一个二胎妈妈的自述，出轨的女人的自白

 yigenvrendeyisheng，you2citoutaizhuanshi，diyicitoushenyuyunma，wochuguilelaogongyuanlianglewoshiweihe？ronghuafuguikunqiongnimeiyoutiaoxuan，neijiushixiantianxingdinghaode；zhangdayihouchujiale，tiaoxuanyigeshenmeyangzidelaogong，xiangdangyunvxingdediercitoutaizhuanshi。jiaruniyunqihaopengdaoyigerenyuanhaode，youxiuyangde，duiniwenroutitiede，tengxibeizhidelianren，wulunpin，wulunfu，niyejiumeitianshiqixijiele；jiarunibeijutiaocuoleren，niderenshengdaoluyejiuqicanle。chuguidenvrendezibaiyounaxieni？

shifouhuiyoumeimanhunyin，nitiaoxuanderendaodishishei，henweicizhongyao。

 tangkuaibenrenweizishendehunyinshenghuoshiyiduanmeimanhunyin，keshitaweiyuliaodaolaogongdeyiciwaiyuquerangtamendehunyinguanxishenxianlexiangxindetanta。zaiyiqishinian，meiyouliyoujianxinletashinian，yandixiaquebuzhiyingbuyinggaizaicijianxin。

 wochuguilelaogongyuanlianglewoshiweihe？tangkuaishiyigeertaimama，erbaocaidanshisansui，erbaogangyisuiduo，tangkuaidoumeiyouzishendegongzuozhong，zhongjiuyaozhaoliaolianggehaizi。tangkuaibenrenweiziyipengdaolaogong，shitazheiyishengzuigaodehaoyun，keshiyandixiani，zheiyiduanhunyinshenghuojiyutadeshitongchu。

 “woyuezhongdeqingkuangxiakandaotawaiyu，neishihouwomendehunyinzaoyihewangribuyiyangle，zhiqiandeguochengzhongwoshimeiyouliyoujianxinta，errujinwoyouqimeianquangan。”

 tangkuaixianglihun，keshiquebuzhidaozenmelihun？lianggehaizi，ruhelini？lihunhou，yousheilaiyangtadelianggehaizi。lihunhou，haixuyaobubiwanhun？silaixiangqu，tangkuaifangfojinyouduilaogongkuanrong。tayebuyuankuanrong，keshiweilebaobaotameiyoutiaoxuan。

 laogonggentangkuaitiaoming，shuozishenshangnian11yuejiuchuguile，keshimuqianzaoyigenneinvrenduankaile。tangkuaibuqingchuzishenyingbuyinggaijianxin，taduilaogonghenxinhan，zaoyimeiyoushenmexinlaiketanle。

 fufuerrenshuokaiyihou，laogonggentangkuaishuoxiangzhongguijiazhong，tazhujianbadaliangdeshijianhuazaitahebaobaodeshenshang，daitamenchulaisansanxin，tangkuaiyekandechulailaogongzaiwanliu。keshiwanjiandeqingkuangxia，tangkuairengranhuiyigerenkuqi，youshiyixiangqitazaihonghaizishuijuedeqingkuangxia，laogongdoushizaigenneinvrenzaiyiqi，tangkuaidexinjiubuzhengchangdebushufu，neixindeyigenciruhedoubabudiao。chuguidenvrendezibaiyounaxieni？

laogongdeyiciwaiyu，rangwomendehunyinchuxianyichangdejianao，zheileiweidaoyejinyoutangkuaizishenlejieyouduonanao。

外遇这个词很有趣，便是一列火车本应在原先的稳固的导轨上正常的行车顺利抵达到达站，可是却由于种种原因偏移了路轨，因此会称为外遇。

 nvxingyinweiaiqingxiangxinqijixiangxinnikeyijitaxingfukuaileerjindaohunyinshenghuodeshengdian，chanzi，jiazhongmeimanxingfushitaduiluguideshejifangan，danshidanglaogongchuguile，shiqinzipohuailenvxingjizijiyongxinjiegoudexingfukuaile。shubuzhi，yaozalezheilieliechema？huoshizaicizaizhaoni？

 zhenduitangkuailaijiang，jiarukeyibalaogongjiwanliujiazhong，taningkebapianyiluguideliechejibaihuijia。keshibaihuijiayihouni，tadexinrengranshizaodaolesunhai。yandixiadetazhiyoutiaoxuanlinshirennai，ciwai，tameiyoutiaoxuan。

tangkuaigenwoshuo：ruguonishiwo，huineimeban？shifouhuitiaoxuanlinshikuanrong？

 wohuifutadeshi：“ruguowoshini，gennishiyiyangdejingyu，yinweiwohuitiaoxuangenniyiyangdefangfa，linshirennai。youyuxianzaideniqueshihenbuyiliyi。liyibingbushidazhuanbian，qianshedaonimenzhongjiandexiaohai，rujinbaobaohaineiyangxiao，nimeiyoubanfabuyixiaohaikaolvdao。”

 wokeyijiyutangkuaidetiyishi：bukeyizaixiangzhiqianyiyangdangyigequanzhidedeertaimama，zhishiyidingyaozhaoyifengongzuozhong，yaoxianrangziyicongrichangshenghuozhongzhengtuochuqu，nideyangchengzishendeliyili，nicaiyoukenengjizijizuochutiaoxuan。jiarunizishentairouruole，zhenduilaogongyejinyoutingcongdeming。

 ruguonizaihunyinguanxilizaoshoupanbianshi，yingdangzenyangtiaoxuanxiamiandelu，nidexuehaojishizhisun，kaolvdaoqingxi，dangjinduinieryan，zuihaoshidetiaoxuanshisha。

 weizijiyigeshijianxianqi，jiarutaqueshihuiguole，duiniduixiaohaidouhenhao，nimennengzaiciguorizi，jiuzaicinimendehunyinshenghuo。jiarutabukeyihuiguo，ernimendehunyinshenghuoyechuxianlenanti，neimaliyiyeshizaowandeshi。chuguidenvrendezibaiyounaxieni？

zaihunyinguanxilizaoshouchuguishi，nvxingyingdangruhezuochuheshizishendetiaoxuan？

 worenweimahenconghui。magenwenhunyinshenghuofashengkunjingzhishi，matiaoxuanlerennai，neigeshihoutahewenqueshibuyiliyi。lihunhou，younengzenyangni？xiaohaineimaxiao，nandaoqueshibuyongfuqin？wunianyihou，dangnverdouzhangdayihou，mazishendeyanyishengyayejinbudefeichanghao，tagenwenyedaohepingfenshoudeqingkuangxia。

 nvxingyidingyaojilao，ruguoniyishidaonidehunyinshenghuomeineimakaopu，nimenzhongjiandexinlaiganzaoyikuatale，zheigeshihoudeniyejiuyidingyaoyouziyidegongzuo。

糖块不应该感觉自身的婚姻生活走上了终点，只是应当重振旗鼓，想一想下面的路该如何走。女性在婚姻关系里，遭受挫败时，不必让自已变成一个怨天尤人的泼妇，埋怨不起作用，你得考量清晰怎么样才能够依靠自己好好活。

 dianshilianxuju《wodeqianbansheng》，luozijunzailejiechenjunshengwaiyudeqingkuangxia，yeshixiangqiuchenjunshengbubiliyi。jiaruchenjunshengbuliyi，wojuedeluozijunyidinghaikeyizaihunyinguanxiliweiquqiuquan。keshiweiquqiuquanbingbushimudi，zhishiniderangziyixuehaobianqiangjing，nixuyaoyouyizhongyouhuanyishi：jiaruqueshililehun，zishenyikaozijinengfouzouxialai？chuguidenvrendezibaiyounaxieni？

 hunyinshenghuoshiyigenvrendediercitoutaizhuanshi，jiaruonidehunyinshenghuofashenglekunjing，ninenglinshirennaibuliyi，keshiniyidingdexuehaotigaozijirangziyiyuelaiyueqiangjing。ruguonidehunyinshenghuomeineimakaopushi，nixuyaoyoushiliyikaoziji。

 xiezheipianwenhuoshixiangtishiyixienvxing，tarensunhainideqingkuangxia，biezhitushangxinnanguo，nidejishizhisunkanyixiazishenzhihougaizenmeban？ninenglinshikuanrong，keshirennaideyucitongshidetigaozijide“liyili”。ruguoniyougongzuonenglijizijitiaoxuanle，niyejiubukenengneimakunaole。

nishouruodeqingkuangxiazhenduibierendesunhaijinyoutingcong，erruguoniqiangjingle，nicaiyouzixinjizijitiaoxuan。

 wochuguilelaogongyuanlianglewoshiweihe？pobudeyirenkeyidian：nvxingzaihunyinguanxili，huoshichuzaibijiaolieshiyingxiangli。yincizaitabeishousunhaideqingkuangxia，yezhiyoukuanrong。