老婆出轨我该怎么办，我该怎么挽回？

 bulunshinanxinghuoshinvfangchugui，quanshiyiyangde。doupanbianlelingyifangjiqihuihuailehunyinshenghuo。laopochuguiwogaizenmeban？ruguonidelaopozaiwaimianyouxierenbingwaiyu，huaiyilaopochuguishi，nigaizenmewanhui？zuixian，yaofansiziji，suihoupouxilaopowaiyuyuangu，zuizhongqinfengaibianxianzhuang，ranglaopozaicikanjianni。nvrenduocichuguihouhuigaime？

一、正确对待到本身的义务

 zaihunyinjingyingquanguochengzhong，zainifajuezishenlaopochuguile，huaiyilaopochugui，nixuyaoyongyudeyingdui，yongyudejiejuewenti，bunenglaoxiangtaobi，shiyouyutaobishijiejuebuleyiqienantide。ruguonizaiwanliulaopozhiqian，niyebixuzhengqueduidaidaobenshendenanti。nixuyaojuedelaopochuguile，yinerquanshitadecuo，neibanshibunengde。shiyouyuzainijuedebenshenmeiyoucuodeqingkuangxia，niyejiujiangbenshenfangjinleyizhongkendingdegaokuanbishang，neibandeni，youzenmecainengnengshunlifenlichulaidisanzheni？nvrenduocichuguihouhuigaime？

二、清晰老婆外遇的缘故

 suiyiyijianshiqingdefasheng，quanshiyouyuangude。yiner，nidelaopohuihunneichugui，neiyiyangshiyouyuangude。neidaodiweihenidelaopohuihunneichuguini？laopochuguiwogaizenmeban？henduorenhenyoukenenghuixiang，neijiushiyinweibenshendelaopoannabuzhugudanjimo，yinerhuilaiwaimianzhaolingyigenanren，danshinvxinghuihunneichugui，bujinshizheiyizhongyuangude。henyoukenengshiyinweinidoumeiyoushijianshouhouta，yinertajuedehengudanjimo，naizhishihenyoukenengshiyinweiniyemeiyoudadaota，yinertahuiquzhaolingyigenanren。laopochuguiledezhijieyuanyinshiyouhenduode，gegefangmianzhangwozhihou，nicailejieyaozennengzhengjiuta。

三、勤奋提高自己的修养

 nixuyaoxiangchaikaidisanzhe，shishishangzuihaofangshishiyinilaopodedeshenshangxiashou，zaiduxiyinzhunilaopodeguanzhu，shinidelaopokanjiannidehao，neibantajiuhuigengjiadeguanzhuni，erniyejiujiukeyichenzhezheiyijiyu，haohaobawozhunilaopodexin，yeshinidelaopodoumeiyoushijian，yemeiyoujiyuhedisanzhegoutongjiaoliu，ruciyilai，disanzhejiuhuijuedenilaopozheieryemeiyouqidaile，nilaopoyejiuhuimanmandiwangjiledisanzhele。ruciyilai，niyejiushunlidifenlichulaidisanzhe，zhengjiunidehunyinshenghuo，wanliunidelaopole。

 meiyigerenyaoxiangfenlichulaidisanzhe，neiquanshiyaotouruqinfende，tangruonixuyaoxiangrangtaquanzidonghuigai，yihouzhongfannideshenpang，zheijibenshangshiyemeiyouhenyoukenengde。erzainibenshentouruqinfenzhihou，jiuhuiyoufeichangdadehenyoukenengjiukeyifenlichulaidisanzhele。

 zongjie：zhishangbianshiyouguanwanliulaopodefangshi，laopochuguiwogaizenmeban？zaiwanliushi，bubizishenmangzhuangdequzuo，zuizhongzhidaowanquanwufamibushicaihouhuibuyi。