女性婚外情怎么办，怎样对付出轨的女人？

xuduoshenxianhunwaiqingderenquanshishenbuyouyi，bunengziba。zenyangduifuchuguidenvren？shubuzhitoulaideaiqing，touhuilaidexing，zongbingbushizhangyuandasuan，daidaoyiyuchengchenzhiri，huoxuninenghouhuimojijinrisuozuo，shubuzhizaozhirucijinriaicuoleren？nvfangchuguiyaoshenmezhengju？nvshihunwaiqinggaizenmeban，yibubujiaonibaituohunwaiqing，jinweicipiansongjiyijinghunwaiqingzhongqianxinwankuzhengtuo，yaoxiangbaituohunwaiqingderen！laopochuguizenmediaocha？

一、婚外情利弊剖析

hunwaiqingsuochanshengdelibipouxihenzhongyao，youliyunijiandingbuyiwanbihunwaiqingdexinxin。

li：xiangyoudeshiqinggandeshifangchulai，dedaokaixindeqingxu；bi：qiancai、shijian、huolidehaosun，bukeyitaiyangdixiapuluqinggandeneixinnanao，yeyoumanbaodehuanghuayuzhenzhengdezhuangji，yidanpuluhunwaiqingdekeguanshishi，jinyoubile，jiawuningri，yulunyali，gongzuozhongweihai，penyouyanguang，jiarenchizezheixie，ruguoyoudanliangyongyuzhuiqiuwanmeiqianliyinyuanyixianqian，li：dedaolezhenzhenzhengzhengdezhiai，zongsuanxiangyoutaiyangdixiashouwanshoudexingfukuaile；bi：zhongzujiatingdehaizijiaoyu、duiqianduanhunyinshenghuodeneijiu、jiqishehuifazhanxinlaidezaicichuangjian，jiarushouyibutaigaodeyeyouchanshengjingjifazhandegongzuoyalizheixie。zenyangduifuchuguidenvren？conglibipouxideshijiaoeryan，jinzaoxiaochuhunwaiqingdeenyuanshizuimingzhidexuanze。

二、消除关联

1、jiangdijianmianjiyu,fangzhidulijianmian

zuixianhunwaiqingbiciyaoyoujiandingdexinnianhequelidexintai，juecewanbizheileibujiuzaideguanlian，fangzhidulijianmian，queshiwufageshe，jianmianshitiaoxuandedizhiyingxuanneileibuyizaochengnuanweidechangdi，huozaiqunzhongchangsuo，bicizhijianxinliyaobalingyifangdang“xiongdi”“penyou”，tanxintanhuaneirongguanjianjinxianyupenyouzhixinjiandeguanxinwenhao，tanyitangongzuozhong、xuexipeixun。

huoshiweilegenghaodiqingqingsongsongziranhuanjingnenggoubicizhijiankaiwanxiao，tucaotucao，fangzhitaolunqingganleihuatitaolun，pirushuo“sinian”zheilei，jiaotanshiyeyaoliuyibubigaliao，jinkenengweichiqingqingsongsongkaixindeqifen，fangzhiyanguangdezhangqizhuangji，jiarufajuezhangquanbushangjushishi，jinzaozhuanyihuatihuowanbijiaotan。

2、jiangdilianluo，bulunshihulianwanglianluohuoshidianhualianxi

hunwaiqingyaoxiangduandewanquanshiyijianhenbuyideshi，jibiannengcaozongbujianmian，keshilianluoshimianbulele，duanxiaoxi、shoujiweixin、dianhuadenglianluodepinlvjinkenengzhujianjianshao，duanxiaoxi、shoujiweixin、dianhuadengdeneirongyejinkenengbaochizaipenyou、xiongdidefanwei，manmanjiangdiduitadeyilai，jiarulingyifangburenxinsheqi，jiqingbujiang，zuihaoshidefangfashixinyaohendian，buhuihuozheshaohuiduanxiaoxi，dianhuashedingbujie，bushangweixinliaotian，ranglingyifangjieshu。

三、迁移对婚外情的依靠

1、让自身繁忙起來

 daduoshuhunwaiqingdoushiyouyujimoredehuo，qinggangudu、neixingudu，zheishihoufashengyigetouyuan、huiguanxinrendeyixingpengyou，rijiushengai，hunwaiqingnanyibimian。

yincirendaogududeshihouhuiqingganfanlanchengzai，jiushihuixianghuikandeyingpianyiyangyimumuzaiyanxia，zennengsheqi？zendongdesheqi？weilegenghaodiyiwangzheiyifenqing，jiuwubifangzhigudu，rangzishenfanmangqilai，meiyoushijiangudu，meiyoushijiansinian，nenggoujianshenyundong、qukanshu、tingge，danyaoliuyibukanyanqingxiaoshuo，butingqinggegequ，fangzhibeishang，weichikaixindeqingxu，lejiemeiyouta(ta)derichangshenghuorengranjingcaifencheng！nvfangchuguiyaoshenmezhengju？

2、扩张交朋友范畴

hunwaiqingdezaocheng，shuangfangduoduoshaoshaohuimanmanshengshuxirideguizhongmiyou、yixingpengyoupengyouhepenyou，juecewanbihunwaiqing，jiudeshiqiyiqiandezheiyifenyouyi，yongyouyiqudaibujiankangdeganqing，changchangheguizhongmiyoubaochilianluo，yeyaojuyou3-wugeyixing，duogoutongjiaoliugoutongjiaoliu，shifangyali，danrengyaoliuyifangzhiyixingpengyoujianyiduiyidegoutongjiaoliu，shijishanglikaihunwaiqingrenzhongjianzhaixiaodeshineikongjian，ninenghuranfajueshijieyouduodashiduomededekuankuo。

四、重归家中

1、关心日常生活

jiashishenme？shihaigang，shihanyangzhouzhuandediqu，yeshirenshengdaoludejiaqizhan，shidonglizhuangzhi。

jiazhongkaixinqingqingsongsongdeqifenduidajiameiyigerenshiheqiguanjian？laopochuguizenmediaocha？hunwaiqingzhongshuaichuqudexiangzheyaohuijiale，jiudecongguanxinjiazhonglidemeiyigerenzhujian，yaosikaobabamama、dixiong、zimeiduozhangshijianmeidianhualianxi、meijianmianle？

yulianrenduozhangshijianmeixiangyong、meiqinwen、meixingshenghuo、meigoutongjiaoliule？duozhangshijianmeiguanxinxiaohaixuexile？duozhangshijianmeizuojiawule？xingdongqilaiba！jinkenengzaojiuyixieqingsongzizaidejiatinghuanjing，bingzaojiujiyulingzheqinrenwaichudujialvyou、xiuxiandujia，jiazhongjiatingzhuyaochengyuanjiandeyouhaodu。

2、提升责任意识

《hunyinfa》liquelilefufubicideyiwuhezhipeiquan，zhipeiquansheidouwangbudiao，danshizerenyishizailingsuiderichangshenghuomanmanxiaochu，youqishijiazhongdezheiweiruguoshigezuiqiangzhe，jiazhongdeyiwuhaoxiangyuzishenbuxianggan，yiqieyoulianrenqingxi，yagenbuyongzishencaolao，zerenyishidexiaochu，bidingzaochengleduijiazhongqinggandelengmo，zishenbazijikandeyigejiajinyoujiaofeideyiwule，biedeyigaibuxianggan，qiahaoshizheileishiminggandequeshao，caihuizaochenghunwaiqing，yiner，zhaodaoyigejia、duilianrendezerenyishishiqingganzhongguideguanjianqudongli。

zenyangduifuchuguidenvren？baituohunwaiqingdequanguochengwanrujiedusuo，henyoukenenghuifashengtengtonghebuduan，zheiquanshiyiqiezhengchangde，shubuzhijuebuhouhui，zaicixiangqianzou，jianchidaodijiunengzouchuqu。yeyaofangzhifuxi，yidanzaicizhanyou“yanyin”，xiayiciyaoxiangjiechuhenyoukenengbixushubeideqinfen。