xiaohuowaiyu,xiaohuobanmendaduoshuhuiganjueyuxuduorendetianxingguanxi。yunfumengdaozijichuguianshishenme?danshichuguinvren,xiaohuobanmendalianghuifangweiyuganjuetamendepeihunkelingfu,biranshiyupengyoucunyoubanpeidadegemo、yihuoshizhongwufadedaoshenqingbanli,queshishimeishebeicongruciyizhongguanxizhengzhongjiandedaoshifenzuishaodekuanwei,pobudeyicaizuochufangepeihunyuhaopengyoudezuoyelai。junhunnvfangchuguizenmechuli?
zheileidingyishitongtongjingzhundema?chuguinvrendeyuandianlinengyuanshishenme?
queshishuobaile,zhibuguoyixiazheisandianbale,shifenqueshi,shifenjuyouxiangzhengxing。
01.有必须无法得到满足
yunfumengdaozijichuguianshishenme?qilunxinlizhuangtaihexinlizhuangtaicengmianquanshidengdengtidaozijiwaiyudechuzhi,jinnianyijing37suideaixiaofangshirucigenzijiguimishuode:“congwaixingshangkanlai,shiyinweizijiyoubixuwufadedaomanzu,qilunshixinlizhuangtaihuozhexinlizhuangtaicengmianquanshidengdeng。danshixiangxiaqiongjiudehua,jiumeiyouneimejiandanle。
womenzhongjiandeguanxishizennaiyangebiandaozheiyibude?zheiyidianbanpeijieduan。suiranwowaiyuguocuo,danyinweiwomeiyouneileimeishenmelianchixin、zerengandenvxing。yaobushiconglaogongneili、congpeihunzhengzhongjianjuedebushangyidianerwennuandehua,wokeyijianxiukouzijiburongyiyinweidadong、ruanruo、wukenaihe、xiaochen、quefaanquanganerzhuiruciwaixiaohuociyudegaoqingchu、guanxinzhengzhongjian。
jiusuanshilingyifangbudayuezhenzhenzhengzhengduiyuwohaojinyiqiedezhixin,neiyouruhe?zuishaobiwolaogongzuodehaotaiduole。wozhishiyibanyoupingchangdenvxing,zhinengxialejiexunzhaozijineixinshifenqueshidejuedeyubixu,zheiyidianyousheikeyigaoqingchu?”tahaoguimiduguozhihouxianghulianjiezhemoran,meiyouhangyijusheng。
02.成空了和另一方一致的成本观
chengkongleguishugan,xunzhaozunzhonglamezhongjiugulitamenenaifuqiguanxifanmushifenjibendeyihuoshishenmeni?aixiaofangshuochengyinweichengkonglehelingyifangyizhidechengbenguan,chengkongleguishugan,zijiyulaiyubunenggouzaipeihunzhengzhongjiandedaotarendegaoqingchuyurenqingerzhi。
enaifuqiliangjiehunzhengzhengde13nianshijian,zidatazhangfuzhuanledianqianzhihouzuixian,xinlizhuangtaijiukuaiqushen。ganjuejinyounaqianzhongguiyanglejia,jiushijinlaidaozeren。zuixiandaochubaohanbuyongshuo,erqiebingfeiyiduiyidehunwailianlamejiandan,zhishigewaifanqingdeneilei。jinyoutacongciyulingyifangzhenglun,zheigenanzilaoshinaqianyuzijizaipeihunzhengzhongjiandeshenjingxingeryanshi,rangtaduijiezijidedingyi,xiguanzheileigongchujiezou。
haishuozijisuiranzhanhuarecao,danzuishaomeiyouduihunneichuguiyiqieyigenvrendongzhixin。danshijiushiyidiansuishengfuhebale,xiaohuodewulinjiushiruci,xiaokanyidian,nvxingzijijiuguodegengshufuyidian……congneishiqiqi,zheigenanzijiudaozhileyifubuzhonghoulaoshi、buguanbugujia、butiexintagenxiaohaidenianfenyuxuyaodeshenqingle。guanyutalaijiang,peihunjueranhaoxiangyigemeishenmewendudefanlong,zheizhongganjuexiangdangyudusai。yiner,shuozhongjiu,huozheyinweichengkonglehelingyifangyizhidechengbenguan,chengkongleduipeihundeguishugan、meilejiazhongxinrengan,tayaoxiangxunzhaozunzhong、juedetanlianaidexianghe,caiwaiyude。
03.对配婚成空信仰
zaimaodunlushichanshengbuyiyangtajiang,ruotamendepeihunzaojiuqiluwangyang,lamedaozhitaduipeihunchengkongxinyangdeyuanyin,shiliangpianmianxingzaimaodunlushizaochengdeneileibuhaodiaohedebuyiyang。erzheixiebuyiyang,tongtongbingbushitapianmianxingdeyihuodaozhi,zijizhangfuzaihenduogongzuozhongshangbiandebianhua,caisuanshicujinenaifuqiguanxifanmu、tabuhuizaijiangqingyixiyulingyifangshoushangdeshifenqueshideyuanyin。junhunnvfangchuguizenmechuli?
zhiyinerbuyuanfenkai,shiyinweikaolvdaoxiaohai,yekaolvdaozijizongguihainengzaizheiyiduanpeihunzhengzhongjiandedaoyidianzhangkuanyuwuzigongyingzheifangmiandejianxiukou。danshitaduipeihundezhonghoulaoshi、duihaopengyoudeneileishifennonghoudejianxinyuyifuyu,zaoyiyiranruci,xiaotuixiaoshidaijinle。
youyutawaiyudoumeiyouweilegenghaodifuchouzijidezhangfu,zhishiqueshixiangconghunwailianzhengzhongjianjieshouzijixuyaodeyingyangchengfen,huodekuanwei,zhichengdianzijizaixujiu、liaojieryoujiannandeluobaipeihunzhengzhongjianchixuaoxialai。taxiangguodefangsongyidian,piansiyidian,buhuizaikaolvlingyibandejuede,dengdengbale……
ruoyigenvrenshiyinweizaipeihunzhengzhongjianyupenyouzoudaoruciyizhongrenshengjingjiecaiwaiyudehua,lamekeyishuo,zaixiangjiuzhiqueshishifenjiannanle。zhengyinglezheijuhua:aidamoguoyuxinsi。jiadingtahaikenxuanhua、kenyoushang、kencesuan,haipahaihuijixutoushujiqiyuliuyi,danchukaipeihunzheiyishenquyouxuyaochucun、chukaicaifu、xiaohaibixukaolvzhiwai,tayouguanpeihun、xintai、penyoutongtongyiqianjuededaotebiedadeyaoyaowuqi,neiyejiutongxiangdangyubaxinyuxintaicongpeihunzhengzhongjianwanquanchoushenlechuqu。
zaizheileijingyuxia,tahuixiangwangcongciwaiyixingpengyoudeshenshanghuodeshaoliangshifenxianshide、shifenjishixingdeaiyuguanxin,weicizuoweiyizhongdiaolizijineixindewuzhuyubeidao、liaojiyuluopodefangshi。congzheileibubeibierenzhufudeguanxizhengzhongjianxiaohuaxishouyidianyingyangchengfen,ziyangzijijiejincanglaodelinghunyurenshengdaolu,queshibingbushilamenangaoqingchu。junhunnvfangchuguizenmechuli?
suiran,tamenwaiyushiguocuo,danjuticunhuozhengzhongjian,yinweizheileijingyuerchuguinvren,yebujinjinshigerenjixiang。quantamenzhongguipeihunyujiazhongjinjinyijuhuadeyihuo,dantamenshibushinengyidianyebucouherenshuzuncong,neimejiuweiyoubenjiaerzijixiaodele。
yunfumengdaozijichuguianshishenme?zongeryanzhi,shifenzhongyinweirucierfenkaidenvxing,yuguhuihenzheileidenianfen,chengqianshangwanyeshijianlizaicaifusunshang、fengxianlexiaohaizideziaoxinyishangde,zhenzhenzhengzhenghuihenfangelepeihunde,dayuexingjidi。zerengaiguishei?yougairuheshenqingbanlizheileishehuifazhanjixiang?meirennengdechuyigegaoqingchude、jingzhundehuifu。
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