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一、女人为什么出轨:导致女人出轨的原因有哪些
“suiranchaochu90%deouzhourenjuedewubizaishehuidaodeshangshibuzhengquede,dan2015nianhunyinhexintaizhiliaozazhiqikanshangfabudezheixiangkexueyanjiuxianshixinxi,74%denanshihe68%denvshirenke,jiarutamenlejiezishencongmeihuodeguohunwailianluowang,” wevorcedeguanlianquanweizhuanjiahechuangbanrenmixieerkeluosibishuo。“zainannvzhijianbingmeiyouzheibandadechabie,yebingbushiduidangjinshehuishehuidaodenengliangdequweiqifa。
jiranrenmenlejienvshibingbushixiangrenmenxiangxiangdeneibandizhiwubi,neimarujinxianzaikaishishencengcizhangwohenduonvshisheqishicideyuangule,yizhangwozhuangkuang,jinguanyixieyuangujianghuigengshininsuoqidaide,danbierenjianghuiqueshihuirangninmanxialai。nvrenweishenmechugui?daozhinvrenchuguideyuanyinyounaxie?
1.情绪不稳定外遇
youderenjianghuijuedeganqingmengpianshimeihaideshouhou,danjishuzhuanyeguanlianzixunguwenkelisisaiteshuozheijinjinzaizhaoxunbubian。“xintaiwubichangchangzaochengrentimengpian,jibianzaijiejue'xintaimengpian'shixiankuangmohubuqing,wofaxianletajianghuiyiyangfengxian,”tashuo。
seiterzaicibiaoshushuo,ganqingmengpianjianghuiduibuyiyangderendaibiaobuyiyangdeshier,danzheirenhedoukanzuoyiyangdezhuguanyinsu:“jiarujiniganqingbixu,nibixuhuodenideairen,yexuqutarenweileshixianzheileiyaoqiu,neijiangbeichengzuoganqingmengpian。”tashuo,mouxieganqingmengpiandeshilibaohanzhaoxuntaren,jinijuedejingpei,guanjian,anxin,chengzanhuozancheng。
2.依赖设计风格
yigeguoduoyilaiairenderenbudakenengpiaobo,tashirenshengdadaolide,danxialuotehuohuade,boshiyanjiusheng。tashuo,zheixiebixugaozhiliangyilaiderenjianghuigengfeichangrongyiyouyuzheiyiyuanguerwubi。tashuo:“yilaishejifenggehuiweihaidajiazaihunyinguanxizhongdetihui,bingjianghuirangdajiadecunjinchidixunzhaodalianglianluo - zaizheizhongqingkuangxia,tamenjianghuipobudeyizaiguanlianyiwaizhaoxundaliangguanlian。”
3.心态上的舍弃
nvrenweishenmechugui?daozhinvrenchuguideyuanyinyounaxie?youyuzhixiqinshudaochang,bingbuyiweizhetahuizaiganqingshangjienachayan,zhenduimouxienvshieryan,zheileisheqijianghuihuihenzao。“dangnvshijuedexintaibeipaoqishi,changchanghuichuxianwubideyuwang,”
lcswdexinlizixunshiheguanlianquanweizhuanjiarhonda richards-smithshuo。“airenderenticunyoushizhongbunengbaochishenxinjiankang,lingrenmanyideguanlian。fufuwubianshigoutongjiaoliutamendeyaoqiuheqidai,youyuzheizhongjianghuihuisuizhishijiandebianhuaergenggai。erbingbushizuochujiadinghuoqidainideairenkeyilejienideniantou,youguanweikaolvdeganqingyaoqiudezhijieduihua。
malilian.weilianmusi,medianyanzhanxingherendedanaoxunlianguanlizhongxindechuangbanren,yuanyi,shuo,“yijuwodegongzuojingyan,dabufennvshiwubi(huobiaoshu/zhengshitamendewubigerenxingwei),youyutamendeganqingyaoqiuyaobumeiyouhuodekaolv,yaobubeijuedemeiyoubeitamendeairensuokaolv。tamenhaipagudu,beihulve,meiyounulidabufenneishihou,wubibingbushiyououyude;tamenguanniandao,ruguotarengangkaishiguanxintamen,tamenshishizaitaigudanhuomingan。”
zheijianghuitingqilaihaoxiangyigejingyuan,keshiwevorcedeguanlianquanweizhuanjiahechuangbanrenmixieerkeluosibishuo,jianyidefenzishengwuxueyoushihoujianghuishipiaobolaopodeyuangu。“henduoshierjianghuichanshengzainvxinggengnianqiqian,neishihounvshiqinshenjinglilemingxiandeqinmiwujiangerenxingwei,fenzishengwuxueshangbeibiaoshuweishengyundezuizhongjiyu,zheizhongyingjide,shengzhangjisuxingde”zantingyingye“shichangxiaoshou,”tabiaoshushuo。
4.亲密无间的害怕
danxinhunyinguanxiyougongzuonengliyiduozhongduoyangfangfahuihuaiguanlian。xialuotehuohuade,boshiyanjiusheng zheixieyouhunyinguanxinantiderenjianghuiyiranhuixunzhao**,danbukeyiyutamendeairenqiuzhu。tashuo,youderenjianghuihui“danxinhunyinguanxi,zhiyouzaiduofangmiandehezuoguanxiyiwaitihuidaoxingyuwang,youyuyuairenyouguoduodehunyinguanxi,juedegenjuxingshenghuojuedeanquanxingjiehe。”
5.支配权充分发挥
youshi,nvxingzuochuguidejuecezhibuguoxiangtadeairenzhanxianzhenshichengdandeduice。“dangnvshijuedetamendeguanlianzhongmeiyouhuayuquanshi,tamenjianghuigengfeichangrongyipiaobo,” lcswdexinlizixunshiheguanlianquanweizhuanjiarhonda richards-smithshuo。“ruguoyigenvrenganjuetaduijiazhongguanlijuece,jingyingqingkuanghuojianglaifanganjibenshangmeiyouhuayuquan,neimabaituozheiyiduanguanliandeyinyoujianghuihuifeichangyouhuo。shijishang,mouxienvshijianghuihuitihuidaozheizhongxirendequanlihekongzhigan。congyemimishijian。”
ashidanduntishirenmen,wubibingbushichongfenfahuiquanlideweiyifangfa。jianghuishikaizhanyongxintantaodeneishihoule。“dangnideguanlianyizheileifangfafazhanqushi,neimapingdingxiezuoguanlianshibushichongzulingbianbianyujinkuairangbuhexianghuguanlijueceyouweizhongyao,”tashuo。
6.钱
tingjianzheiyidabiqianjianghuihuirangnvshiwubi,nijianghuiburongyijuedechayi,danduiyudebiaoshujianghuiburongyiwoyiweixiangxiangdeneiban。yijuguanlianquanweizhuanjiayuehangeleiboshiyanjiushengdejiaofa。hechangxiaoxiaoshuodechuangzuozhenanrenlaizihuoxing,nvxinglaiyuanyujinxing,nvxinggengfeichangrongyimengpianshi,tamenyouzheqiancai,erbingbushiyouyutamenzouxiangshijiezhaoxunta。geleishuonvxingdejingjifazhanqudechenggonghuiweihaitadegaowanjisushuizhun,zheixiangfanhuiweihaitadeaiqingyishizhuxing。
“suizhihenduodenvshizaijingjishangdandu,tamenduiairendeyikaoshuipingjianshao。zheihuitishengtamendegaowanjisushuizhun,jianshaocixingjisu,tashizheizhonggengxiangnanshengdeshengzhangjisujunheng,”geleibiaoshudao。“zheileitishengdegaowanjisunenggoutishengtayulurenfashengguanxidechongdonghuoshiyuepaodekuaile。yucitongshi,jingjifazhangongzuonenglijiaoruodejihunnvshitongchanggaowanjisushuizhunjiaodi,cixingjisushuizhunjiaogao。zheileijunhengtishengletadeyaoqiu??heyilaiduitadeairen。”
shubuzhi,zaibanisuoyourendourenaoyiqian,guanjiandeshiyaoliuyigeleibingfeishuohuijishangdequdechenggonghuirangnvxinggengfeichangrongyiwubi,gengyoujianghuizaizheileichongdongcunyoudezhuangkuangxiafuzhuxingdong。“jiarutazaitadeguanlianzhonghuodekaolv,
7.报仇
yourenshuo,lianyuzaitamenshoushangmeiyounaonuxiangmiaoshinvxinghelangdamilrad,qiyechuangbanrenjianceo relationupshuo,youfeichangduodekeguanshishilezheiyidianer。tabiaoshushuo:“yixienvshizaoshouleairendesunhai,panbianhuobuzhongshi,bingjuecegenjuxingxingweituoliguanxibingrangairenlejielaiduifu。tashi'kanzhenixiaizheiyi'dejingyanjiaoxun。”
victoria lorient-faibish,xinlizixunshi,lianjiechuangzuozhe:rewire your relationship cultureyuanyile。“qinfenxunsuquanyuquanbudeyuanqi。bubirangchuangkoupokui。shishishang,dangnijuedebuanquanxing,suiyiheshufu,meibanfabeibierenwanquanxiyin,”tabiaoshushuo。“dangniduinideairenhuaiyouyuanqi,neimaduineireneryanmeibanfare,feichangshidangnichuzaizhangqixingguanlianhuohunyinzhong。”
8.脆化
haowuyiwen,suizhinvshigangkaishishuaitui,tamengangkaishiganjuezishenzaoyishiquyiqianbijiaomanyidehenduozhiliang,gail saltzboshiyanjiusheng,jingshenbingxuejia,jingshenshizhitouzifenxishi,changxiaoshuzuojia,jiqithe power of different podcastdejiemuzhuchirenmeiduanganqingshuo,nvxingchangshirangzishenduizhengjianshierjuedegengqiang。tashuo:“zhuiqiuwanmeixingganmiren,huopokeaihexingyuwangbianruodezhuiqiuwanmeiyejianghuishihunwailiandegangkaishi,feichangshijiaruduishuaituihesangshiyouhuolideyoulvkunhuota。” jinguangangkaishihunwailianjianghuihuishinizaiduanqineineijuedexingganmiren,dantamenduiniyijingzuodeshierdefuzuijianghuizuihouhuijinijuedegengcaogao。
9.以便增加趣味性
jibianshizuilingrenjidongdeguanlianyehuiyoushihouyuelaiyueyoudianerwuqu,tashihenyiqiezhengchangde,danyixienvshitiqianzhunbeichaoyuemouxiefeichangdadexiankuang,jiangjidongdaidaotamendeyishizhuxing。langdamilrad,qiyechuangbanrenjianceo relationupshuo,tashishishangshiyigeyuangu,henduonvshiduilaogongchuguixingwei。tabiaoshushuo:“yixienvshijuedezishendeyishizhuxingshenxianlejiongjing,tamendeyishizhuxingyuelaiyuenenggouyucefenxihewuqu。xindeguanlianhaoxiangshizheizhongzhenfenrenxindefangfa。” “mimi,momocengceng,xingreqingnenggougenjushifangchulaiquanbuzheixieliaoxiaolianghaodexiongxingheermenglaizaojiuyigegaokuanbi。zheizhongnvshichangchangfenlibinggaozhizishenzheijianshiqingbingmeiyoujiansuntamenduiairendeai。”
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