对妻子的出轨不闻不问，婚姻过得幸福吗？出轨后感情比原来更好是为何

 henyoukenengzhenduiquanbunanshenglaijiang，qizichuguihoudehunyinhainengxingfuma？laopodezhongshi、jiatingchengyuanguanxidehexiejiqihemu，shiziyirenshengdaoluzhizhongfeichangguanjiandeshier。chuguihouganqingbiyuanlaigenghaoshiweihe？

 keshirichangshenghuozhizhong，youyubuyiyangdegerenzailihunzhizhongdepengdaodemubiao，sanguan、pinxingbuyiyang，yeyoubiciyehuoduohuoshaozailihunzhizhongchanshengmoca、zhengzhiyufenqi……

zaibeizheizhongsunhuailefuqiguanxi、chuxianshiwufuqiguanxiyihou，huoshiyouderenhuizaoyulingyibanwaiyudeneiyangyizhongzhuangkuang。

 erpobudeyixuduoshijidebixu，henyoukenengfeishiquanbunanshengtongtongkeyizuochuguoduanlihunledeneiyangyizhongjuece，zaijiehekaoliangzhihou，huoshideyulingyifangcouhezaiyiqiguoxialai。

 qizichuguihoudehunyinhainengxingfuma？neima，zhenduizheizhongdenanrenlaijiang，duiqiziwaiyumobuguanxin，hunyinshenghuohainengguodexingfukuailema？xiabiansanweiyoujingyanrenjiangleshuoshihua。

01、杜先生

 bumandahuoerjiang，wofaxianlewoqizichuguileisizaoyiyoushinianshijianle，keshiconglaimeiyoushuoguo。zenmeshuoni？renyidandaozhongnian，jiajiahuhukeyoubencanghaiyishengxiao，yanbujianxinbufan。

 chubuwaiyumeishier，zhixukeyibajiazhongsiweilaonianrenzhaoguhao；nengjiaoxuehaobaobaobeikaokaorugaodengxuexiao；nengchulijiazhongzhizhongdezhuyaonanti；keyibagerendangan、huaxiaojianduanfenpeihao；nanlibeilitongtonggaohaojiukeyile。

wulunshifouyigeanshoubenfendehaolaopo，keshizaizenmeshuo，yehaisuandeshangshiyigehaoqizi。

 worenweiba，hunyinshenghuoshijishangyeshiyizhongnanhaihenvhaidabanguorizibale，mudiquanshiweilegenghaodiqiongshejiyu。ruguoshigenanshengjiuhuiyoushaonvqingjie，neixifukenengdounanxunzhao。

rujinzheizhongshehuifazhandoumeiyoushaonvzuoa！youquanlifuyudexuanliren，doudaoxiaomenkoupailiechengdahenzhangdeduiwu。

zheixieyitiandaowanliaitaolunzheizhongderen，zishenzaimeiyourendedidianshizhongshenmewanyidexing，yehennanshuo。

 yinci，zaizheixiefangmianwojuededepiandan。ganjuerenshengdaoluneimezhang，xuanzishenganjueguanjiandeshierjianchibuxie，caizuizhongyao。qizichugui，laogonghaiaita，caihuijinjinjijiao。

 tangruozheixiefangmianshoudaofeichangdayingxiang，danlingyifangcunyouyuzishendeshenpang，duizishengecengmianxiezhufeichangdadehua，zhituzheiyidian，niyejiunengcongronghenduo。

 shijishanggensheiguorizibingbushiguo？liyizaizhao，yousheizhidaoneixienvrengenguojigenansheng？yousheizhidaonengfoubizhengshigengtongzhou？yinci，xiangzheileishi，zhengyiyanbiyiyanyejiuguoqu。

02、冯女性

wodewaiyuni，shiwolaogongzishenzidongmingquetichujijibingquanlizhichide。

tazenmehuimingquetichuneiyangnanyizhixindetiyini？guanjianbianshiwomenlianggeguanlianbuhexie，wolaogongzaoyizaiwaimianzhaolenvxing。

 wofaxianleyihoudangranshiyaonaode，neishihoutajiuwenguowo：“ninaodehua，shifouxianglihun？”wojiangxiaohaihaixiao，yaoshiniyuanyihuiguotoudehua，wonengliangjieni，dajiacongganglaiguo。

 keshitajiushuo：“dajiaguanlianzaoyineiyangle，xiangyaowowanquanhuiguotouyebushishijide。buruzheiyangba，niyaoshiganjuebugandehua，woxinliyeyouxiejuedezaizheixiefangmianduiniyouyidingdekuijiudehanyi。

 bibushangniyequzhaoyigehaola，wojueduibuhuiduojiangnaxie。zaijialidajiahaishifuqi，wogaihequhecongjiuzenmewan，zaiwaimiangemanggegede，sheidoubuchidakui。”

 jiranbierendouzaoyihuiyingle，jiushizheiyangwojiuquwaibianzhaoleyige。rujindajiaqinggancengmiandougeyoujiyu，huijiaguanjianbianshizhaoliaohaobaobao、qingxihexiejiatingneibudeyiqieshiqing，guodeyetingqingsongde。

worenweihenyoukenengbuzhishidajiarucidefufu，richangshenghuozhizhongyeyouxuduofufuyeshizheiyangzideyebuyiding。

03、贾老先生

 wogenwodelaoposhijishangleisiyeshizheizhongmoyang，danshiwomenlianggeqiahaofanguolai，shiyouyutaxianwaiyubeiwofaxian，yihouworenweibugan，buganluohouxiazishenyezaiwaimianzhaoleyige。

 jiushizheiyang，dajiayekaishileyizhongxinzhiduming，bicizhijianfenbietuhuanle，huijiahaikeyizhuangchengruguomeiyouqishi、yiqibajialibiandeshierjiejuehaodemoyang。

worenweiba，zhixubicizhijiandoukeyijinxingneiyangyizhongxiankuang、dahuoergaoxingjiuhao。

zheileinanrenhemeinvganqinglingyudeshier，rujinzuofengneimekaiqidetiaojianxiapingchang，sheiyeyouneimakendingzhongchengdeyishini？

 nvxingjiehunqianbuyidingshishaonvzuo，jiehunhouyeshiyoukenengburongyishouzheyiduanguanliananshoubenfen。haibibushangkankaiyidian，taganwaiyu，niyeganfangxiao，sheidoubuchidakuibianhao。

xianglibianli，zhixuyeyouyixiangzaizaishenghuoshangxiezuo，neimahunyinshenghuobaocunzhe，neiyangderiziyebuhuiyouduoshangxin。

 worenweiba，shijishangguanqimenlai，najiajiazhongmeiyoudianchoushigengerenyinsi，henyoukenengzaichaohuxiangxiangdewochuoshidoushiyoudouhuoxu！

 zongzhizheiyishidaizhikanbiaoceng，laidaowaimiandajiadounengrenmorenyang、yibenzhengjing、fengjingchunfengdeyi、nengdazaochuyizhongxingfukuailedecuojuebianhao，sheihuiguansheigugesuizhalibianshifouzaoyihuaitoule、shifouhaochanpin？shiba！

的确，这一社会发展如今作风早已更改了许多。

 xuduoshier，biaocengshangkanshangqushineimayihuishier，keshineixinshenchumiandaodishizenmeyigemoyang，chukaibeigaofangzishenxinzhaobuxuanyiwai，meiyourenlejie。

 youderen，zishensirenshenghuoyituancuoluan，weirenzhengzhibanshimeishenmedixian、henlihendu，zoudongzhongjianfujindeqitidouchouweisiyi，danyidianbudangetamenzaiduidaiqitarendeqingkuangxia，zhengrenjunzi、yibenzhengjing。chuguihouganqingbiyuanlaigenghaoshiweihe？

 tanqitarendeshishifeifeilai，kankanertan、zantanbuyi，juedezigedewuzhuoyubukan，youyuqitarendebudangzhichujiuxiaoshileyiyang。

 neiyangdeshierdaochudoushi，yuefaxiailunshishifeifei、jingongbierenderen，yueyoukenengbianshiquanshenwenti、zishenyexubiqitarengengweibukanzhitu。

 yinci，henduorendouyinersuzaoqilaileyizhong“youyixiehuatingyitingbianhao，buyongfangzaixinshang。zishendeshenghuozishenguo，zishenderenshengdaoluhaoyuhuai，bierenyeguanbuzhe。”derichangshenghuohexinlinian，binghuizishizhizhongzunxunzheneiyangyizhonghexinlinianerrichangshenghuo。

 zheixierenzhizhong，youyixienanrenduinvshengdewaiyuchengshouduhengao？youyutamenzijizaiwaimianyeshifengliuchengxing、sichuzhanhuarecao，yagenbuzaiyinanrenhenvrendezhongshishifou。

 bicizhijianbujijiao，bicizhongjianbianhuibianchengyigejiaoweigongpinggongzhengjiyiqieshunlidegongchuxiankuang。jianxinzheileizhuangkuang，dahuoerzaidangjinshehuishangzaoyikandexuduole。chuguihouganqingbiyuanlaigenghaoshiweihe？

 shehuifazhanmuqianzuofengjiuzheiyang，henduorenbiaocengshangkanshangqurenmorenyang，shijishangbuqingchuxinli、neixinshenchumiandaodiliuzhenaxiededunong？

 yeshizheiban，caidangranchanshenglegejiebierenduan、bicizhijianjieduanhupuchuchouloudebenlaimianmudezheileiyurenxiangchuguaijibendinglvlai。

 zuihou，buwaihubukaopudexuanze，tongtongbianchenglewaibuzantanbuyideyizhongtanlunhuatibale。ziran，bansuizheshehuihuanjingdeduiwaikaifang，youyixiefufugengzhongshihunyinshenghuozuoweiyigezongtixingchengdejidazaizhengliangongxiao，zhuzhongdeshiquanyi，erbushiganqing。

 qizichuguihoudehunyinhainengxingfuma？yinci，nanshengyehuiyinweiyigerendechuguierjiangduilingyifangdeaijianshaodaozuishaoshuiping，erjiangquanyituxiandaolirunzuidahuadechengdu，xuanduihushidiaobierendepanbian，erzhibaoliuzhuquanyiyuyaoqiu。