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nvrengushi：woyou“disanzhe”ming。yibannvrenchuguidoubuchengrenma？jialinshigepiaoliangdenvren，shanghairen，jiatingtiaojianyouyi，youxiaodaoda，dushugongzuozhongdouhenshunli，tazhuzhongrichangshenghuo，mingbaiqinjianchijia，zuizhongyaodeshi，haitaonanrenxiai。nvrentouyicichuguideganshoushi？zhaolishuo，tayinggaishifeichangrongyijiarende—bingqie，tayexiangrenzhendijiaren。danshi2020nian，tazaoyi30suile，lianhunyinshenghuodemenkandoudouhaimeichudao。wushisuinvrenchuguilvshiduoshaoni？

congershiyisuidaosanshisui，zhengzhengdeshinian，tashenxianleyigeganqingdeguaiquan，bianshibuduanshiyandisanzhe、lianrenderenwujiaose。“wohaoxiangyoudisanzheming！yiqianyouyiweigaoshoushuowoyoudisanzheming，yikaishiwodoubuxiangxin，kezheimeduoniandeqingganjingli，yaowoqueshiyouyixierenshule。”

chulianqingren，woshiyigedisanzhe

woshikanqiongyaoxiaoshuochengzhangde，xiangxinganqingyingdangyishengyishi，danxiangbudao，wodechulianqingrenjiuyudaoleyigeyihunnanren。tajiushiwosanbiaojiedepenyou，wenrunruyu，duiguanjiandianbijiaomingan，neixinshenchuhaitouzheyigukuangye！wushisuinvrenchuguilvshiduoshaoni？

diyicikandaota，worutongbeiguanlemiyaoyiyang。nanrenhenvrenyidingyouyizhongkanbudaodehuahewu，yifangshifangchuqu，lingyifangyidingnengjuededao。dajiaxunsujiuyongyouxiangchu，taqizixingchedaiwoyiqiqushengtaigongyuan，yiqikanyixiadie。neiyangdeqingkuangbuduanlehaozhangshijian。dandajiacongweiyouqiquelidimingqueguoguanlian。rujindeshehuifazhan，mihunzutingduode，benlaiyijingjiehunquehaixiangyoudanshengongzidaiyude，taiduole，tashifouhuiyeshizaiqizhongyifenzi？youyici，wozhuangzuowanxiaodiwenqi：“niyoumeiyounvyou？”shijishangwoshiwanxiao，bingmeiyouqueshineimejuede。danshixiangbudao，tajingranchengxindihuiyingwo：“woyijingwanhun2nianle！”nvrentouyicichuguideganshoushi？

jielehun！hai2nianle！zheiyihuiyingyaowojingderenhedongxidoushuobuchukou，neixinluanwubi……tayidingshikandonglewo，duiwoshuo：“woxihuanni，yeshuoaiwolaopo。woainidegexinghua，wolaopohenheshiguorizi。”woxiangqilesanbiaojie，tanenglingwaijiao3genanyou，hemeiyigerenzaiyiqidoufeichangxingfu，tajiang，renshinenggoulingwaiaijigerende。worenwei，nengdedaoneiyangdenanrendeai，zaoyishifeichangxingfudeshierle，woyounaxiebukeyisheqide？bubianshimingfenma！woxinyuanbenbeiyixiazidadaodigu，neimeyixiang，youyoushengdaorenjiantiantangdejuede。woneishihoutuokouduitashuo：wowusuowei！

neiyihou，tayaowo“lianrenlaopo”，dajiayiranxiangzhiqianneibanyouhui。keshi，lejietayoulaopozheiyijianshieryihou，wofaxianle，zishenhuijinjinjijiao，yuelaiyuebijiaomingan，meiyicijiedaotadeanyuxinxineirong，youqishidangxinxineirongzuizhongyigezishi“bu”，huanjuhuashuo，tarujinbufangbianlianluo，wodoushihuiyouqishangxin。nvrentouyicichuguideganshoushi？

tayutadelaopozaiyiqi，womeifarangzishenmeiquxiangxiang，tamenyijingganshenme……yuanxian，aihezhanjushihuadengyuhaode，wobuyuanyihesuoyourengongxianglianren。wobuduanzhaoxunbierenheshihaofeiwoduitadexiangnianhecaixiang，danwohaishiyulaiyufeichangrongyiqingxujidong，feichangrongyishangnao，meiyicixiazhetengquanshizhongcuican，haofeiqinggan，yehaofeixinshen。

womendeguanxiyouyutalaopodeyunqijieshu。lejiexinxineiyikewoquanshenshangxiafaleng，tichufenshoudejuecelaidexunsu，rutongdangshiwodasuanzuotalianrenyiyang。wojuede，zhangqixingdecuicanzongsuanjiangwodedongnenghaoguangle，woduitayouqinggan，danhenlei，wojuedexiexi。

woyoudisanzhemingnvrengushi：woyou“disanzhe”mingjialinshigepiaoliangdenvren，shanghairen，jiatingtiaojianyouyi，youxiaodaoda，dushugongzuozhongdouhenshunli，tazhuzhongrichangshenghuo，mingbaiqinjianchijia，zuizhongyaodeshi，haitaonanrenxiai。

dierchangtanlianai，wohaishidisanzhe

liqutayihoumeiduojiu，woyoukaishileyichangganqing，tajiushiwogaoxiaodanliandeshige。biyezhihou2nian，dajiabujingyixiangfeng，meiduojiuhoujiutanlianaile。jinjin，meiyouxiangqideshi，tayuanxianyizhiyouyigejiuchanbuqingdenvpengyou，zhixuneinvrenyihuijiazhaota，tajiumeiyoubanfameilita。zheileiguaiyideguanlian，rutong《wuyebasailuonei》neibudianying。neinvrenyouyitianzaiwangluoshangzhaodaowo，shuowoshitamenzhongjiandedisanzhe，ertayerenke，tawufawangdiaota！

jiushizheiyang，wozaiyigebenlaishizhengpinnvpengyouderenwujiaosetuidaodisanzhederenwujiaoseli。tichufenshou，meiqitatiaoxuan。yibannvrenchuguidoubuchengrenma？

bushangdabannian，liangcinanyiwanghuaidetanlianaidouyidisanzhelichangdejieguojieshu，zheiyaowozaochenglehenshendehaipa。jinguancicitichufenshou，fangfoshiyouyuwoshoubulezishenyoubianchengdisanzhe，shijishang，woshichibuxiaotabuaiwo。woduidisanzhezheiyirenwujiaose，conglaimeiyouyiqiechengjian，huoxushishouqiongyaoxiaoshuohezhangxiaoxiande“mianbaoshu”xiliechanpinweihai，worenweizhixuyouzhenzhengdeaiqing，zuochuyiqieshierdounenggoubeikuanrong，jiusuanxingxiongdoubingbushizui，zhenzhengdeaiqingshizaowuzhu。gengbuyaoshuoyingduimengpian、weifanshehuidaodenaizhishifanlunlidaodedegongzuoyali，yinci，woyizhimeiganjuezishenbaoqianzheizhongnanrendezhufang。ziran，jiarudisanzhedanchunshiweileqian，huoshiweilegenghaodichulishenglixuqiu，neibianshiduiganqingdedianwu，zuigaiwansi。

nandaoshuoyiqiedoushiminglizhuding？

zainayiduanshijianli，wogenjupenyoudexiangxijieshao，benzouxunzhaoyiweihenshendeyijingdashibangwokanming，taduiwoshuo：“nizhihoujishiwanhunyehuizaiwaimianxiangaideren，huoshibianshiganletarendelianren，danshi，nihenshanyuyangai，zheixieqingganyebuhuizhangqi，yincinizhangfuburongyilejie。”woneixingadengleyixia，xiangqiwoqianbiande2duanqinggan，ganjuezishenfangfobeiyiguqizhilongzhaozhele！nandaoshuowozhongjiuyaoqingganwaiyu？zheiyiniantouyaowodanzhanxinjing。

fanhuijiazhong，woyusanbiaojiejianglezheiyijianshier，dajiabumouerhedixiangqiledajia4gebiaojiemeideyunshi：dabiaojiejiehunhou，heqingrenqubeidaiheguosanshisuishengri，jieguodaoshangchanshengchehuoshigu，zai28suizuihouyitianguoshi；erbiaojiejiehunhouyizhengciyandiheqingrentongjushenghuo，yelile；ersanbiaojie，jihudoujiaocaijigechuan，qianxinwankuzaihelanpengdaoyigewoxiangjiehundenanren，jieguoguiguohoufajuetayoulaopo，tadelaopohaicengtongdianhualaijiazhongshualaikuangma，yijiarenbudanmeiweihusanbiaojie，haidouyankedichizeta。zheishiyiwangdousannianle，tahaimeiyouzouchuqu。

dajiazenmehuiyouyiyangdezaoshou？xiangtongdianjiuyige：dajiadebabamamaquanshiyiyangderen。tamenyouqiyanke，xiguanxingduidajiaxiazhiling，yizhishuo：“wojiadenvhai，bingbushisuiyisheidounenggouqude！”dabiaojieerbiaojiedehunyinshenghuoquanshibeiqinrenqiangzhifenpeide。

womamayijianshijihujiujinyouzhize，jinyouzhiling！zaizheileiduanqichaxia，dajiameiyigebiaojiemeidouhenpanni，shuohuangchengxing。chengnianrenyuejidajiashezhiguiding，dajiajiuyuewandemeibian。woyunanhaierwandaohighdeqingkuangxia，shouqianshou、xiangyong、jiewen，youshihezuilehaihuijixuyikuaiertangzaiyizhangchuangbian，shuoxieteroumadehua。zheizhongxingweijilexuduonanhaierganqingdeanshizhe，suoyiwoconglaibuqueyixingpengyou。

wohenxiangyoutamenchongwo，zaibierenlaikan，zaiganqingshang，wohaoxianghenmeibiaozhun，keshi，youjigelejieqishiwotaibixuguanhuai，haipagudu？renyuefagudan，yuefafeichangrongyibeilveweiduinitaojinhudenanrenchudong。

yiqiandezheixiehuayanqiaoyutongtonghuaweiwuyou，tahuitichuzhiyinanrenweihesipolianpizheimekuai，quanbunanrenshifoudouneiyang，doubukekao？

没法防止的痛苦

dinglihaiyudajiagongxiangleyigeshili。yiqianyouyigenvxing，tayurujindelaogongenaishi，laogongrengzaishangyiduanhunyinshenghuozhizhong，xiangduixingxingyundeshitaqudechenggongshangtai，bianchengnanrendexinrenlaopo。danbeijudeshi，zaitayunqideqingkuangxiananrenchuguile。taxunzhaolingyifang，nvshengjuranbuqingchuzheiyinanrenyijingjiehun，naizhibuqingchuyoutadecunyou。

yibannvrenchuguidoubuchengrenma？yinciwulunshijijiganyutarenhunyinshenghuohuoshi“beidisanzhe”denvshidouxuyaoyouyigejibenshangderenzhinengli：ruguonichuixiantarendelaogongdeqingkuangxia，nijiuxuyaoyingduisuizheerchengdetongku。jiarushangtaiqudechenggong，nanrenpaoxialelaopoyudisanzhezaiyiqi，neimazheiyinanrenyiyangnenggoubayiyangdeshiergongxiaozainideshenshang。