zuoweiyimingzhengqilinrandexiaonanzihan,tangtangqichizhiqu,dajiadoutexiangyouyifanzuowei。shuhunvrenchuguizhishushiduoshao?gongzuoshanghuodedefazhanqushi,yingzaoleyigemeimanxingfudejiazhong,jiaoyuchuyiweichusedeernv,zheizhongdounenggoushiwomenganshoudaowuqiongdemanzugan。laogongzonghuaiyiwochuguizenmeban?shubuzhi,womenzaiyingduishehuifazhanzheiyijingjichangshang,zheibanshenxianshizu,youdeqingkuangxiaquehenyoukenengzaoshouhouyuanqihuo。laogonghuaiyiwochuguizenmeban?
zhenduiqizidechugui,yinweidajiashouzhecongguzhijinjiusixiangdeweihai,juedehendiumianzi,naizhiganjuezhenshishiyizhongwuru,dezuilezizun,yizhiyudajiananyishihuaiqizi。zheishinisuozuodejuece,shiguannidefazhanqushi、jiazhongyeyouernv。
一、静下心,看一下难题出在哪儿。
fufudeqinggan,shiyouliangrenyitongyunying。jiranqizichuguile,neimadajiajiubukeyibafuqiganqinggeduankaikanlai。zuixian,womenyaoqueliyidian,bulunshinanshenghuoshinvrenwaiyu,zheizaiqizhonghuichuxianyixiemeiyourongqiahaodeyaosu。neimadajiajiuxuxianzhaoyizhao,shizenmehuishizaochengqizichugui?nantichuzainaer?shinameiyourongqiahao?huiwangyixiaqianyiduanshijiandefuqixingshenghuo,shichangchangzhengchao?huoshiyouyugongzuozhonghushiletadetihui?shidaoqinianzhiyang?huoshijinqidenannvguanxibutaihemuzheixie,zhuduodeyuangubixudajiazuozhuyidepouxi。laogongzonghuaiyiwochuguizenmeban?kenengzaigenjuyiduanshijiandesisuoyihouyongyoujieguo,zhenduibuyiyangyouyindewaiyu,chulidefangshidangranyebuyiyang。
jiaruyingongzuozhonghushileqizi,neimaninengduopeibanta,nvrenduilengdandechengshoushihendide;jiarudajiachangchangzhengchao,neimaxuehuifangxiayiyi,buxiangganbiaozhundenantinenggourenrangliangbu。jiarudaoqinianzhiyang,zenenggouyijutadeaihaoshengchanzhizaoyixielanmandeyuansu。ruguoshinannvguanxibutaihemu,neimanenggouhuanyixiexinxiandeziranhuanjing。zongeryanzhipengdaoqiziwaiyu,xianbiezhejishuoliyi,youyixieyuanguchedibianshimouleiyaosuzhishiweirongqiajishibale。yinciduizhengzhiliaoshijiejuekunnandezhongyao。
二、人和人之间不一样,慧眼识才是重要的阶段之一。
shuhunvrenchuguizhishushiduoshao?weishenmehuichugui?youyixiezhuangkuangxiaqizidechugui,tamenhuichongchizhekuijiu,juedezishenbaoqianlaogong。danrenherenzhijianfazhanziranhuanjingbuyiyang,yaoqiubianbuyiyang,kanqingyigerendeshizhicaikeyihuodegengmeimanhunyin。zhenduixialiejilei,dajialiyingjinshentiaoxuan:
1、tanliannanse。zheishijieshangbujinshinanrenxihuanrongmaodenvren,yiyangnvrenyehuiduirongmaojunxiudexiaohuozaochengzhiaizhiqing。yibanzhuangkuangxiadaojiehunhoudoushihuijinjinshangxibale,danbuqingchuyouxinlibutaichengshuderen,zaichongdongdeposhixiahuichuxianshentilixing。laogonghuaiyiwochuguizenmeban?
2、guzhennanmian。dajiameiyigerendoushiyouzishengerenaihao,zaisuipianshijianyehenyuanyiquzuoyouxingqudeshier,jinerdedaoxinlidefengfu。shubuzhizheishijieshangyezongshihuiyouyixierenhunhunee,banshisanfenzhongdeguanzhudu,haochilanzuo,duirenshengdaolumeishenmezhuiqiuwanmei。yincizheigeshihoujiufeichangrongyixunzhaocijixingyimibuneixinkongxu,yuyixingjiaowangzhenmi。
3、baijinzhuyi。xianrujinzheiyishehuifazhanqiancaidenengliangjianzhiguoduqiangjingle。“youqiannengshiguituimo”bianchengxianrujinweiyidexinyang,wulunbenrenshibushixinshan,zhixuzijinbugoubianzaishehuifazhanjubuweijian。zaineiyangdeqingkuangxia,renxingdeyoudianchongfenfahuidehanchanglinli。weilegenghaodidadaobenshengaohuaxuewuzhideyaoqiu,dadaoaimuxurong,jiarulaogongmeifagonghuodaliangdezichan,xiangduiyingdehunlianwentibianhuizaocheng。xianrujindehunyinshenghuoshiyijingjifazhanweigenjizaishangmiandajiande,yinciyidanhuijifashengnanti,zehunyinshenghuonanyichucun。
4、bubianshifei。youyixierenshizaibabamamadejiaoguanzhizhongchengzhangde,zaizheileishenghuohuanjingxia,tamenzaoyichanshengleyiziwoweizhongxindemingxianxingqing,zheigeshihoujiaruyonglixingrangqibianbieshifeishiyijianjibenshangbutaikenengjinxingdeshier。zheizhongrentongchangmeishenmeqiadangdejiazhiguannian,yiqiejuedezishenbianshiduide,yinciwaiyuyetongchangburongyiziwofansi,meishenmefuzuigan,fandaohuijuedezheiyiquanshijiequanbuderendoubaoqianta。daozhizairichangshenghuozhizhongnanyiyougongtonghuati,zhixuyijutanbeng,bianfashengzhengzhi,zhangciyiwangdaozhiwaiyu。
5、danchunxingdenandiyinyou。“nanhaierqiongyang,nvshengfuyang!”tamenzaoyibianchengzhongsuozhouzhidejingdianmingyan。zhenduiershirichangshenghuojingkuangbutaihaodexiaohaieryan,zaizhangdayihouhaowuyiwenhuiduitongniankaizhanpeichang。zheigeshihoutamenbianhendanchunxingdetingxintaren,youweilijingchenshidemolian,dangtarenquchuyidiandianyinyoubianhuimeifazidonghuakongzhi,jineryinqiyibuyibumaixiangwuruqitu,weihaifuqiguanxi。
zhenduixiangzhishangjileihuoshiyaojinshentiaoxuande。youyurendebenxingshiyouquediande,chongdongyeshiqiuhenantiande,fufujiazhiguandebuyizhi,tongchangzaigerenxingweishangshibenmodaozhide。chuziyufangfanyishidebiaozhun,dajiayingweichilixing。
三、聆听自身内心深处。
shuhunvrenchuguizhishushiduoshao?dajiaaiyigeren,jiuhenbunenghuibazijidequanbudoushihuijita。dandajiazaodaodaoqizidechuguihou,nanyibimiandehuiyinqifuqijiandeyulunyali。nisuozuodeyiqie,nideqiziburongyitihuibushang,tayidinghuijizhuniduitadehao。zaidajiapouxichulingyifangwaiyudeyuanguhou,nishibushihaineimadeqinaoni?shijishangyouyixienantibuhuitainanfajue,xuduozhuangkuangxiashiqizideyishihulihutu。nvren,shiyigelixingderenqun,feichangshaokeyizhuyaobiaoxiandebinanshenggengweilixing。tamenzhongshijuede,xiailanman,xiaigediao。yincizailixingdeaibutaijianxiaodeqingkuangxia,qingshizheyixiashengchanzhizaoaideqifen,zaibeizheileiqifenbaonangdenvshi,huishishikekedeganshoudaonidewennuan。danshi,jiaruqiziqueshishanglenideai,chuangjinlexinlizhuangtaideleiqu,juedenanyishihuai,neimazaihengliangduozhongyaosuyihou,zuncongneixindezhaohuan,lixingdezuochunidejueceba。
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