中年妻子出轨能原谅吗？原谅出轨妻子后，她的三种变化让我欲哭无泪

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冯先生：妻子重归家中一年，三种转变让我无可奈何

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有些人说婚外情的产生以后是难以原谅的，也是沒有必需原谅的，就好像破镜难重圆，就算是在一起了也会出现一些芥蒂难以去解决，也会出现一些心理状态的坎不易凑合，这也是一定的，但若是选用了原谅，就不必去过度的在乎以前的事儿，人无远虑金无足赤，若是原谅，那好好的再次去婚姻经营，人的内心全是肉做的，我坚信有些人犯错误以后也依然会好好地的更改，去进行新的生活。

nvrenchuguimeiyoubuhouhuidema？neimanimenganjuejiarulingyibanchuguile，feichangzhideyuanliangme？