女人出轨对吗？能不能原谅？

 nvrennengchuguima？daanshikendingbunengde。gengbuyongwennvrenchuguiduimazheiyangdewenti。jidecengjingyouweiwangyouzheiyangwen：“nvrenchugui，duinanrenshiyishengdeemeng，danshichuyuliangxinhewanxi，kefouyuanliangtamen，zaijitamenyicijihui？”

 wodehuidashi：“buneng”，jiuxianghuidanvrennengchuguimazheiyangdewentiyiyang。chuguihaowuyiwaishiyizhongyuejiedexingwei，tashanghailebanlvjiandeguanxi、kuailehexinren。zhibuguo，womenduimuqianzheiyiyuefapubianxianxiangdelijiequefeichangyouxian，changchanghulvelechuguidebeihoushishenme。

 chuguinvrendexintaiqishishichuyuyizhongqiangpoxingdekewangerchugui，chuguizaimouzhongchengdushang，shiyizhongwufazikongdeqiangpoxingxingweimoshi，tamenxuyaobuduande“miyueqi”huozhexinxiandexingdeciji，laimanzuzijiduixingheaidekewang。erzaigengduodeshihou，chuguishichuyugezhonggeyangde、qitadekewang。kewangbeiguanzhu，kewangzhongshixinxin，kewangbeirenxuyao……chuguibuguoshiyizhongshouduan，shiweilejiejuechuguiyiwaidewenti，shiyigerenzaishenghuozhongdeqitawentidaozhidexingdonghefumianbiaoda。

 woshenbiandeyougepengyoushizuoshengyidehenyouqian，jilaopomaileaodichekaizhezaijialikanhaizishangxue，ergeerziyigenver，jieguozheigenvrengenzherenjiapaolesanci，zheigemenyeyounaixinlianxuzhaohuisanci。

 yiqihejiushuota，gemenzanyoudianzhiqihaoma，jieguotahuidaliangle，shuowoyouqiankeyizhaoyigenianqingpiaoliangdenvren，danshizheigenianqingpiaoliangdenvrenbuhuitengwodehaizi，lianggerenyiqilehuiyinweihaizichaojia……

 wozhisuoyizhaohuiguorizi，shiyinweihaizibijingshitashenshangdiaoxialaiderou，tahuitenghaizi，aizheigemenyelihaile，xiangxiangtashuodeyoudaoli

 shia，zijidenvrenchuguile，zuoweizhangfu，xinliyidingshinanjijieshou。ruguoyoulehaizi，neijiugengjiujie。qishi，zhiyaojingxiaxinlai，lengjingdekaolvyixia，quanhengyixialibi，zaigenqizihaohaogoutongyifan，zhaodaowentidejiezheng，neiyanghuigenghao，zuiqima，buhuijishuangfangliuxiayihan。

 ruguonvrenbusihuigai，bunianjiuqing，jixutadehongxingchuqiang，nanrenqingzhiyijin，zheiyangdenvren，fangqiyeba。ruguoqiangxingwanliu，zuizhonghuishishuangfanggengtongku。bunengjitaxingfu，jiujitaziyouba！nanrenxinxiongyingkuandayidian，yesuanshiduizijihetarendefuzeba。

wanhunwaidenvren，yaoxiangchenggongdijieshuhunwaideganqing，chedihuiguijiating，haixuyaoyouchengshouyiqiedaijiadexintaizhunbei。

 yijingxiguanyuhunwaiqingdecijidenvren，duiyuchangtaidehunyinshihennanyixiazishiyingde。yinci，huiguijiatingdekaishijieduanduiyunvrenshizuiweitongku，yeshizuinanaode。zheigejieduandenvrenshihennanhuodehexiedefuqishenghuode。

 jidecengjingyouweiduzhezaihoutaizheiyangliuyanjiwoshuo：“wolaopoyechuguile，erqiehaihuaiyunle，shineigenanrendehaizi，tazaijiachiyinchanyaobeiwofaxian，woyexiangdaolelihun，keyikanlianghaizi，taiduodeshiwunai！　　yexuwoyeyouzerenba！kenengshiwopingshiduitadeguanxinbugou，kewoshidachesiji，woyoulianggehaizi，weilejiatinghaizi，weidenengrangtamenguoshanghaorizi，womeibai，meiheidezaiwaimiankugan，wanwanmeiyouxiangdao，tahuizheiyangdeduiwo。”

 nvrena，yidingyaoaihuziji，qianwanbuyaosuibiandechugui。nvrenchuguiduima？chuguidenvrenzhongjiuhuihaileziji，danshihuayoushuohuilai，nvrenchuguiguoyici，jishizhangfuyuanliangtale，tadexinyongyuanyehuibudaojiating，buzaitazhangfushenshangle。

 nvrenzhiyaoxiajianguoyici，tajiuhuiyoudierci。chuguinvrendexintaijiuxiangtouguoxingdemao，changdaolemeiwei，yidanzaiwendaozheizhongweidao，napamingzhishibierenshexiadexianjingyeyaotouchi。suoyinvrenbuyaozuojianziji，qiexingqiezhenxi。