夫妻爱情婚姻价值观的三大核心需求

aiqinghunyinjiazhiguandecunzaikendingbujinjinshiweilechuanzongjiedai，laobaixingchangjiang：“lianggerenzaiyikuaicouheguorizi”，guorizicaishiweichihunyinaiqingdeguanjian。kexianzaiderenmen，rizizaiyikuaiguobuxiaqudefuqiyuelaiyueduo，napajiushi“couhe”yehennan。

jiuqigenben，fuqiaiqinghunyinjiazhiguancunzaidesandahexinxuqiu：xianghudewuzhixuqiu、xianghudejingshenxuqiu、xianghudeshenglixuqiumeile，ruguohunyinzhongzheisangexuqiudoumeiyoule，liangrendejiatingshenghuozenmeguo？

一、夫妻爱情婚姻价值观的三大核心需求

1、相互的物质需求

“xiaonvren”caishinvxingdezirantianxing，erzuo“nvqiangren”shihoutian“bamiaozhuzhang”chulaide，shishehuijingzhenghenannvguanxijiaoliangdejieguo。nvxingbufangxuexixiawangfengyixianshengdenvdezhihui，jiunengmingbaiyigejiatingshifouanlexingfu，nvrendezuoyongzhiguanzhongyao，zuoyigexingrushuideqizi，jiunengrendingxingwang、zhufuchengde、jiatingmeiman。

2、相互的精神需求

lianggerennengfouxingfudeguanjian，jingshendeyuyuebiwuzhigengzhongyao，yinweiyongwuzhilianjiezaiyiqidehunyin，yidanwuzhitiaojiangaibian，hunyinjiugaibian。fuqijianyaochengweijingshenshangdebanlv，zaijingshenshangxianghuweijie，zairenshengguanjiazhiguanqiutongcunyi。

zaimeiyoujingshenshijiedehunyinli，fuqishuangfangjiazhiguanhuiwanquanbuyizhi，zheiyangyilai，lianggerendejibenshenghuomubiaobutong，genbenliyibutong，jiuhuizhigugezizhuiqiuzijiderenshengmubiao，erquanranbuguduifangderenshengzhuiqiu。

zheiyangdefuqizairichangshenghuozhong，ruoduifangchuyukunhuohuogandaotongkushi，yinweizigeguanniansuodaozhide“wufalijie”，yejiubunengjiyuduifangxintaizhichi，huiranglingyibangandaoshiwangheshanggan，ruciyilai，hunyinbenshensuojuyoude“jingshengongtongti”gongnengyejiuhuisangshi，shuangfangdouwufaganzhilaizilingyibandexinlingzhichi，rijiutianzhang，jiuhuixinhuiyileng，hunyinnanyicunxu。

hunyinbushikaorennaiweichi，bixuzailimianzhaodaolequ，fuqiyingzaishenghuozhongfazhangongtongdexingquaihao，rumeishi、pashan、tiyuhuodong、jiaowaibinguanzhuyiwandeng，gongtongcanjiayixietigaojingshensixiangpinweidehuodong，rucanjiashanxiujingxinying、tingtingyinlehui、kankandianying、jinxingsixiangpengzhuangjiaoliu，xianghuxingchengjingshenshangdeyilai，zheiyangcaiyougongtongdehuati，jishifuqi，yeshitongxingzhe。

zaihunyinshenghuozhong,fuqilianggerenyidingdouyaoxuexichengzhang，nayigefangbuchengzhang,jiushiduihunyindebeipan，zhiyoufuqishuangfanggongtongdechengzhang、jinbu，cainenggouchengyigegongtongdejingshenshijie。

3、相互的生理需求

 hunyinshishenme？duiyuwanmeidehunyinlaishuozhiguanzhongyao，ruonvdexinglengdan，huonandexinggongnengbuxing，zheiduifuqijiandeganqingshenghuahuixingchengyidaopingzhang。changshuofuqichaojia，chuangtoudajiachuangweihehao，qishizheiqizhongyinzangdexinganshi，zhengshibiaomingfuqixingshenghuozairichangshenghuozhongchongdangdediaohezuoyong。

huoxuhenduoqizixiangbumingbai“weishenmezijiqizaitoushangdeshihou，zhangfuhainengsipilailiancengguolaiyaoqiuqinre，nandaotamenbujuedeshijibudui、qifenbuheshima”。qishi，zheijiushiduiliangxingguanxizhishidequefa，jinguanqianyimiaohainuqichongchongbantuibanjiu，nazhiyifanhexiedechuangshangyundonghou，fuqidingnenghehaoruchu，sihuzhiqianchaodebukekaijiaodechangjinggenbenmeifashengguo，jiejuerenhewentiyebiandeshunli。

fuqiaiqinghunyinjiazhiguandehexiexingshenghuoshirenxingdehuiguiheyalideshifang，nanrenhuibianderuizhi，nvrenhuibianderoushun，suoyidangfuqigoutongchuxianzhangaideshihou，hebujiurangyuwangxianxing，yongqinmideroutijiechulaichongdanxinzhongdedusai，chuangzaochuhexiedehuanjingheqifen，ranhouzaizaizheigejichushangxiaochuxinzhongdebuyukuai，zhenchengdegoutongjiaoliu，jibianshinanduhendadeshiqingyehuidedaoqingsongdejiejue！

baochilianghaoxingguanxishimeimanhunyindeguanjian，zhuiqiufuqixingshenghuodegengxin，zhuiqiufuqixingshenghuohuoyuechengdudetigao，juefeioueryiciderenwu，ershiyitiaoxuyaofuqizhongshenbuxie、xieshoutongxingdetianmi“xingfu”zhengtu。

bawohaofuqiaiqinghunyinjiazhiguandesandahexinxuqiu，jiuyidingnengranghunyinxingfumeiman。