老婆出轨了我可以原谅她吗？女人为什么出轨？

xuduoqingkuangxiawomenbunengyigaierlun，zhishibixushijinantishenrufenxi。nvrenweishenmechugui？laopochuguideyuangushiduofangmiande，henkenengshizijizuodebuzuhao，hulvelelaopodetihui；laopochuguikeyiyuanliangma？huoshishiwaibuhuanjingyaosudeweihaihenda，womenbunengjiyulaoponenggougenghaodixiangyou；yihuoshishifufubicidejiazhiguannianbuyiyangzheixie，zheizhongquanshizaochengfuqiguanxikunjing，laopochuguideguanjianyaosu。hunqianchuguizenmeban？

 keshidangbeiwenqilaopochuguigaibugaiyuanliang，xuduonanshengdediyifanyingkendingshi“buyuanliang”，keshizaizheilijiandingbuyidejuezeshenhou，daliangdeshiyouyubuding。youyuqinggan、xiaohai、zichanzheixiegegelingyudeyuangu，huirangrendaojuezeshibukeyibaozhengneimajianjue，youyubuding。hunqianchuguizenmeban？

shijishangzaiwendaojiarulaopochuguiyingbuyinggaibeiyuanliangshi，zishenxinlizaoyiyongyouyigehenquelidehuida，zaiwenxuntarendequanguochengzhong，jinjinweilegenghaodiweizijidaliangdenenggouzuozheiyitiaoxuandeyuanyineryi。huasuineiyangshuo，keshizhenduilaopochuguishibushibeiyuanliangzheigewenti，zaililunshangyeshiyounengbunengbeiyuanliangdeyuanyinhejiexian，shijishangnenggoufenxiabianhaoduogequkaizhandingyi。

一、两人的价值观念是不是彻底更改

nvrenweishenmechugui？wulunshitanlianaihuoshiwanhun，zaiyiqideyuanyinbujinshiyouyuenai，daliangshiyouyuliangrensanguanjiaoweixiangtongyi，xingquaihao、xihaoyejiaoweileisi。yinci，jiaruzaihunyinshenghuozhong，jiaru2gerendesanguanzaoyiwanquanfashenggaibianle，neimaneiyangdehunyinshenghuoyezaoyichedideweifanledangshizaiyiqidechuxinle。

zheigeshihouzishenjiubixushensishulvshibushibeiyuanliang，qianwanbiebeiqianbanerganleyouweifanzishenxinliniantoudejueze，yaoxunmizishenzuixinlideniantou，qukaizhan。jiazhiguannianfashengbianhua，liangrenzaiyiqiyehuiyouqideguaiguaide，huigesanchawudezhengchao，qingganrengranhuifashengbiedegecengmiandekunjing。yinci，yuqishuoneiyang，haibibushangtiaoxuanbuyuanliang，xiaoxiaosasadeliyi，fanglingyifangzou。

二、出轨的原因是不是可被原谅

chuguideyuangushiyouhenduozhongduoyangde，youjijichugui，yeshiyouchuyubeidongchugui。shuobailejijichuguijiushiyiqiedechuguiyuanguquanshibenshende，zishenduizheiyiduanhunhoushenghuobumanyi，keshilingyifangmeiyouyiqiedebuzhengque，erzishenzuochulezheiyiduanchuguidegerenxingwei，ruguoshineiyang，neimaneiyangdelaoposhibukeyibeiyuanliangde，wulunyiqiantaduizishenyouduomehao，nanrenmenyeyingdangtiaoxuanliyi。

laopochuguikeyiyuanliangma？jiaruyigenvrenxinzaoyimeiyounideshenshangle，neimatajirannengzuodiyici，jiuhuiyoushihoudedinci。shenmeshichuyubeidongchugui？bianshishuangfangdouyoushenmewenti，huoshishinanxingxianchugui，zaochengnvxingweilegenghaodixunzhaojunhengerchugui。

ruguoshineiyangdeyizhongfangshi，neimaneiyangdechuguijiarushuangfangdouhaizaihubicizhijian，yeshinenggouzaicilaidaoyiqi，shinenggoubeiyuanliangde。guigenjiedi，shijishangbianshikanfenshoudeyuanyindaodishibenshen，huoshilingyifang，yihuoshishibicidoushiyou，suihouzaizuohenglianghejuece。

三、是不是也有情感寄予

disandian，yeshigengweiguanjiandeyidian，liangrenzaiyiqishiyouyuganqing，jiaruhaizaiyibicizhijian，haiaizhelingyifang，jiububibeizheiyijianshisuojidao，yaorenzhenquyingxiangtamen，rangtamenzaicifanhuizishendeshenpang。jiarutiaoxuanyuanliang，jiuluoluodafangdiquyuanliang，bubiyizhinazheijianshiqingshuoshier，yizhidanxinzhe，jiaruzhangqixingneiyang，yehuizaochengqingganzaidumaixiangliekai，jibianhehao，erneiyangdeyuanlianghaibibushangbuyuanliang。

laopochuguikeyiyuanliangma？laopochuguiyingbuyinggaibeiyuanliang，tarendejianjieshizhongdoujinjintarende，guanjiandejuezehaibixukanzishen，jiaruzishenkeyifangkaishou，juedemeiyoubixuzaizaici，neimajiutiaoxuanbuyuanliang，xiangfan，jiuyaotabianchengyiwangba。