女人出轨最怕的是什么？

dianziyoujianlijiedaoguoxuduonvxingduzhelaixin，xinhandeneirongbushishuozishennanrenchuguile，huoshiyounaxiepoxiguanxibixuqingtu，zhishihenchengxindishuo，wochuguile，buqingchuxiayibuyinggaizenmeban？duilaogongmeiganjuelexiangchugui，bansuizheshehuifazhandefazhanqushi，nvxingchuguilvyulaiyugao。nvrenchuguiqingqiulaogongyuanliang，yijubeijingdaxuexingshehuixinlixueyanjiuzhuanjiajiaoshoudediaochafenxibiaoming。neime，nvrenchuguizuipadeshishenme？

nanshimeisanrenzhongyouyirenchugui，nvxingmeishiwurenqunzhongyoulianggerenchugui。chongfenkaolvnanshitongchanghuikuadaqicizishenyunvxingguanxideshujuxinxi，ernvxingtongchanghenmiantiandibaohuzijidemimi。zheiyishujuxinxihenyoukenengyouyidingdebianxiao，erbushikuadaqici。

nvrenchugui，xingshiyifangmian，henduorenyexuyouzheiyiyaoqiu，keshihuiyouyugezhonggeyangshehuidaodehuoshishehuiyulunjiangzheiyiyaoqiuyayiganzhu。

danzheiyijuebushichuguideguanjianyuangu，guanjianyuanguhuoshiduishenpangneirenchedisixinle，pinsipinhuojiuxiangjizijihuoyici。nvrenchuguizuipadeshishenme？

congzheiyishijiaoeryan，chuguidenvrenfeichangdashuipingshangshiyongyudikangyunshidenvren。duilaogongmeiganjuelexiangchugui。

meiyouzaibukandehunyinshenghuolilunluo，zhishitarulelingyitiaochulizhitu，natiaolubuyidingqiadang，danyeshitajiangzhudaoquanbawozaizishenshoushangdeyizhongfangfa。

那女人出轨以后，最担心的是什么呢？

nvrenchuguizuipadeshishenme？shibeilingyibanfajuema？

shijishangbingbushi，zuishaocongxinjiandeneirongeryan，beifajuebingbushizuidanyoude。

youyiweiyueduzhebianshuo，tabingbuhaipazhangfufajue，youyutachuguishijiugaohaolezheiyitiqianzhunbei。

tahezhangfuzhangqixinglengbaoli，jishixiubudounanyi。jishibeitazhangfufajue，yitazhangfudexingqing，tagengqidaiweicituidongtaliyi。

hunyinshenghuoguanxiyuanbenbianshihenfanza，yikaishiqingkuangxia，nijuedelingyifangrenhedongxidouhao，nenggoujingennidejiaobu，mouyitiannichajuezijizouzaileqianbian，yuanyuandibatashuaizaibeihou，huoshiduitabuhuizaiyouyikao，chajuezijibingmeineimeaita。

hunyinshenghuobiganqingfanzadediqubianshi，ganqinglibuxihuanjiukeyifenli，hunyinshenghuoquebixurenzhenquweichi。nvrentongchu，nanrenyenanshou。

chuguiyihou，nvrenzuidanxindeshi，zaicichuangjianxinlaiheai。

youyuninanyiquebaonichuguidenanrenhuiyizhiaini，neiyuanbenbianshiyizhongbuwendingdeguanxi，bujinbuhuishoudaofalvfaguiweihu，bingqiehaihuijixuzaoshoushehuidaodechize。

neimeniweiyijixiwangyudehenyoukenengjiushizheigenanrenshizhendexihuanni，jinyouneiyangnicaihuiganjuezishenzheiyicideyingyongshifeichangzhidede，bulunshiyiqisannianwunianhuoshisanyuewuyue。

congnanshishijiaoeryan，feichangshaoyounanshihuiaixichuguidenvren，chufeishitazhendeshiaizheni，xiangbaohuni。buranjuedaduoshuhuoshixingshangdehuxiangyaoqiu。

congnvxingshijiaoeryan，xiangxinmeimingnvxingdouqidaizishenmishangdeneigeren，shishandaizijiqiefeichangzhideaide。

youyuxingshenghuoshiyizhonghensimideguanxi，bicizhijianshangxiheenaishibixude。

nanshihenvxingzhongjiandezheileichabie，huirangxuduonvxingchuzaichuyubeidongdeyingxiangli。

yiweinvyueduzheshuo，zishencongxingshanghenyikaoneiyigenanren，youyutajilelaogongjihujibushangdexingaijingli。

danbenlailejietajinjinxiaixing，quenanyijiejue，nanyiduankai，erduishenbianderenzaoyinanyixingfu，youyutabunengmanzuzishen。

taneineixingaozhizijishuo，yaoheneinanrenduandiao，youyutajinjinzhitutadeshenti，keshitayoujiejuebushangneileiyinyou，talejie，zhixulingyifangzhaohuan，tabianhuiganxinqingyuandizaidushenxian。

那针对这类关系而言，如何处理呢？

jiarunizhenjiejuebushang，neimejiugaohaobaohuzijideduice，bulunshishentideweihu，huoshigerenyinsideweihu。

yeyou，xiediaoxinlizhuangtaideyali，youdeqingkuangxia，qiangshidepipingshijishangbingwuyiyi。

tamaikailaidaozheiyibu，jiunanyizaifanhuineileidandingcongrongderichangshenghuole。

ernvrenbaohuzijizeshizhongshendeshier。

zheileiweihuyoushuangcenghanyi，yicengshi，nizhidaorangzishenshentibushoushang，liruyiwaihuaiyunle，shengbingzheixie；lingyicengshi，jishimouyitiannizhenlilehun，ninyouzishenchongzudezichanhedanliang。

chuguizishenshidaishangshenhuisedechongdong，rutongweizijisidiaoleyidaodaikuankouzi，danxindebingbushixingzishen，zhishishifouhuishenxianyizhongshenhuisedediqu。

xiangxinhunneichuguiyeshiyouganqingdecunyou，bingqiehuihenenai，danzheileijilvbingbuhuihengao。

jiarunipengdaodeshixunzhaocijixingdeguanxi，neilingyifangxingquaihaojiangdideqingkuangxia，shibushiniyouyaoxunzhaoxiayiduanguanxi，haorangzishendexinshenyebukumen？

zaizheileiguanxidezhaoxundangzhong，henkenenghuirangzishenshenxianyizhongwuxianxunhuanzhong，cijixing，xinhan，zaicicijixing，buduanxinhan……

ziran，ruguonijuedeneiyangderichangshenghuotingbucuode，neiyemeiyoushenme。

xiwangdeshi，jiarunitiaoxuanlechugui，jiuxuexinanshi，bubiweizijihendadeshehuidaodegongzuoyali。

youyuduinanshirenquneryan，zheixiefangmiandeshehuidaodegongzuoyalihuixiaoxuduo，yaobudangchudongguanshineimahuo，nandaoshuonizhenrenweiquanshidanshennanshiquxiaofeia。

erzheileishehuidaodegongzuoyalijiangdiyihou，haibixuyigexinlizhuangtaideyuji：

你到底必须一段哪些的关系？

nishiqueshidanchunzhaoxingdedadao，huoshizhaoxunganqingdedadao，shizhiweijianqinghunyinshenghuodekuzaofaweihewuqu？huoshiniyaofazhanqushiyiduanshiniyuelaiyuegengqiangdeguanxi？

weiyouniqueshilejiezishenxuyaoshenme，caikeyijiejuehaogezhonggeyangguanxi，baohanhunyinshenghuo。

youyujiarunilejiezishenjinjinxiangdadaoshentideyaoqiu，bingbuhuitiaoxuanliyi，hunyinshenghuohainengxiubu，neihenyoukenengburongyitiaoxuanliyi。

erruguonijuedezaoyinanyihuidaozuichu，zhongjiuhuilaidaoliyizheiyibu，neimenihuoshizaozuozhunbei。

zaiqizhongyigeyueduzheshuo，chuguiyihou，jiuhenxianglihunle，danlihunhou，haowuyiwenyebuhuihechuguidemubiaowanhun，youyulingyifangyeshiyoujiazhongde。

tajiangzishennenggouyangjiahukou，nenggoudaiwa，weihehaibixuneiyigewuguanjinyaodenanren？

 xingmeiyou，jingjifazhanshiyongdoumeiyou，tadecunyoujiuxuduoyu，tarangtazheibanshenrudeyishidaohunyinshenghuodewuquhewukenaihe。

eryouyixie，jishihaiweichizhebiaocengdehunyinshenghuo，quechajuezijicongcihuibudaoguoqule，jiusuanshixing，yeyouxindeduobi。

nvrendeshentibinanrenchengxin，nanrenshijishibuxihuanhaikeyiyunixingshenghuo，ernvrenshi，neileijuedexiaotui，jiufeichangshaozaixiangpapapale。

congrendebenxingshangeryan，nanhaihenvhaiduishentidepibeiganshijishangshiyiyangde。

nvrenchuguiqingqiulaogongyuanliang，zishenshibushiyeyouziwojiazhi？zheijiushinvrenchuguidanyoudediqu：

zaiyiduanyouyiduandeguanxizhizhong，buqingchushizishenbeishuilehuoshishuiletaren，zaizishendeshenshangchuanqidenanren，xinlishizaiqueshishandaiziji，huoshiqiaobuqizishen。

ziran，henduorenburongyiquxiangzheizhong，danyiduanguanxi，yisibuguaxiangyuyihou，sheibuxiwangshiyouqinggandezijintouruni。

erxinjianzhizhong，yinggaizenmebandetiwen，xuduoyeshiyouyuzheileidanxin。

shijishangyinweiwojichubulaihaodetiyi。quanshichengrendetiaoxuan，zhiyoufanhuizishenxinlizuizhenzhengdeniantou：

nitiaoxuanzhujianzheiyiduanguanxi，nixinlishibushiyukuai？nishibushikeyichengdanzerenhuoshibuliangyingxiang？shibushiduibenrenjingshenfengmaohexinshenyouyidingdexiezhuzheixie。

wojuedezheinenggouzuoweifenbianyiduanguanxishibushiyouliedefangfa。

jiaruchuguizishen，zaoyishinishenxianyigehennanshou，naizhicuicannixinshendegerenxingwei，neimeniwubizhongzhita；

jiarucicihunneichuguideganqing，nenggoushiniganjuezishenshiyigeyingshengshengderenle，fangfoyouhuoleyici，neimejiunenggoubaochita；

ruguonijuedehetanenggouyouyitongdetuidong，nenggouyougengqiangdegoutongjiaoliu，zheiyiduanguanxishirangzishenfazhande，neimeninenggougaijinta。

fanhuizuichudenanti，chuguihou，nidanxinlingyifangfajuema？

nvrenchuguiqingqiulaogongyuanliang，jiaruniqueshikeyigaoqingchuzishenbixuheshi，bianhuilejiemeiyoushenmehaopade。