女人一旦精神出轨，离真正出轨就不远了吗？为什么会出轨？

youderenshuo：nanrenshentiwaiyu，buyidingshijingshenchugui，tadexinlihuanzhenaiqizide，danshinvxingtangruoshentiwaiyu，neimetadejingshenbidingzaojiuchuguile。weishenmehuichuguini？yixienvxingshixianjingshenchuguide，neimejingshenchuguizhihou，lishentiwaiyuhaihuijixuyuanma？laopojingshenchuguinengyuanliangma？dangnanrenfaxianqizijingshenchuguile，gairuhemashangwanliuqizi，shihunyinzaiduhuidaokaopu？guanzhuhuazhenqinggan，jiaoniruhekannvrenjingshenchuguiqiandezhengzhao。

一、思索自身的难点

dangnanrenzhangwoqizijingshenchuguideneiyike，huijuedeqizidiulebenshendemianzi，jiezhehuomaosanzhang，buduanxunchiqizidechugui，shenzhiduiqizibaozou，baqiziyuetuiyuezouyueyuan，zuizhongbatatuifanwaiyuzongtimubiaoneili。nanrenliyingnongqingchu，nvxingwaiyu，shuominglezheiyiduanhunyinshichuxiannandiande，weishenmehuichugui，nanrenliyingzuikaishisisuozishendenandian，zhaoxunqizijingshenchuguideyuanyin，cainenggouyongyaozhiliaoquxiubuzheiyiduanguanxi，wanliuqizidexin。

二、考虑到她的内心规定

zaihunyinrichangrichangshenghuojingchangjiandaoneibanyigechangjing，dangqizixianghezhangfuzuoxialaieryanjianghuahuozheyiqikanchangdianyingdeneishi，zhangfuqueyiliandebunaifan，ganjuebenshengongzuoshangneimeleihaiyaopeiqizizuozheilei，zhangjiuyiwang，shiqiziganjuebubeiguanxincongerzaiwaimianxunzhaoguanxinbenshendenanren，zhumingganqingzhuanjiamaikeleigeyiqianjiangguo：“yaoxiangbaochizhangjiuxingguanxi，zuizhongyaodeshibawolingyifangdeguiding。”yaozhidaonvrenjingshenchuguiqiandezhengzhao。nanrenliyinggaoqingchukaolvdaoqizi，lirugaoduzhongshi、nuanxin、jianshangdeng，yijuduogoutongjiaoliu，bawotadeganshou，cainenggoushitagengwenxindizuonideqizi。

三、提升自身的风彩

dangjiehundeshijianjiule，nanrenjianjiandirongjinlehunyin，yihaobuzaiyizaiqinglvyanxialuoluquedian，buyuanduibenshenyangeyaoqiu。qizitongchanghuijingshenchugui，zheiqizhongyigeyuanyinjiushizhangfudexiyinlibuzu，laopojingshenchuguinengyuanliangma？ruhewanhui？yaoxiangwanhuiqizi，niwubitishengzishendexiyinli，waizaifangmianxuejingxuanzeshihebenshendefuzhuang，shibenshenkanqilaiziranhuanjingganjingzhengjie，rangrenzhongaijiejin；shizhifangmianyijunianshu、lianmaobizi、peixunxuexideng，tishengzishendexiuyangheneihan，rangbenshengengyoufengcai。

zaijiejueqizijingshenchuguideneishi，tangruobudongfanshengziji，jinjinbazerendoutuifanqizidedeshenshang，neibanburongzhiyishijiakuailehunyinfenliedejiezouxing，yaoxiangwanliuqizidehua，niwubizhengqueduidaizishendenandian，mingbaiqiziweishenmehuichugui，jiyuqizineixinzhenzhengwubidewujian，jiezhechixutishengzishendeshiyongjiazhi，shiqizidexinzaiduhuidaonidedeshenshang，ranghunyinpojing。