三个中年出轨女人的自述：出轨的女人会后悔吗

 meigerendouyuanyimeimanxingfudehunyinshenghuo，yigechuguidenvrenzishuyounaxie？yaoxiangyulianrenxiangxiedaolao，yincidajiadaishangxingfudeqidaijinruhunyinshenghuo。chuguidenvrenhuihouhuima？

 danzaijiezoukuaidexiandaishehui，qingganherendeneixinyiyangyishi。huocaiwunianshinian，congenaidaobuxihuan，yechengweixuduofufudechangtaihua。

 yingduirucidehunyinqingkuang，youxierenjuedeganqingyijingbianchenglezhenqing，zhixurizinengguojiukeyile；yeyouderenjuede，aiqingzhishang，ruguobuailejiufenlijiushiwodexintai。

zheidangzhongyeyouyibufenren，jibushedeweirujiaoladehunyinshenghuo，youxiangaihereqing，yincitiaoxuanquwaibuxunzhao。

 wulunzenyang，zaipingchangrenyanzhong，yigerenduihunyinshenghuodepanbianzonglingrenbiyi。danyexudajiagaixijiuhunhouchuguishenhoudeyuangu，jinyouzheiban，caigengnenggougenghaodibaohuzijidehunyinshenghuo。

 yigechuguidenvrenzishuyounaxie？wocengfangtanguosanweiaishangyoufuzhifudenvxing，tamenwuyiliwaizaixiangyouwaiyuchanshengreqingdeyucitongshi，xinliyehennanao。

neima，weiheyiqianshenaizhe，xianrujinquetiaoxuanpanbian？

张女士，35岁，完婚5年

dajiajiehunwunian，wowaiyu2nian。

 30suideqingkuangxialejiemuqiandezhangfu，lejietayiqianwoyouyiduansanniandeganqing，yuanbenzaoyixiangqinjiehunle，lingyifangwaiyuyibuxiaoxinbawozhu，bianmeiyouxiawen。

zheiyihouwodiluolehaozhangshijian，duiqingganhenanshengyemeiyouzixinxin，ganjueshigenanshengbianhuiwaiyu。

zhangfufashengzaiwokongchuangqidedisannian，yeshiwo29suideqingkuangxia。

 tayuqiannanyoubuyiyang，wenrunruyu，youxiuyang，duiyuwotebiehao。ganglejiedeguochengzhongwoyexiang，yexuqian2nianshiwotaijiduanhuale，shijieshangbuchuguinanrenhuoshiyoude。

 dajiajiehunhouqueshiguoquleyiduankuailederizi，taaiwo，yinweiwofeichangaita。neishihoudewoyiweizishendehaoyunqizongsuanlaila，woyouzhezheishijieshangzuiwanmeideaiqing。

yihanhaojingbuchang，wodexingfuxunsujiubeishuaisuile。

 neiyitianshilibaitian，woyouyumeidaidiannaoshanglinshixingyongzhangfudejisuanjijiejueyidianqiyeshier。dajiajiehunhoubicizhijianyizhihendandu，neishiwodiyiciyongtadediannaoshang，naozilituranmaochuyigexiangfa，xiangfanyifanlibianyounaxiemimi。

zheiyiniantouyichulaijiukongzhibule，tazaiwofangwushui，wohaizaixiaoshufangfantadediannaoshang，yuefanguoxinhan。

 diannaoshangliyouhenduonvshengdexiangpian，weixinliaotianjiluburenzhishi。zhouqishijianjiaozhang，congdajiatanlianaiqiandaohunhou，tayizhizaiwangluoshangpaoniu。

kanjianzheixieweixinliaotianjiluworenweizigefeichanghaoxiao，danwomeiduitashuowomingbaizheizhong。

woshiyigejiaoweichuantongdedenvxing，buyuanliyi，xiangjiuneimejiangjiuyixiaguo，danneixinfeichangbuganxin。

lejielaogongshishenmerenhou，yinweiwoyouyixunzhaocijixing，youyuhunyinshenghuozaoyibunengmanzuwodeqingganxuqiu。

zheiyihouwogenqiyedeyixingpengyouhaoshang，tabiwoxiao2sui，womenzaiyiqizhei2nianyizhihenhemu。

 gentazaiyiqideqingkuangxia，woxinlishijishanghennanao，lejiezishenzheiyangzuobudui，danyixiangqizhangfuzuodeneixieshier，jiukongzhibulezishenyaoxiangduifuta。

孙某，40岁，完婚16年

 wo24suijiajita，30suideqingkuangxia，youyitianzhaojing，huranchajuezijilaodebingbuxiangmoyang，yagenbingbuxiang30suidenvxing。

hunhoudajiayizhigengonggongpopozhuyiqi，zhangfuhenmabaonan，wojiapoxiguanxigaofa，jibianneiyangtahuoshibuyuanbanchulaidanzhu。

zheixienianbeijiatingsuoshiyashen，juedexiongkouyizhiyikuaishitouduzhe，zhizhiyushangta。

 36suishengrineiyitianwojuededaishangqinrenyiqiquwaibianchiyidun，jiapoganjueshechilangfeiqian，dajiayincichaojialeyijia，zhangfuyishengbuhangquanyigerenzaijiayongcanyeyiyang。

woyiqizhixialaidaoyedian，neishiwodiyiciquyedian，bianyinjiubianku。

 tazaibianshangkanguowohaozhangshijian，dengzhewokudechabuduolecaiqudahuawo，bangwodiweishengzhi。neiwangentaxianliaodejuede，haoxiangpengdaolezhongshenbanlv。

zheiyihoudajialiulelianxidianhua，jingchangxianliao、youhui、yongcan。

tashuodaowokanjianyidianyebuxiang36suidenvxing，jinjinyinjiatingsuoshinaoxin，yitiandaowanchoumeibuzhancaihuikanqilailao。

gentazaiyiqiwohenkaixin，juedesuoyourenbiannianqingle，huijialejiandaojiapodoumeiyouneimashengqile。

 dajiarujinzaiyiqikuaisinian，tashibuhunzuzhizhuiqiuwanmeiqinggan。woyeyiyang，xiangzaiwaimianchuanyikouqi，xiangxiangmeishaonvyiyangshenai。

 jinjingenwaiyumubiaozaiyiqideqingkuangxia，youshihouhuixiangqizhangfu，tashiwodechulianqingren，wohenaita，changchangxiangqizheierwoxinzhongjiushangxin，juedeyouqianwanzhixiaomayipaguo。

陈女士，38岁，完婚10年

jiaruguodexingfukuaile，sheixiangchugui？wojiangzheijuhuahenyoukenenghuibeima，danzheishiwodezhenzhengniantou。

wowanhundeqingkuangxiasuandeshanggaolingle，dajiatanle5niantanlianai，bicizhijianhenenai。

 zhenzhenzhengzhengchanshengnantishizaixiaohaisansuineiyinian，woshitaduohuayidianshijianzaibaobaodeshenshang，zhongjiuxiaohaibingbushiwoyigerende。

 jiehunhoudetagenjiehunqianchedibuyiyang，youqidananrenzhuyi，haifeichangziaoqiaobuqisuoyouren，tarenweizaijiazuojiawuhuokanhaizidenanshengmeibenshi，neijiushinvxingxuyaozuode。

tashuodaonanzhujiaowainvrenzhunei，wohaizaiwaibianbaqianzhuanle，nizaijialikanyixiahaobaobaojiukeyile。

 zhenduitadeniantouwobuhuirenke，yemeifagenggai。zhangjiuyiwangneixinxiangzhanglegenci，houhuijiehunqianmeiyoutongjushenghuo2nianrenqingzheigeren。

tababamamayingnianzaoshi，wobabamamashentibuhao，xiaohaizhiyouwoyigerendai，budaiwaderenmeifaganshoudaozheileilei。

 zhihouhaizishangxuehou，youyuyizhijiesong，wojieshilexiaohaipengyoudefumu，yejiushizhihoudewaiyumubiao。chuguidenvrenhuihouhuima？

 tashilihunqingkuang，dajiazhuzaitongyigezhuzhaixiaoqu。youshihouwojiexiaohaiquwanle，tahuibangwojielesonghuijiale，youshihourenmenhuizuoxialaiheyibeichashuoshuohua，gentaxianliaohenqingqingsongsong，tahuilizainvxingdejiaodudulisikao，zheiyidianyaowohenshangxi。

zhihoujiuxilihutuzaiyiqile。

womenzaiyiqikuaiyinianle，zheiyinianshishengxiaohaizhijinwoguodezuikaixindeyinian。

 zhangfuhuoshineibanzhiaizhengqianwulunjiazhong，youshihouxiangqizheixieniandeqinggan，neixinyehuishangxin。chuguinvren，meiyounayigeshimeiyouxinlifudande，danyemeifa，xianzaiwojiaoweikandekai。

 riju《zhouyan》zhongyouneiyangyiduanjingdiantaici：wanhunbianshiyongsangshijiqinglaihuodewending，guoqulesannianlaogongzhinengbalaopodangzuojiayongbingxiangyiyangkandai。kaiqijiuhuiyouchide，huaidiaoyemeiqujianxiu。

shijishangzheijuhualibananhaihenvhairenwujiaosehuhuanyixia，yiyangkeyong。

shangbianfangtandesanweichuguiqizi，yingduihunyinshenghuozhongchanshengdenanti，yeshiyiyangdexintai，meiqujianxiu。

danzhongjiuyiqianzhenxinshiyienaiguo，panbianderenxinlidouhennanao。chuguidenvrenhuihouhuima？

sangenvrendehuifuyejingjuechengqianshangwanren，neibianshi：fufucongqinggannonghoudaopanbian，zhengzhongjianjiujingjinglilenaxie？

jinyounongqingchuzheiyidian，caikeyizhenzhengdejiejuekunnan。waiyujinjinzaiduobihunyinshenghuolifashengdenanti，bingwufajiejuekunnan。

 jiarubuyuanliyi，weiyidefazibianshixunzhaohunyinshenghuozhongdenanti，zaiciquelihejiazhongyuairendeganqinglianjie，zheijiushizuizhongyaode。

 nulizuodaozheiyidian，bujinnvrenyaogenggai，nanshengyexuyaogenggai，lirugaibianxianzhuangdeyixieyishi，tishengyuairendegoutongdejiqiao，xuehaolizaibierendejiaodudulisikaozheixie。

yigechuguidenvrenzishuyounaxie？zhongjiuwaiyubingmeiyouchulihunyinshenghuobeijudejiaohaofangfa。