妻子出轨，男人是选择原谅还是离婚？媳妇出轨了我们还有孩子怎么办

 zaidaduoshunvshengdeluojisiweili，nanrenmenbenxingxiankuangcuda，xifuchuguilewomenhaiyouhaizizenmeban？juedechihuan，danshifenguanxinweixiaodesuoshi，daduoshushi“dashiergaoqingchu，xiaoshihutu”，buzaiyixiweimojiedelingsui。nvrenchuguibiaoxianyounaxie？

 bingqie，youyixienvxingjuede，laopojiaruwaiyu，nanshengyibanshinanyikandaode，chufeishinvxingzhuyaobiaoxiandetaixianzhu，ruzhengyebugui，hebiedenanshengyouxianzhuqinjin，buran，nanrenshihuibeihuicuoyide。

 shijishang，zheibuguoshinvxingdejiaxiang，jibiannanrenmenfajueleqiziwaiyugerenxingwei，zaimeiyouxiangdaohaodejiejuefanganqian，yehuijiazhuangyiwusuozhi。

 huozhixifuchugui，nanrenmenwuyiliwaidoushihuijuedelangbeibukan、biequ，yucitongshihuiborandanu，jingshenshizhishangzaodaozhongcuo，danwaibiaoshangyiranjiazhuangmeishichanshengdemoyang，laoporenweitabingmeiyoufajueerdeyiwangxing，shijishang，danshishitadouhaimeixianghao，yidanlaopoliqu，huijijiazhonghexiaohaidaozhineimemingxiandebuliangyingxiang，talinshihaibuyuanmaozheizhongxian。

一、男生不容易立即质疑老婆：“是不是你有婚后出轨了？”大多数仅仅婉转提示

 xifuchuguilewomenhaiyouhaizizenmeban？nanhaihenvhaiyouyugexingdechabie，heshehuifengshangshehuidaodedeguiding，duiairenwaiyudehuaxuefanyingshiyoujiaodachayide。

 nvxingjiaruyijuyidianzhenxiangcaiyilaogongchugui，huipobujidaidizhiwenta：“shibushinizaiwaimianyouqitanvhaizile？tashishei？”

 jibianzuihouhuikuanronglaogong，zaicirichangshenghuozaiyiqi，nvxingyehuinaoyichangjingshilingyifang：“woyijingrenhedongxidouzhidao！”erqiezhihoutahaihuijixubushiditidaolaogongchuguidelijing，jietadebahen，tishitayiqianbaoqianzishen。

 nanshengjiarucaiyixifuchugui，bianhuianzizaixinzhongchuaimorenzheng，burongyitongshiquzhiyilaopo：“shibushinizaiwaimianyoupintoudele？”

 youyixienanshenghuiwanzhuanditishibingjiechuanlaopo：“nijinqiyizhihuijiadefeichangwanma！”“nijintiandezhuanghuadetainonglee！”guaiwanmojiaodiweilaopobiaoshuzigedebumanyi。jiarulaopobianboshuo：“meineihuishi！”nanrenmenbianhuijiazhuangmanbuzaihu，zhongduanhuatitaolun。

 nanshengshijishangdanxinzhenxiang，jiaruzaitadezhiyixia，laopokouzhixinkuaididanfuyouhunhouchugui，nanshengbianhuiganjuewudizirong，diujinnanshengdelianmian。bingqie，laopohenyoukenenglijichuzou，shierdeweilaifazhanjiangkongzhibule，richangshenghuohuiyuelaiyueyituanluanma。

 tebieshizaijialiyeyouyounianxiaohaidehua，jiarulaopobuguanbuguxiaohailikai，zishenzennengjizhaoliaoxiaohaiyounengshuxingongzuoni？yinci，xuduonanrenzailaopojiangyaolikaideyishunjian，mashangjiunengyujiandaorichangshenghuozhizhongjijiangmianduidezhuduojiongjing。

二、男生大多数并不会在好朋友和亲朋好友眼前公布谈媳妇出轨

 nvxingyingduilaogongchugui，huitongkuliutibuduan，suihouzhaoxunqinqipengyouqingtu，zhoubianderendoushiduitabaoyoulianmin、kuanweihejili，yucitongshiyoudiantongmazhanan。

 danyunvxingbuyiyangdeshi，nanrenmenhuozhixifuchugui，quebingbuhuizuochubaotoutongkuhuoaitanbujidexingwei。guigenjiedi，danshishiyouyunanshengdaxiaojiubeirongrule“naneryouleibuqingdan，nanshengbuyinggaixiangtarenzhanxianzigederouruo”zheizhongdeshidaihexinlinian。

 yidanyounanshengneimeganle，jiangxifuchuguideshiernongdeshirenjiezhi，renjinjiezhi，bianhuizaoshoubierendechaoxiao：“zheihaixianggenanshengma？”yufadebeirenkanbuqi。

 suiranfuqiganqingzaoyishifenjiaolvbuan，danzaiqinqipengyouyanqian，nanrenmenbiaocengshangrengjiazhuangnaxieyemeichansheng，jiejinquanliyangaizhezheiyiqie。

 nanshiwaiyupinfanbianchengshehuirenzhihuatitaolun，dannanshiwaiyu，biranyounvshixianghupeihe，weihenvxingchuguimeiyoubianchengdafanchoushehuirenzhihuatitaolunni？dabufenshiyouyunanshengjianyi，buyuanbajiazhongwochuoshixuanbuzaiwai，dabufenyinrenbuyan。shishishang，nvxingchuguidezhanbiyidingbuzaishaoshu。

 bingqie，xifuchuguihuijinanxingdaozhihendadesixiangfudan，naizhiyouhenduonanshengdeleleshenjinggongnengwenluanhexinshenbingzheng，zhangciyiwang，huiduijialihebenrenshentijiankangchanshengjudaweixie。

三、男生大多数不容易立即找妻子外遇目标商谈

 nvxingyidanhuozhilezhangfudewaiyumubiao，daduoshushidatingdaolingyifangdesuozaidihelianxifangshi，suihouyidadianhuadayiwang，huozhelijishangmenfuwutiaoming。youdenvhaizihuizhijieledangdiqidailingyifangchechu，bubiweihaitamendejiazhong；erhenduonvshenghuilijitongma，naizhiduidisanzhechushoudajia。

 nanshengjibianlejieqiziwaiyumubiaodaodishishei，yejishaoyouxierendangzhongquhelingyifangshangtan。yifangmian，nanshengganjuezheileikeguanshishizaitaidiuren，lingyifangmian，shinanxingxinzhongyouyidingdehaipa，danxinqizideqingrengelingyudoubizigeqiang，lirujingjishili、nanrenmeilidouyuanchaozishen，huijinanxingdaozhibuzixindeheiying，waishangjiazhong。

jushanyumiaohuinanhaihenvhaiganqingxinlizhuangtaideribenwenxuejiadubianchunyishuo：

 “yingduixifuchugui，tebieshizaibeiaideshi，youyixienanshengkandaoqizidewaiyumubiaohouhuifashengnanrenbuxingdezhuangkuang。nanshengdeyuqingshijuyoushenjingxingde，yincinanshengyinqibuzixinerzaochengnanrenbuxingdehuanzhebingbushaojian。huanjuhuashuo，qiziwaiyugerenxingweihuijinanrendexinggongzuonenglidaozhiyanzhongdepohuaili。”

四、应对媳妇出轨，男生到底是否会宽容？

henvrenyingduilaogongchuguidezhuangkuangyiyang，nanshengyingduixifuchugui，yeshiyoujiongranbutongde2zhongzuofa：

第一种：也有情感，也是有小孩的牵绊，原谅，再次过

 youyixienanshengshifenyikaozishendelaopo，lianggerenyouyouxiaohai，jiaruxiaohaihaixiao，neima，weilegenghaodibuxubaobaozaoshousunhai，nanshenghuixuanyongkuanronglaopo，zaicihetarichangshenghuozaiyiqi，qiantitiaojianshi，nvxingduilianrenbingmeiyouguoshendeqinggan，bingbuxianglikaiziyidejiazhong，huoshiheqingrenzhongjiuzoubushangyiqi。

 danyiqianwaiyuguo，bubiaoshinanshenghaihuijixuzaicirenshoulaopoxiayiciwaiyu。jiarulaopojuecezhihouhelaogong、xiaohaiyiqihaohaoshenghuorizi，jinguannanshengxinlirengyougehe，danshijianhuidanhuacicidesunhai，lianggerenhuoshinenggouxiangxiarichangshenghuode。nvrenchuguibiaoxianyounaxie？

 pojingnanzhongyuan，neiyangdehunyinshenghuodaduoshuyejinjinjiangjiuguoeryi。duiyulianggerennengbunengjianqiyiqiandexinlai，jiudekantianbuhezhifudeshuipingle。

第二种：不容易宽容，收集直接证据，分多资产，果断离异

 zaiwoguodezhongguolihunlvxianyichixu15nianzengzhang，zheibiaoming，nanhaihenvhaiduihunyinshenghuodeweijuganjijuxiajiang，zhiqianyongyounantihaihuijixudianjizhechuli，rujinyongyounantijiuxianghuanbieren。

 dabufenrendoushiyouqingganjiepi，yidanairenwaiyu，bianhuipanduanlita/taderentibuhuizaiqingjie，youyizhongzenghengan，dangranyebuhuixiangrichangshenghuozaiyiqi。

 jiranzuihouyeshiyaofenli，bibushangshijiyidian，shoujilingyifanghunwaiqingdezhijiezhengju，jiaosheshinenggoufenduoyixiezichan，guoduanliyi，buliuyihan。

 bingqie，tebiezhuyideshi，dabufenchuguinvren，quanshixinshenwaiyu，jibiantarenrengzaihunyinshenghuoli，queyijingduilaogongxinhan，xinzaoyipaodaolianrenshenpanglaidao，yidanyouheqingrenjieweiairendejiyu，dabufennvxinghuitoudoubuhuidiliqurujindelaogong。nvrenchuguibiaoxianyounaxie？

 fufujiarufashengfenqi，yidingyaolijigoutongjiaoliu，bunengyongwaiyudefangfachufalingyifang，zhishangshangji，weifanshehuidaode，haiduibaobaodaozhiwufawangquedeweihai。

 xifuchuguilewomenhaiyouhaizizenmeban？zongeryanzhi，nanrenzaiyingduixifuchuguishi，zaimeiyouzhunquezhijiezhengjuhuomeiyouxiangqingxixiayiburuhelikaishi，dabufendoushihuijiazhuangyiwusuozhi，jibianxinliborandanu，yehuijiazhuangshashidoumeichansheng。yidanmingquelefanganheyihoudefangwei，nanshengbianhuilikefuzhushijian，helaopotiaomingzuozhengliandegoutongjiaoliu。