想让老婆回归对你死心塌地，就要学会“冷落”她

laopochuguiwogaizenmeban？xuduonanshengyishuoqitanlianaijiuzhaobuzhebeile，nvshuodedoushiduide，nvrendexiangfazuizhongyao，zishenxiangchishabuzhongyao，nvxingxiangchishalikejiuerquchi。zuichuhenvrenjiaowangdefeichanghao，danshishijianyizhang，jiufajuenvxingfangfoyizhibizhezishen，buhuizaixiangyiqianneibanle。youyuzuichudehou，dajiashigongpingde，nizaiyongzishenzuizhenzheng、ranglaopohuiguiduinisixintadi，zuiyiqiezhengchangdeqingkuanghetajiaowang。

bansuizheqingganjianjianditiwen，nanshengdelixingjibailekeguan，henbunengyitiandouhuaizheshoujishanghenvrenliaotian，naizhimeiyouyiqiehuatitaolunkeliaole，haiyaoyingliaoxialai。nvxingyidanmeiyoulijihuiyingnixinxi，niyejiuzhujianxinshenbuan。

ranglaopohuiguiduinisixintadi，zhixunvxinghuijueniquwandeyaoyue，nixinlizhuangtailikezouxiapolu，xunwennaizhiyaoxiangkongzhinvrendefangan、fenpeihexingchenganpai。

nikeyizhujianjuededao，nvxingduinidexintaiyulaiyulengmo，danshipianyaozishenhaigaobudongshishenmeyuanyin。xintaiyishangqu，jiupaodaonvxingyanqianquzhiyibieren。

shijishangqiahaoshiyouyunizheileipobujidaideqingkuangbarenhezoude，tashixiangchuzhongdejihui。

shijishangniyoumeiyouyishidao，qiuzhibudedeqingkuanghuiduilingyigerengengweisinian。zheijiushijintianwoshuoqide，xiangrangnvxingduinisixintadi，jiuxuyaoxuehao“lengdan”ta。

（二）不必以她为圆心点

ganqingdemeihaozhichuqujueyulingrenshiqulizhibujiruchengben，danganghaocankudedifangyouqujueyu，shiqulizhiderenzuihoudoushihuitourucantongdechengben。yinci，dangganqinglailindeqingkuangxia，nixuyaokeshoudebiaozhunbianshi，baochilixing，jianchiziwo。

ninengxiaita、xiyinzhuta、zhuiqiuwanmeita，keshinibunengmeishimeikebatazuoweinirichangshenghuodeguanlizhongxin，nigengbukeyiyitaweiyuanxindian，renheshikedoubansuizhetaquhuahu。tigaoziji

zuizhongbianshi，nibuyaomeishimeikeweizhutazhuanquan，nixuyaofeichanghaodiguohaozishenderichangshenghuo，xunzhaozishendegerenaihao，yundongjianshen、youshui、huwaihuodongdounengtigaonizijideqichang，niquanburendeyouhuoliyecaihuiyibubudiwangshangzou。

danshidabufennvrendoushimiantiande，jiarutaduiniyouqu，kendingshixiwangniduoduodelianluota。zheigeshihounide“lengdan”jiuxuyaozhangwoyigedu。

laopochuguiwogaizenmeban？nijiarulengdantahaozhangshijian，henyoukenenghuiduiniyulaiyuxinhan，zhizhixinhan，nizailianluotayijingshimeiyouyiqieshijiyiyi。