出轨的女人的自白：已婚女人为何会外遇

chuguidenvrendezibai，yihunnvrenzenmehuiwaiyu？chuguidenvrenhuihouhuima？tamenshixiangzhuiqiuwanmeishenmema？nvrenwaiyudeliudayuanguyoushenme？nvrenchuguideyuanyinshishenme？

一、填补生活苦闷、寻找心理状态和生理学上的赔偿。

zheiyidayueshiyihunnvrenzuifeichangrongyiwaiyudeyuanyinle。nvrenchuguideyuanyinshishenme？lirushenghuobuzuxingfukuaile，zhangfubutiexin，zhangfubukeyichangchangshouhou，zhangfubuanshishi，zhangfumanggongzuozhonghushijiazhongdeng，nvrenxinlifanmen，meifabaituo，yinciqidaizaihunneichuguihuodeganqingfuwei，tashixunzhaoxinlizhuangtaishangdepeichang;lirudabufenyihunnvrenshenghuoshineikongjianzhaixiao，chukaijiazhonghexiaohai，chediqueshizishen。dangzhaoliaowanqinren，yingduizishendeqingkuangxia，tongchanghuineixinkongxu，huiduizishenmanmanxiaotuideqingchunnianshaoermangran，huihuangkongbuan;lirushiyeyouchengdenvxing，gongzuozhiyu，jiushiyingduishenghuodewuyingudujimo;liruzhangfurentibujia，bukeyirangnvrenshenglixueshanghuodedadao，huoshizhangfudefumofangfaguoducubao、guoduruanruo，nvrenwufadedaozishenyaoxiangdefangfa，fuqizhijianyouqianquegoutongjiaoliuzheixie。rujinhulianwangbijiaofadale，nvrenbuhuizaidabufenzhuneile，chupengwaibudejiyuyulaiyuduo，jiashanghulianwangshangzhizaibidedenanrenyouxieshi，zaiqizhongbuquechusedeliangqingxiangyuederen，jifangoutongjiaoliu，jiukedadaoxunsuwaiyu。

weicibianjiedefangfalaikuanweineixinherenti，shinvrenzuipubiandefangfa。chuguidenvrendezibai，youhunneichuguinanrenduishenghuodemibu，nvrenyehuijianjiandizhenxizijimuqiandesuiyue，yuelaiyueenaduozi，zaiganqingjiededaoxinshengeryuzishen。zheilibianfenyigeconghuinvrenhebennvrendexunweifangshi。conghuinvrenjinjinbazheileipeichangzuoweidiaoji，nenggouxunsujiena、xunsuqianyi、xunsuqingchu，jizuodaomudiyoubusunhaijiazhong;bennvrentongchangbingbushixinxianzaiqizhongbianshixinshenjuxian，zuizhongzaochengyuanlaifuqiganqingpolie，sunhaizishenyousunhaibieren。zheiyidianshijishangfangxiaonanrendetanyujiukeyi。quanbudenanrendouqidaiwaibiancaiqipiaopiao，jiazhonghongqijiaocheyilibudao。

二、女人也是要寻找婚姻生活的神秘感，婚姻生活并不是感情的墓葬，则是热情的消退地。

sanwunianzhishangdehunyinshenghuo，duoduoshaoshaodoushihuifashengreqingxiaosandezhuangkuang。danreqingxiaosanjinjinzhiyingduiteshudemubiao(zishendezhangfu)xiaosanle，bingbushishuonvxingzishenmeiyoureqingle。yingduirijianpingpingdandandehunyinshenghuo，nvxingyehuichuxianzhuiqiushenmigandeniantou，yeshiyouzaiyiciyingduizaodongdeqipan，yeshiyouganshoufengkuangxingshenghuodeyaoqiu。danyibanlaishuo，xuduonvxinghuiyayiganzishendechuxinxinyuan，yongjiazhonghexiaohaizhuanyizhuyili，manmandiyejiujuedeneiyangdepingpingdandancaisuanshiqueshishenghuo。danshimingbaishenghuo，zhuiqiuwanmeishenghuopinzhidenvrenyizhihuiannaibuzhu，tahuixiangxiang，tahuiwaiyu，tahuizaihunyinshenghuowaizhaoxuncijixingyuan，tahuirangzishendeshenghuorongguanghuanfachubuyiyangdefengcai。yinci，weilegenghaodishenmigan，nvrenyehuiwaiyu。chuguidenvrenhuihouhuima？

三、为烂漫故。

zheileinvrendayuerenhedongxidouhao，huoshirenhedongxidoubutaihao，chuguidenvrendezibai，tamenweilegenghaodixunzhaolanman，jiuyiduanjieyiduandiouyuhunhouchugui，huoshizhuiqiuhunneichuguinanren。tamenxiangyigehaodeyonghu，bananrenyigejieyigediyouhuodaoshenpang，dakai，renzhenyuedu，suihoushouzangzaibuyiyangdesuiyueshuzhuoxia……zishendeshenghuoyeyinergesegeyang。zheileinvrenyingduinanrenyouyizhongsatuojing，keshuyuan，kefengkuang，kesheqiyiqie，kezhangwofencun，zongeryanzhizainanrenyanqianbianshiyiweiyu，dexinyingshoudichenzuiyuzainanrendedashenhaili，zongxianglanman。zheileinvrendayueyeshinanrenmenaibushishoudejuepin。tamenburongyijinanrengongzuoyali，xiangchuqilaisuibianqingqingsongsong，burongyiwuyuanwugujiuyaonanrenchengdan，rangnanrentouruhunyinshenghuodechengben……dahuoersuibianwanglai，fahuqing，zhihuqingjin。zheileinvrenyibanlaishuojiaoweizishen，youzishenlishenchushidegongzuozhong，meiyoujiazhongfushuxing。yeshiguishuyuconghuiyileide。tahuifenbianjiazhonghehunneichuguinanrenfenqingshifei，huixuanze。

四、达到征服欲。

henanrenyiyang，yihunnvrenyehuibazijizhanjudenanrenzongshuzuoweiyigexiyindezhibiaozhi，laikaoliangzishendefengcai，kaoliangzishendegongzuonengli。zheileinvrenyoujiqiangdefenfajinquxing，youtanyugan，bahuodeyigenanrendangzuoshigongzhanyigeshanshang，tahuibuduanzaishenghuozhongchaoyueneiyangdeshanshang，ganshoulizaifengdingneiyikedehuoshengganhechengjiugan。nanrenzaoyibingbushinvrenhaipayangwangdetaiyangguangle，zaishenghuozhongyemeiyouneimaduomu。hunneichuguinanrenyoushibianshiyigegefengcaizhibiaozhi，xiyinyige，jiujinvrentishengyidianrenqizhi。zheileinvrenyemingbaiwennuan，dangengshanyuzhangkongnanren。biaomianyexuruoliufufeng，danxinliyidingshifendeqiangjinghejiandingbuyi，huijianchibuxie……danyetongchanghuizuodaomudihousangshixingquaihao，diaotoujiuzou，jiyiguanqiangjingdenanrenyizhongjiweimingxiandeshiluogan。

五、为寻找婚后均衡。

zheileinvrendayueshenghuodehenwunai，hendigu。chuzaijiazhongchuyubeidongdeyifang。tamenyingduizhangfudedenghongjiulv，yingduizhangfubuduannianhuarecao，zaoyimanmanfama，yincichuziyuxinlideborandanu，yehuiwaiyu，zhaoxunyizhonghaoxiangdejunheng，mazuijizishen。zheileiwaiyutongchanghanyoubuxingyanse，chongchizheshenghuodewukenaihe，huoxu，yeyounvrenduizishenshenshendidekuijiu……dangnvrenmeiyounenglianghenanrenyiqiezhengchangpidishi，zhiyoucaiquxiaochendefangfa——nichenlunyinweiwochenlun，dahuoerchepingle!

六、单纯放肆型。

zheidayueguishuyuxingyuwangjiaoweichongpei，huoshiganqingjiqifengfuderenhuizuode。hunyinshenghuoneimeibanfadadaotadexinlizhuangtaiheshenglixuyao。yincitabuduandoushilieyan，hebuyiyangdenanrenjiuchanbuqing，weidebianshifangsi，weidebianshipingfuzishendeyuhuo。chuguidenvrendezibai，youyexuzheileinvrenbenbingbushihenqipanfangside，zhishishenghuojideyalida，meiyoushihedeshifangchulaifangshi，yincinarentipaiqi——yuefangsiyuewangdiaoshiji，yueqingqingsongsongba。keshini，nvrenbingbushiyizhongjiandandedongwu，tamenguannianfanzaweiyi，henkenengduozhongyaosuzonghexingrangtamenwaiyu，rangtamencongbuyiyangcengmiandedaoshengdexiangyou。