精神出轨比肉体出轨更可怕吗？如果老婆出轨了应该怎么处理

 youyiciyigepenyoutanqizhangfude2cichuguijingli，diyicishihezuoshengyixiaohuobanwaiyu，ruguolaopochuguileyinggaizenmechuli？shierbailouhou，errenfenkaizhongguijiazhong，meiyuliaodaoqianjirizaizhangfushoujishanghejisuanjili，youfajueleheqitanvxingroumadeqinghuadeweixinliaotianjilu，lijingpancha，caijiangchuneinvrennanshengzhongxuetongxue，jisuoshuode“chulianqingren”，tajiangzhangfudiyicichugui，suizhibuduanleyigeyue，danerrentongjushenghuole，shizhenzhenzhengzhengchuguile，barenqizhidehaoxiangbatalesi，cicihaixing，lianggerenmeiyouyidihaimeiyoujiyuhundaoyiqi，jinjin“laogongjingshenchugui”bale。nvrenjingshenchuguihoudexiachangyounaxie？

 xingkuikandaoliji，bingmeiyoubenzhiwaiyuzhendeshidaxing，congzheiyixiaohuobandeyuyanzhong，buhuitainanfajue，duitaeryanlingyiban“routichugui”zuikongbu、zuikee，er“laogongjingshenchugui”，lianggerenmeiyouguojie，haoxiangbuliangyingxiangbingbubijiaoyanzhong。kenengyongyouzheiyangdekanfaderenbibijieshi，doujuede“routichugui”yaobi“laogongjingshenchugui”texingbijiaoyanzhong，yegengjiduan，keguanshishibingbushizheiyang，erzhezhenghaoxiangfan，“laogongjingshenchugui”yaoyuanbi“routichugui”gengkongbu，neimaweihe“laogongjingshenchugui”gengkongbu？yuanguyou“sidu”。

 ruguolaopochuguileyinggaizenmechuli？zuixianshi“zijintourudu”dechabie，zhendui“routichugui”eryan，bicihenyoukenengjinjinshouyizhongganguan、yuanshibennengdechongdongposhi，huoshishiyinweimouleixuyaodedadao，lianggerenlaidaoyiqi，bicijinjinniqingwoyuan，xuduoqingkuangxiaquanshizhizhiduwai，bingbuzhenzhenzhengzhengzijintouruzaiqizhong，zhibuguoshiweilegenghaodichongdonghuoxuyaodedadao，zaiwuqitazhinianhezhunbei，bingbubaguoduodexiangfahehuolifangdaozheishangbian，zaigecengmianzijintourudoushifenbijiaoyouxian，naizhiyouhenduorengzaishuaxinyanzijintourudexingjiabigao，kaolvdaodeyushi。

 er“laogongjingshenchugui”zechedibushizheiyang，congxianxiangshangkanerrensuibuzaiyiqi，doumeiyoujiaoshenjiechu，yewuqinmixingwei，keshizeshizhenzhenzhengzhengdongleqinggan，nenggoushuocheng“daoshiwuqingqueduoqing”，bingqiezheileiganqingshirenzhentouru、quanqingtouru，bajingliheganqingdoujiyuzaibicizhijiandeshenshang，duiyucishihenzijintouru，huishenxianqizhongbunengziba，zheileizijintourubingbushijuxiangde，yemeibanfashijixihuade，danchuguizheneixinshifenxiangyaoyincizijintouru，qieganxinqingyuan、yiwufangu。

 cizhibianshi“shijiandu”debuyiyang。jiarujinjin“routichugui”，buguanshijianzhangdu，zishizhizhongdounengyouyigehenmingquedeshujudingyi，bingqiezheiyishijianfanwei，shianzhaobicigongchuzhuangkuanglaiquedingde，jiaruxunsuyanfanhuoyaoqiuyibuhuiyou，zexunsuwanbi，shijianhenduan，jiarubiciyouganjuehuoyaoqiucunyou，sihunshijianxiangduixingjiaozhang，danzongshihuiyingeleiyinsuerjieshu，waiyudeshizhangnenggoulianghuafenxi。er“laogongjingshenchugui”quebushizheiyang，tamencongdongxinneiyitianqi，zheileiganqingbianshizhixiangshuoneixin。

 zhixuchuyalejiunanyigeshe、wufashihuaihexuehuifangxia，zaijiazhizheileiguanlian，tongchangbujiazataiduodeqitachengfen，meiyouquanyihemudizailimian，buyisuibiaozhungaibianergenggai，yinci“laogongjingshenchugui”，tongchangshijianzhouqidoujiaozhang，qingganheguanlianweichidezhangqi，youyixienaizhihuisuizheyisheng，rutongyouyixiehechulianqingren、qiannanyouwaiyuneiban，lianggerenyixianggeduonian，weishenmezishizhizhongmeiwangji，yeyoudediannianyisheng，zhixuyoubiaozhunbianhuiwaiyu，wenzhongkaishibianshigebucuodeshili，lianchuzhongshidechulianqingrendouwufayiwang。

 yeyoubianshi“renzhidu”dechabie。zhendui“routichugui”eryan，jinjinweilegenghaodiyixiechongdongheyaoqiuerwaiyu，mudihenqueli，burongyibazheileishitaizhende，yebingbuhuiyouqizaihuheguanxin，zaiyiqinenggouxuwei、xuyuyingdui，yaodeshineileijuedeheganshou，xiangyouneiyiquanguocheng，yidanfenli，bingbujinguoduokaolvdaohezaiyilianren，feichangshaojiangqifangzaixinli，zheifeichanghaolejie，duichuguizheeryan，jiatinghunyinhaosizhushi、zhengcan，suibuyidingsexiangweijuquan，danyirisancanmianbule。

 erhunwailianwanruzuocanlingshi，chiwannengxiangyongmeiweikekou，dadaoshenzaiqizhong，buyaochiyewuyingshang，er“laogongjingshenchugui”quegenbenbuyiyang，tamenshibeiyizhonghuxiangyilaihedadongdeqingxusuolianjie，bingmeiyouguoduosixinzanianhedongyin，duiyucishishirenrenzhenzhende，zaimeiyouzaiyiqidoushihuirisiyexiang、hunqianmengying，bicizhijianqiangua，shikeguanxinzhetarendeyiqie，rutonggucixushudeneiban“qingnanduanwujikeqingchu，caixiameitou，queshangxintou”。zheileirenzhidutongchangyuanchaoyuduilingyibandezaihuheguanxin，fanyingzairichangmeigeshijianduan。nvrenjingshenchuguihoudexiachangyounaxie？

 zuizhongbianshi“jindu”gebuxiangtong。yinwei“routichugui”，tongchangquanshiniqingwoyuan，bicizaiyiqijinjinwanqingganshoujiyouxi，weilegenghaodixinxiancijixing，zhongjianmeiyoushenmekeweichihexianjiedeqiaoliang，suoyishuozheileiguanlianbijiaojianyi、shusong，fenhesanjudoubuzaihu，naizhishixinxianjingyiguo，xingquaihaoxiaotuihuoyiwukeyiyongshiyongjiazhi，bianhuisuishisuidifenkai，zuoniaoshousan，cihouzaiwuguanxi，meishenmejinduketan。keshi“laogongjingshenchugui”zejiongranbutong，tamenbutulingyifangnaxie，yebuyuancongbierenneibianhuodenaxie。

 congchuangjianguanlianbianshiyongxinde，meiyouhenduodefenraohexieyu，jiangtamenlaolaodilianjiezaiyiqidebianshiganqing，zheileiguanlianweichikanqilaiwuxingzhong，quehenjiangu，zheileilianxishinanyibaituo，yaobuyouyixiechulianqingrenhejiuqingren，ruheyewufafenli，bingbushiwangbudiao，bianshijinguanbiaocengfenli，danquejiuchanbuqing，zheileiguanlianjindujigao，yaobutanhe“wenhongchenqingweihewu，zhijiaorenshengsixiangxu”、“shanwuleng、shuiliujie，naiganyujunjue”degankai。

 jianglezheimeduo“routichugui”he“laogongjingshenchugui”chabie，congzheidangzhongkeyikanchu，“routichugui”jinguancongleixingshangkannanyiranglingyibanjiena，bingqieweihaiyeda，danyouhenduoquebingmeiyouduifuqiguanxidaozhishizhisunhai，yebingmeiyoucongyuantoushangyaobaibudingfuqiganqing，dabufendouzhicuojiugai，suihouzhongguijiazhong，fufuzhixurenzhenmoheqihegenggai，lijinggongtongfendou，qingganheguanliankeyiqudeyouxiaodexiubu，youzhonghuomeihaodehenyoukeneng，keshi“laogongjingshenchugui”，congxianxiangshangkanqilaimeisha，erzhenzhenzhengzhengzeshiyizhongshijixingdepanbian。nvrenjingshenchuguihoudexiachangyounaxie？

 ruguolaopochuguileyinggaizenmechuli？yeshiyizhongzhangqixingdesunhai，yidan“laogongjingshenchugui”，jiunanyidiaozhengxintai，duihunyinshenghuoyujiatingjiumeiyouduoshaoxingquaihao，bingqiezongnalingyibanheqingrenkaizhanbizhao，xiangxiangdeshilianrendeduozhongyoushi，eryanzhongkanjiandeyizhilingyibandegezhongbukan，bianhuicongneixindichuhedichulingyiban，fufumeifahemuhemugongchu，fuqiliangzaiyiqishitongchuangyimeng、xinhuaiguitai，waiyucaishi“shenzaicaoyingxinzaihan”，hunyinshenghuoyijingshiyoumingwushi，jiaruheyigebushandaiziji，quezhiaitarenderenrichangshenghuozaiyiqi，shiduomedetongchuhekongbudeshi。