女人出轨失去家庭好后悔，怎样挽回老公的信任

nvrenchuguishiqujiatinghaohouhui，jingliguolianaihoumairuhunyinshenghuoshengdian，zhujiandetianmeibansuizheshijianyulaiyudan，weishenmejianchulianrongyichugui，youderenkaishilezaodongbuandezaodongbuan，zhaoxunreqing，fashenglehunwailian（qizichugui、zhangfuchugui），disanzhedefashengshihunyinshenghuoyaoyaoyuzhui，chuguinvrenlihunhoudexiachangshishenmeni，dangfashengzheileizhuangkuangshigairuhechulinantini？zuixianjigenantiyaorenqing：

1）waiyubingbushimuzang，bingbushizhongdianzhan；

2）hunyinshenghuoxiufushijiannande，danbingbushibukeyixiufude；

3）yudisanzhefenshouhou，caisuanshiguanxixiufudezhujian，erbushiwanbi；guanxixiufushizaixiufufensuidexinren；

这一全过程要历经三个环节：

diyijieduan——waiyudefajue，dierjieduan——fajuewaiyuhougaizenmeban，disanjieduan——guanxidexiufu，weishenmejianchulianrongyichugui？

diyijieduan——waiyudefajue，dangcaiyifashengshi，wulunshifouyouzhijiezhengju，duiguanxilaijiangquanshiyizhonghuihuai。duizishendezixinxinzaoshouweihai。duizishendepanduannenglisangshizixinxin。beipanbianderendeqingxushi：naonu、chijing、nanguo、danxin、kuijiu、houhuimoji……waiyuderendeqingxushi：kaixin、danxin、neijiu、yihuo、danxin……

dierjieduan——fajuewaiyuhougaizenmeban，waiyuchanshenghoujuecequanzailiangrenshoushang。youyixietiyizuocanzhao：dangtongkuchansheng，waiyuchanshengshi；

1、jiangdisunhai，biezhemoziji，bujianyiyongrouqingsishuixunhuita；

2、xianshulihaozishen，kanzishendefanying，yingduirenshengdaolujiaodadewaishang。shijishangzaizheigehuanjie，zhaoguzijicaisuanshizuizhongyaode；

disanjieduan——guanxidexiufu，zaizheigehuanjiebingbingbushiyikaishijiuxiufu，xiancongkuanrongzhujian，jieshouzheishidechansheng，xunzhaoxinlidepingjing。laopochuguishiqujiatinghaohouhui，kuanrongbingzaiciguanxi，zuizhongfuhexing，xiufuguanxi，zaicichuangjianxinren。ziranzheiyihuanjiehuishijiaoweijiannande，yaoyingduidaliangdenanti，biruxinlideshangduozhangshijiannenggouquanyu，airenhuichizeshilingyifangdecuo，jiqilingyifangdehaijizheixie，zheizhongniyejiubixujishuzhuanyedezhidaole，huichuxiangengweifanzadenantiyaoquyingduihechuli，nixuyaojianxinyou95%dehunyinshenghuoshinenggouxiufude，gengyaojianxinzijishinenggouxingfukuailede。

案例分析：

wojiehunqinianle，youyigexiaohai，hezhangfudeganqingjichuhuoshifeichanghaode，danwohaishichuguile。

tafajuezaoyiyousangeyuele，tougeyueyitiandaowankuangbao、zemawo，bingfanghuayaoxingxiong，rujintadabufenzaoyihenningjing，dabaitiannenggouzhaochangshangbanle。jinjinyidaoyeli，tabianhuiyibianyibiandixunwenwowaiyudeguanjiandian，jiaowobaogao，liruwoheqingrenjiujingdaolejihuichuang?doushizenmezuodeai?zheixie……

zheixiejiushiwozuibukenhuiyideshifenkechigerenxingwei，wohaipawojiangdeyueda，tadesunhaibianhuiyueduo。ketazuixiangyaozhidaodejiushiwoneishihoudexinlizhuangtaitihui，wobuganshuo，patachengdanbushang。

qishiwokandechu，taxinlingshenchuhuoshihenshuoaiwode，yexiangyaoyuwozaiciguoxialai，jinjintazongjinbuzhuquxiangxiangwozenyangheneigerenzaiyiqixingshenghuodechangjing，meimeineiyang，tajiucuicantaziji。tazaoyidaleneigerenle，yizhishuoyaoxuechi，zhaoneiyangxialai，wohendanxintazuochunaxieweifanguidingdeshierlai。

rujin，wohenhouhuimoji，yexiangyaowanquanfanhuizishendejiazhongzhong，danwojiaodadeyihuozeshi：

1、zenmerangtachuangjianyijianshidexinren?

2、tashuodaoyaoxiangwomeirihuihen，wojiang“baoqian，duibuqi”tabumanyi，woyebuzhidaoruhezuocaikeyishitajuedewohuihendexin?

3、zenyangbangtabaituoheiying?zenmerangtajinkenengmeiquxiangwoheqingrenfashengguanxidejuqing?

老师回应：

xianrujin，hunwailianjinguanyouyulaiyuduodefazhanqushi，danchanshengzaisheidejiazhongquanshibeijude。duinanshenglaijiang，tamenzuibukeyiyunxudebianshizishenlaopoderentipanbian，nifanleyigejihui。zheiyeshiduinvxingzuibuhelidediqu。

zuixiannixuyaohuizongzishenwaiyudeyuangu，chajuezijidenantijinjindiyibu，haibixuyongshijixingdongqugaishanzishen，zhenzhenzhengzhengjiejuekunnan。nidegenggaicaikeyishiyiqieyizhaonisuoyaoxiangdefangweifazhanqushi。bingbushishitaxinrenni，zhishinizenmegenggai、ruhezuoshitanengduinizaicichuangjianxinren。

zuixianyaolejiezishenyaoxiangnaxiedejieguo?naxieduinishizuizhongyaode?zheiyunizhangfushibushiyizhi?nishibushihuanweisikaoyixiaguotadeguandian?nixiangyaotoururuhedexingdong、caiyongruhedefangfabaituokunjing?……quanbuzheizhongdouxuyaojiezhunizijidenengliang。

nitiaoxuanhetazaicizaiyiqi，shiyuanziyiwu，renyi，zhenqing，yeyoubianshinizhangfuneixinhaishiainide，keshineixinmeifajienaniwaiyudezheiyikeguanshishi，yincinirujinyaoyunyongnideyantanjuzhilaishitaxinrenni，shitaneixinyouguishugan。xinrenshihunyinshenghuoguanxizhongfufusuogongxiangziyuandezuizhongyaotexing，yeshichuangjiankaixinde、fazhandeguanxisuobibukeshaode。nitidenantiyouyigedingweidian，neijiushimuqiannidezhangfuduinidebuxinren!nilinshizaoyishiquzheiyi，yaoxiangwanliubutaifeichangrongyi，xiangyaonidejianchibuxiehexixin。

shijidefangshinenggouzainichumenkouxianduitashuoniyaoqunali，huoshinichumenkouweitatiqianzhunbeileshenmezaimouyidiqu，suihoutawaichuninengtishitabieheguoduojiu、huoshitachangchangfandeyixiewentinitishixiata，jinguanzhujiantahenyoukenenghuiguzhuangzishi，hushini，youyutahaipasuibianxiangxinniduitadetouru，keshitaneixinshihenqipan。

nizhangfurujindeyantanjuzhishinijuedezaodongbuan，tashinenggoulejiede。kandechulai，tashigehenlijideren，meiyouxiangnimanbaozishendeniantou。lingyifangmianhenyoukenengzheizhongjiyiliyutahuijiaoweishen，nixuyaoyouguanniantiqianzhunbei，yaojianchibuxieyounaixin，neiyangcaihenyoukenenghuajieweiji。

dajiayitongyouzheyigejia，tashidajiadesuoshudian，zaizheiernenggouxunzhaodajiadedegongshi。shijishangnizhangfuyeshigelianjiaderen。neima，jiarunicongjintiankaishi，zhushiyijiaweiben、yiqinrendekaixinkuaileweizhongxindianqutouruzishendeguanhuaiyuxingdong，wojuedeyiqiedoushihuijianjiandihaoqilai。jiarubuhao，zaifanshengyixiashibushifangshibudui?

nvrenchuguishiqujiatinghaohouhui，jitamenyigechengnuo，zheitongzhiqianshitongyangguanjiande。yunyingdajiadejia，rangtanengjianjiandixiufuzhiqiandejunheng。nideciciguocuodengtongyubadajiazhongjianqiniandeqingganyinxingcunzheliyixiaziqulikaileyidaban，yincicongxianzaiqizaixianglibianduocunyixieai、guanzhu、shiyong、lejie、zhongshi、lingting、meihaodejiyi……