出轨了怎么弥补老公，婚姻里我始终无法获得安全感怎么办？

 chuguilezenmemibulaogong？nidetihuiwomingbaile，shijishangheniyiyang，xuduonvxingchangshizaihunyinshenghuozhonghuodeguishuganshi，doujinruleyigeluojisiweicuowuguannian，bianshiyiweiruguozishennuligongzuo，jiunengyouzheguishugan，ketongchangzuodaocaifuziyouyihoufajue，qiancaibingmeiyouweizijichanshengchongjingzhongdewending。50suinvrenchuguideduome？

 zheizhuyaoshiyinweidahuoergaohunle“youquebao”he“youguishugan”dechabie。qianhezhengqiandebenlingdailainideshiquebao，erbushiguishugan。quebaojiurutongjiushinimaideshangyebaoxian，nixianranbuqidaibaoxianlipei，nijinjinweilegenghaodiyifangwanyi，wanyichushile，nikeyidedaoyifenquebao，buhuixianrukunjing。

 nikendingbuhuiyouyugoumaileshangyebaoxianjiuyongyouguishugan，youyushangyebaoxianbaodemeiyounimeichushile，zhishichuguohouyoujianliang。dannizhenzhenzhengzhengbixude，bushichushile。nizhenzhenzhengzhengbixude，shijiazhongwendingxingfukuaile，nihezhangfubicizhijianyilai，nimendounenganneixinbazheigejiachanzishendesuoshu。nisuoxuyaodeguishugan，jiushinixiangyaoxiangxinnihezhangfunengbaitoudaolao，shiyagenyongbudaoniweizijiliudeneiyifenquebaohehoulu。

 chuguilezenmemibulaogong？shishishangzaisuoyouzhuangkuangxia，guishugandoubingbushichuntianranjiuhuiyoude，guishuganshiliyongrendexingdongchuangjianqilaide。lirunidanxinruhudaoqie，niguangzuoneidanyouhaowuyiwenbuqizuoyong，nidecaiquyidingdeyouxiaocuoshi，huanyishananquanjibiegaodemen，yelixiexiqianchayanlvhejinmenchuangshibushiguanhao，zheizhongjijizhudongdeanquanfanghugerenxingweihuijinimenchanshengguishugan。hunyinshenghuoyeshiyiyang，jiarunirenhedongxidoumeizuo，meiyouzuotigaoanquandengjidexingdong，jinjingoumailefenshangyebaoxian，niyidinghuoshiquefaanquangan，youyuguishugandejutilaiyuanyushizishenweilegenghaodifangzhifengxiandechuxiansuojinxingdegerenxingwei。

 neimazaihunyinshenghuozhong，naxiegerenxingweiyouliyuguishugandechuangjianni？wojidahuoersangetiyi，zheisangetiyiheshiquanbufufu，baohanchanshengguoyulunyalidefufuhemeiyouchanshengguoyulunyalidefufu。

 diyigetiyi，fuqizhijianyaochangchangzaojiuxinlaihelvxinghetongdehudongjiaoliu。yifangxinlaiyifanglvxinghetongnenggouhelileijifuqizhijiandexinlai。zairichangrichangshenghuo，ninengchangchangbayixieshijiaodaozhangfuqujinxing，zhangfuzunxunchengnuo，jiangnijiaodaideshijinxing，dang“bugufuzhufu”deshileijiduole，fuqizhijiandexinlaibianhuijiazhong，ninengmanmanganshoudaoanquanxing。

 xuduonvrenzaihunyinshenghuozhongzhuiqiuwanmeitaiguodandu，shashizhixuziyinengzuoyebububianzhangfu，shishishangzheiduijingyinghunyinhenbuhao，youyushaolexinlaihelvxinghetong，laogonghexifudouyizhiwufamingquebierenshibushikekao。

 nitaishaobashierkaojizhangfu，niyejiubunengmingquezhangfushibushifeichangzhidexinlai，zheihuirangrenchixuzaochengzhaobuzhejiezhudejuede；ernanshengrenweilaopobuyongta，tayehuiquefaanquangan。

 tebieshizaijiushinidezhuangkuanghaixuyaogengfanzayixie，niyiqianshouleshang，zhangfujinglijingshenshizhipanbiandegerenxingwei，zheishinifeichangrongyibuyouzizhudibuyikaozhangfu，qiyinidanxinnideyikaoluokong，zaidubeicuoguo；qiernidezizunyizhibuyunxunigenpanbianguonidezhangfuqinmi。niyouxinrangziyigengdandu，nihezhangfuzhongjianjiufeichangshaohaiyoujihuichuangjianxinlai，dangliangxinyuezouyueyuan，nihaowuyiwenquefaanquangan。yinci，tiyinipingchangcongsuoshizhujian，shizhexinlai，lirurangzhangfuzaimouxieshijiantishinizuoyijianshi；rangzhangfuquguidingdeweizhimaiyiyangwupin；bajiazhongjiaodianfeidegongzuojiaodaozhangfu，zheixie。

 bansuizhezhangfulvxinghetongpincidetisheng，niyejiulejielefeichangduodezhijiezhengjubiaomingzhangfuzaiqianguazheni，zaixiangqinidezhufu，ninengganshoudaozhangfuxintengni、aizheni，nideguishuganjiujianjianxingchengle。

 diergetiyi，bicizhijianjizujingshenshizhishangdeshiyong，duozuoweihubaoyanglingyifangdeshi。jiarunikanlexuduolanmanzhutideyingshizuopinzhuzuo，niyexuduizheijuhuabushengshu——ruguoquanshijiegenniduizhegan，wojiuzhanzainishenpanggennidikangquanqiu。

 jiaruairenjianqueshinengzuodaozheileimeiyouliyoudejianrongheweihubaoyang，yidinghuilingrenyoushizudeguishugan。neima，neiyangdeganqinglianjieshizenmechuangjiandeni？feichangjiandan，bianshizaipingchangduozuoyixie“bangqinbubangli”deshi，yiqiebiedaibandizhongchengbiaozhun，yiqieyebieyizhijiangli，xiangbishierdeshifeiquzhi，gengyouxianxuanzeguanxintarendexintai，meiyicijiejuekunnanyiqian，xianchulixintai。

 lirulingyifangmaiyuangongzuofangmiandegongzuoyali，hetayiqimamazhaobiaofang，diaokanyixialaozong，erbushijiaotazhenfenqilaibieneimafumianqingxu；daolingyifangjiawulaodong，ganzaitajinriburuyi，mangdechoumeibuzhan，jiuxianshitahaohaoxiuxixiexi。zongeryanzhibianshichangchangzuoyixiexianghuzhijianweihubaoyangbicizhijiandeshi，bushishikekebeixiandingzaibiaozhundeyichengbubianli，zaiqingganshanglijihuyinghefuwei、youshihoufangrenlingyifangdejiaozong，zheinenggouqizhetigaoyouhaodudegongxiao，zaojiuyizhongfufushangxiaqixindeguishugan。

 nanideqingxingeryan，nihezhangfuzhongjiandexinlaiyiqianbeibaituoguo，yaoxiangfujian，bixuliangrendouqinfen，wangbudiaoyiwangdewaishangzirandoushiwodecuo，youyunizhangfuyiqianjingshenshijielizailelingyigerenshenpang，nihaipatahuiweilegenghaodilingyigerenerbeiduini。kedangniyizhichennianjiushi，shishishangjiuyujingshenshizhizhichenghebicizhijianweihubaoyangbenmodaozhile。yinciyiwangdeshidajiajinkenengbuti，duozuochuangjianxinlaideshi，shaozuoyaobaibudingxinlaideshi，nimenzhongjiandexingfugancaihuizhujianxiufu。50suinvrenchuguideduome？

 jiarunizongduizhangfubiaoshubuxinren，huishitaduilihunyemeiyouanquangan，dangyigerenganjueziyihenqinfenhuoshidedaobushangairendexinlai，tafeichangrongyizaihunyinshenghuozhongmeiyouxinrengan，zhangciyiwangbuhuizairenzhenweihubaoyangfuqiganqing，naizhizaiyicifancuowu。

 disangetiyi，gaoduzhongshifufuzhengtiliyi，gaoduzhongshijiazhongquanyi。dangzaoyuyixiangjiazhongguanlijueceshi，nishihuishouxiankaolvdaozishendequanyi，yiranhuishouxiankaolvdaojiazhongdequanyini？zaixingfukuailepingwendejiatinghunyinzhong，zhixuyijianshihehufufuzhengtiliyi，laogonghuolaopohuixinganqingyuanzuochuyixietuoxie，erbushigexingqishi；jiarufufuzhongdeyifanghuobicizhushidouyiziyideshouyiweizuizhongyao，weilegenghaodizishendequanyinaizhihaikeyifangqijiazhongdequanyi，neiyangdeliangkouzizaihunyinshenghuozhongjiubukenengyouguishugan。

 liruniyixinpuzaigongzuoshang，zhuanlexuduoqian，rangzishenyongyouquebao，keshinihuoshiquefaanquangan，youyuniduinidehunyinshenghuobuquedingxing，zheiyifenbuquedingxinglaiziyuzhangfupingchangxiangyaonifenlichulaiyixiehuolizhaoliaofufuhudongjiaoliushi，nijujuele，nijiangzhangfudexuyaofangdaolezuizhongdedifangshang。

 ruguonizheiyangzuoshi，nizijizuixianjiuquefaanquanganle，youyunilejiezishenmeiyouweijialierqinfen，renzainaercengmianqinfenle，zainaercengmianjiuhuiyouguishugan，meizijintourushijiande，haowuyiwenneixinmeipu。yincichukaiweizijiquebao，yewufaqingshilingyifang，shengjidanbuguansuoyoufangdaonayigezhulanli，doufengxian，huoliquandoufangdaogongzuoshanghuosuoyoufangdaojiatinghuanjingzhong，yebuanquanxing。50suinvrenchuguideduome？

 buguannishinizhangfu，jiarushuangfangdoubazijideshizhanghehuoliyunyibufenyongzaijiatingshenghuoshang，yongzaifufuhudongjiaoliushang，rangjiaxianggejia，rangjialiyoushenghuoyuansu，erbushixiang2gefenbieweilezijideshouyiernulifendoudetongzhuren，nimencaikeyileijiqiguishuganhexinrengan。

 chuguilezenmemibulaogong？yaoxianghuodejiezhuheguichu，zuixiannibunengyanjinzishenbianchengtarendeyilaiheguichu，fuqizhijiandetihuiquanshijingxiangxitongde，ruguoniganjuexinshenwuchuzhifangshi，nizhangfushijishangyeshiyouyiyangdefannao。jiarucongjintiankaishi，nishizheyidiandianyizhaozheisangetiyichuangjianhezhangfuzhongjiandexinlai，nideguishuganbianhuitigao，nizhangfudeguishuganbianhuitigao，nimenhunyinshenghuodekekaoxingbianhuitigao。