neiyangzongshijianjiandihaofeinidejingzhengli。

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常常做家庭“年审”

 zheiertezhide“nianshen”，jiushishuozuoweizhurenjiadeni，yaodongdeyulaogongjiuliuyisheng，hetalingjulideshuoshuoxinlihua，kanyixiatajinqiyiduanshijianyoumuyouxinsi，jinjinzhuazhubawotadexintaizhuangtai。

 zhinengchixurenshizijidenanren，caikeyilejietayuanyinaxie，zhibizhijibaizhanbudai，buranzongshirangdisanzhezuanlezuankongzi。zhengshizhinenggenjujiating“nianshen”，caikeyichixudiaojiezishendehaohuai，chixubawolaogongdexintaizhuangtai，caikeyiranglaogongtihuidaolaopodetongqingdali，ganqingshenghuocaikeyiyuelaiyueyuan。

有着诸多相互的盆友

 yaolejiechuwaikaopenyoudedadaoli，renmaiguanxishijishangjiushishuocaifu。zhinengyouzhezhuduoxianghudepenyou，caihuiyoudaliangjiyudoubaidisanzhe。wuluntalaidaonaerchangyounide“yanzhuang”，jinidenanrenwushibukebutishizishenbukeyiluanlai。

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