hunyinzhongguodebuhaozenmewanhui,fanxiayuanzexingwentihou,ruhewanhuiaiqing,kansijiandanqishibujiandan,youqishineixiezaiganqingzhongyibuliushenjiucaidaodixian,fanxiayuanzexingwentidepengyoumen,xinlitouneiyigehuia,zhendeshibichiwanhuangqinhaiku。danbuyaozheji,shiqingyijingchule,womendexiangjinbanfawanliu,shiba?jiner,zanmenjiuliaoyiliaozheigeshiqing,kanyixiafanxiayuanzexingwentihou,ruheyibubuwanhuiganqing。
第一步:看清不正确,真诚道歉

zuixian,niyaoqingqingchuchudimingbaizijicuonaerle。bieshanshuoqici,yebuyaoxiangzheduobi。yuanzewenti,lirupanbian、mengpianzheizhong,duilingyibanzaochengdeshanghaineikejiubushiyixingbandian。niyaojingxialai,haohaofansheng,ranhougengeheshideshijian,mianduimiandiheduifangzhiqian。jilao,cikeqianwanbuyaozhaoliyou,yebuyaoxiangzhetaobizeren,jiuzhenzhenqieqiederencuo,nengrangduifangkanjiannidechengxin。
rencuodeqingkuangxia,yudiaoyaochengzhi,taiduyaoduanzheng。yekeyishuoshuotazheiduanshijianshiruhefanside,neixinduomehouhuimoji,duoxiwangnengdedaoduifangkuanrong。danyeyaozhuyi,buyaoshuodetaiduo,yifanglingyifangjuedenishigezaizhengbianhuoshituoshijian。diandaojizhi,nengrangduifangkanjiannidezhenxinshiyijiuxing。
第二步:给对方室内空间,理解对方体会
zhiqianwanhou,biejuedeshiqingjiuwanshierle。cike,lingyifangxinlitoudangranhaishihunluande,xuyaoshijianquxiaohuaxishouzheigeshiqing。niyaozhongshibierendeganshou,bieyigejingerdibilingyifangyuanliangni,yebuyaosipilailian,neiyangfanergengrongyinengrangduifanggengdichu。
jiduifangyixiekongjian,nengrangduifanglengjinglengjing。zheiduanshijiannei,nikeyishizhezuoyixiejijizhudongdeshier,lirutigaoziji,jiuzhengcuowu,huozheliyongyixiefangfabiaodanideqianjiu,liruxiejixin、zuoyizuolingyifangxiangzuodeshiqing(danbieguoduodajiao)。zheimezuo,jihuirangduifangkanjiannidegenggai,yehuirangnixinlimianshufudian。
第三步:以实际行动证实更改
guangshuobuzuojiabashi,xiangwanhuiganqing,niyaoquchushentilixinglai。yiqianfanxiadecuo,niyaobaozhengrihoujuebuzaifan。liru,jiarushipanbianwenti,niyaoduankaiyiqiebuzhengdangshouduanzhijiandeguanxi,nengrangduifangkanjiannidexinxin。yucitongshi,niyekeyizairichangrichangshenghuoduoguanxinduifang,duozuoyixienengrangduifanggandongdeshiqing。
jilao,zheixiegaibianbingbushiweilewanhuiganqingsuozuodebiaomiangongzuo,ershizhenxinshiyirenshidaozijibudui,xiangbianchengyigegenghaoderen。weiyouruci,nigenggaicaishiyoujiazhide,caikenengchudongduifangdexin。
第四步:细心沟通交流,重建信任

hunyinzhongguodebuhaozenmewanhui,jingguoyiduanshijiandeqinfen,ruguoduifangxianghenigoutongshi,niyaohaohaozhenxizheicijihui。zheigeshihoudegoutongjiaoliu,yaonaixin、yaozhenxinshiyi,xianbiejizheweizijibianjie,yebuyaoxiangzhebipolingyifangjienawodeguandian。duotingbierendexiangfa,lejiebierendeganshou,suihouyiqitantaozenyangzhongjianxinren。
zhongjianxinrenshiyigexunxujianjindeguocheng,niyaoyouxinlishangdezhunbei。zaizheiguochengzhong,nikenenghuiyudaohenduocuozheyushibai,danshizhiyaoniyongbufangqi,jianchidaodi,zongshihuiyoujiandaolimingdeyitian。
第五步:爱惜挽留的感情,好好经营
zuizhong,ruguonizhenqudechenggongwanjiuleganqing,biewangjiaixi。zheicijingliyingdangrangnigengjiagaoqingchu,aiqingbushihenzhengchangdeshiqing,taxuyaoshuangfangdeyizhinulihejianchi。haohaojingyingzheifenganqing,duoguanxinduifang,duolejieduifang,rangganqingzainidegongtongnulixiajichugengweixuanlidehuaban。
shuoleneimeduo,shijishangzuizhuyaodehaishiyidian:zhenxinshiyi。ruguonichengxinchengyidixiangwanhuizheifenganqing,qingyuanfuchuqinfenyushijian,jianxinzonghuiyouneimeyitian,dajianenggouzhongxinzoudaoyiqi,zaicizhuanxieshuyunimendeganqinggushi。jiyou!
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