发现男人出轨怎么办：老公出轨要不要离婚

 nanparucuoxing，nvpajiacuolang。duinvshieryan，zhangfuyouwaiyushimeiyoubanfakongzhidezhuangkuang，faxiannanrenchuguizenmeban?laogong ☞chugui yaobuyaolihun?canzaodisanzhechazuwanhuihunyinyaozenmezuo?

一、发现男人出轨怎么办：老公出轨要不要离婚

1.澄清事实

faxiannanrenchuguizenmeban?laogongchuguiyaobuyaolihun?

 shijishang，meiyoubixu，nanshengzaiwaibiandechengshoudezhongrenyiranshifenhouzhong。yaozuoxiaoxin，yangjiahukou，ailaopo，yangyuxiaohai，yeyaochumenbaomingcanjiashangwuhuodong，baomingcanjiajuhuihuodongdengshangwuhuodongjiangbiranxingdipengdaomouxieyixingpengyou，zheixiangyaoniyongyiduihaokandehuoyanjinjinglaikaizhanjianbie。

 canzaodisanzhechazuwanhuihunyinyaozenmezuo?xiangyaowanhuilaogongquantuidisanzhe?lijiyuyuezixunkuaisu wanhuihunyin !jiaruzheijinjinzheizhongwuhui，neimabuzhengquedeshangwuhuodongrutongchuguixiangtong，daziranhuizaimeiyouxinlaidezhuangkuangxiasunhaiqinggan。jiarumingquechuguilaogong，neimacaiquyouxiaohaiweishiweiwan。

2.变成感情的主人家

 faxiannanrenchuguizenmeban?laogongchuguiyaobuyaolihun?dangdajiasangshicaozongshi，zhurucileinaonu，tongchu，xinhan，wuruheweimandengganqingyaosujiangshiguanlijuecemaixiangfumianxinxifazhanqushi。tashi1getuolishijidejuece，tashibukexuede。

 shishishang，diaojieqingxushijiannande，buxuanxieshinanyirenshoude。danjiranzaoyichanshenglekeguanshishi，weihebugenggaiwendulairangzishenshuilengqueni?renmennenggouxunzhaokaopudenvpengyouyongcan，xianliao，zhizechuguidegerenxingwei，bingxunzhaomouxieyouxiaodetiyi;

 nihaikeyiquchubiganjianghenmanyinrudaoyuangaozhishang;huoshijinjinzhaoxunxiangertongyoulechangneiyangdediqulaicijixingjiaolvbuandeshenjingxitong。dangfaxiewanbishi，jingshenshizhiyoudianershifangyali，ruguonifanhuizheiyinantishi，nijiuhuifaxiannisuodejuecebiyuwangshigengqiadang。zongdelaishuo，rangxiaojiqingxusanfa，pingjingxialai，jijuyiqi，fangzhibicidexintaijianjuyuezouyueyuan。

3.想想

 faxiannanrenchuguizenmeban?laogongchuguiyaobuyaolihun?congshehuidaodedeshijiaokanlai，zheidequeshizheizhongbukeraoshudegerenxingwei。danchuziyuzheiyiyuangu，nibixulejiedaozhijieyuanyin。zheizhongqingkuangnenggouzhengshiliangrenzaiyixiecengmiancunyoubujunheng。canzaodisanzhechazuwanhuihunyinyaozenmezuo?

 shijishang，bulunshinanshengdechuguihuanshinvrendehongxingchuqiang，quanshizheizhongzhangqixingdexintaiyaoqiu，bingqiebixubukeyihuodekaolv。biru，suizhiyikuaierduguodeshijianyulaiyuzhang，henduolaopohuifajuetamendelaogongzaiyixiecengmianzuodebuzu，huojinjinzuohengzhejiaowei，suihouchangchangzaishenghuozhongbiaomingzheizhongniantou。

 jieguo，laogongzailaopoyanqianhuiyulaiyuganjuetamenbukeyizailaopoyanqianshenchutou，meiyouxinxin，zaitarenyanqianqianquenengliang，erqieyouzhongzibeixintai。zaineiyishunjian，ruguoyigenvrenjindaotadeshixian，jiandaoletalaogongdeyoushi，zanyanghehaowuyiwen，tajiuhuizaiannaibuzhuyouchuguidezhengzhao。yizhaozheileigousi，wangxiachen，jianjiandixunzhaoshitianpingchengwaixiedeyaosu，suihouchacheanquanxing。

4.消弱第三者

 faxiannanrenchuguizenmeban?laogongchuguiyaobuyaolihun? zaoyinongdonglekeguanshishi，caozonglexintai，sisuoleyuangu，shierbiandegengjiaqingchu。congjintiankaishi，ninengzishenzhizuo1gexuenian《fengcaiketangjiaoxue》。zenyangzhuyaobiaoxianheshuohuanenggougengyazhi;caizhuangheyundongjianshennenggoubiandeyuelaiyuenanxinghua;yueduwenzhanghetuozhannenggouyuelaiyuejuyouneihan。

 genjuciciexingshijian，ninengguanniandaoshandaizijishishizaitaiguanjian。laogongdechuguizhengshidisanzheyoubixudeyoudian。renmenhaibixugenjutishengxiangduigongzuonenglihechongfenfahuibenshenyoudianlaixiaoruodisanzhe。zhidiwubixianghuzhijianlejiezhangwo，duifangyou，renmenwubiyou，duifangmeiyou，renmenyeshi。

 canzaodisanzhechazuwanhuihunyinyaozenmezuo?yingduidirendeqinru，renmenbixuzuodeshibubifangzhi，zhishiyaofangzhitadeyoudian，yaozhangwotadenengliang，zhaodaotadeguanjiandian，bingbianchengzongtimubiao。ciwai，xianglaogongchuanchu1gequelideshujuxinhao：yinweinizaoyimishifangxiangleguoduanshijian，danwobuguaini，woyiranxinlaini，shiyongni，jiajiushinixinlingdeguisu。