如果老婆出轨了应该怎么处理？发现妻子出轨以后，丈夫应该怎么处理？

 shuozhende，jinguanzairujindeshehui，ruguolaopochuguileyinggaizenmechuli？yidabonvdapaimingxingzaiwaiyupaimingbangshangshengmingqueqi，keshizaixianshishenghuozhong，xuduonanshengshijishangdoujinxingbudaozishendeqizichuguide。neima，jiaruzishendeqizichuguile，nanshengyinggaizenmezuoni？nvrenjingshenchuguihoudexiachangyounaxie？

1.面对现实，理智应对，不传扬不对付

 zuixian，zaiyingduixifuchuguizheiyijianshiershang，yidannifajueshiyishizhen，nizuixianyingzuodebingbushixiangxifuzhengshi，zhishijienazheiyikeguanshishi，huifuzigedeqingxu。suhuashuodehao，jiachoubukewaiyang，youkuyounaozhinengjiajutarenkanrenaodexinlizhuangtai，bingqiefuqijian，yiyanbuheyefeichangrongyizhengchao，naizhihuinongshang，neishihouyouyujiatingbaolierjiangzishensongzhigonganju，yeyinxiaoshida。

2.细心考虑到，剖析缘故

 ruguolaopochuguileyinggaizenmechuli？waiyuzheiyijianshier，yidingshiyigebazhangpaibuxiangde，yiner，yingduixifuchuguizheijianshiqing，nizuixianyaoxiangdehuoshipouxiyuangu。congnimenjiaowangdediandiandididaorichangdeyantanjuzhi，congbiaoluchudezhenxiangpouxixifuchuguideyuangu。nvrenjingshenchuguihoudexiachangyounaxie？

3.拷問心里，慎重决策

 laopozaoyiwaiyu，neimaduiyushibushichuochuantadexianjuetiaojianbianshi，nihaishixiangbuxiangbaochiyiduanhunyinshenghuo。hunyinshenghuoshi2gejiazhongdeshi，jiarunimenyouernv，zuixianyaokaolvdaoernvdejianglai，jiarushejixuduoqiancaihuoshibiededeenyuan，yexuyaoxianxiangmingbainiliyiyaoxiangshixiandemudi。

 qici，nixuyaosisuoshibushiyaoxiangchupengnimenzhongjiandeganqing，nidaodishiyuanyizaiciaihuoshicongcijieshu。jiarunihaixiangyaozaici，neimazaihelaopojiaoshedeqingkuangxia，nixuyaoliuyiyuyanyongyu，jinkenengbunengsunhaidaolingyifang，bingquchuzigedechengxin，jiarunimenbuxuyaozaicile，tiqianzhunbeiyipailiangsan，neimanizuixianyexuyaogentashuoqingxiyuangu，zuishaobiciliqushizaimeiyousunhaibicijialidetiaojianxia。

 waiyudeyuanyinqianbaige，danganqinghuizongqilaiquezhibuguoshi“niaiwohuoshinibuaiwo”zheilianghuishi，jiarunihaishizaicishenaizhe，erqieyaoxiangduiyiduanhunyinshenghuojianchixiaqu，neimakuanronghelianxishitaolibuleledejieguo；jiarunixinlizoubuguoqu，ganjueneiyangdenvxingbuxihuanyehao，neimazaozuozhunbeiyeshiduizishendeyishengchengdan。nvrenjingshenchuguihoudexiachangyounaxie？

 wulunnimenzhongjiandejieguoruhe，zaichajuezijiqizichuguideqingkuangxia，zuoweinansheng，yidingyaogaohaoshizudetiqianzhunbei。tawaiyu，yidingjiushinizaishizhangshangjiyubushangtashouhou，zaiqingxushang，tameiyoujuededaoguishuganle，huoshishitadanchunxingshiyinweiduifu。dankaigongnanyouhuiguotoujian，qinggandequcong，zuizhongyaodehuoshiyigenanrenshibushirangnvxingxinlaita，xiangyaojiangzishendexiabanshengjiaodaota，jiarutachuguile，niyidingyaojianxin，zaitabaoqiannimenlianaidemouyigeyuangu，yidingyoulenizuikaishiweifanlefuwuchengnuo。

 ruguolaopochuguileyinggaizenmechuli？yirifufubairien，jiaruliqu，neimajiuduitajianjueyidian；jiarutiaoxuanzhongxinzailai，neimabaoronghehuoda，kendinghuijiushinirujinzuijiadexinlijianshezhiyi。rendeqingganquanshihuxiangde，xiangxinnidegenggai，tayehuikanzaiyanzhong，jizaixinzhongde。