在婚姻生活中，男女出轨的不同后果

 xiangpipeiyigejiatingeryan，nanrenchuguihenvrenchugui，shiyoubuyiyangdejieguo。nannvchuguidebutonghouguoyounaxie？zaiwomendeyishizhong，nanrenchugui，nengzhongguijiatingjiufeichanghaole，liangrenhuoshinenghaohaoshenghuorizi，zhixushinanrenhuiguo。naizhizhixunanrenxiangjiazhongjiaofei，naizhishuozhixuhaiyangtadexiaohai，youyibufendenvrenjiuxiangyaochengshousanrenxingdeqingkuang。nvrenchuguiqingqiulaogongyuanliangruhezuo？

 ernvrenchugui，jiuhaoxiangshifanleshehuifazhanzhongdejihui，zheiyeshizhenduinanrenzizundetiaozhan，huibeiguashangyinfudechenghao，erqieshiyishengdewuzi，doububeidajiasuoyuanliang。nanrenchuguizheiyijiatingbuyidingsanhuo，dannvrenchugui，zheiyijiatingdagailvdehuimaixiangshuailuo。

 nannvchuguidebutonghouguoyounaxie？dahuoerzhenduiweihenvrenhuiwaiyu，haoxiangbingmeishenmexingqu，youxingqudefandaoshi，zheiyinvrenchuguile，tingyixiayounaxiebaguaguangweiliuchuan，bianchengxuduorenfanhouchayudetanlunhuati。zaihunyinshenghuozhongzenmehuiwaiyuni？

第一、要求沒有被达到

 yigechangguideren，zaihunyinzhichu，quanshidianjizhehaohaodidehelingyibanrichangshenghuo，lianggerenlianshoutaguoyisheng，yitongfuyangxiaohai，zaiwennuanhemudejiatingzhong，xiangyixiangwei。dantamenlingjiehunzhengyihoujiufajueleyigenanti，2gerendegexingbuyiyang，niantoubuyiyang，yishibuyiyang，jiubixumoheqi，xianghuzhijiankuanrong、lejie。

 youdeliangkouzizaimoheqizhongjianjiandiwendingfazhanqushi，fufuliangrendeaiqingyuebianyuehao。eryoudefufuyuegongchuyuefajuejiazhiguannianbuyiyang，eryoumeiyoushiliqugenggai，zhiyoucouheshi，tamenjianjiandejiuguandiaolexinfei，zaihunyinshenghuozhongshiqudedadao，jiuhuixiangwaizhaoxun。nvrenchuguiqingqiulaogongyuanliangruhezuo？

第二、人的本性的能量

 yigerendeqingganwufadedaofaxiedediqu，zhenduijiatingdoumeiyouxinrenganheguishugan，meiyouduizijideyizhongrentong，zaihunyinshenghuozhongyemeiyouchuxiandeshiyongjiazhi。xinlixuqiuheshenglixuyao，youyigemeiyoubeidadao，zaibennengfanyingdequdongxia，yehuizhaoxun。

 jiusuantajibenjiumeiyouzhaoxundeguannian，jinjinrentizaizuobennengfanyingdefanying，zheishizhenduiwaibudeyinyoueryan，shibukanyijide。jinjinpingzhejiazhiguannianhebenrendezikongnenglishinanyigenggaide。

 zaichuantongshideyishizhong，dahuoershichiyuliaoxingde，juedenvrenbuyinggaiyoushenglixuqiu，zhixushibiaoshuzheixiefangmiandeneirong，jiuhuibeimiaoshubianchengyigelangdangdenvren，shitianbuzhichide。tamenhushilezheiyinvrenzuixianshiyigeren，tahaiyouzishendesuoyouxinuaile，yeshiyourentidebennengfanyingyaoqiu。

第三、男孩和女孩外遇，产生的效果不一样

 hunyinshenghuozhong，nanrenchuguile，bianhuibeijuedeshichangguidezhuangkuang，huiyongtabianshifanlequanshijiedenanren，doushihuifandebuzhengque，laianweilaopo。laopojiusuanshinaonu、zenghennaizhidaolihundechengdu，keshitamendezaiqianyishizhongdangzhong，yeshihaikeyilejiede。nvrenchuguiqingqiulaogongyuanliangruhezuo？

 keshinvrenchuguile，zhenduinanreneryan，bianshibukeyuanliangdebuzhengque，naizhishiquanbujiamenkoudewuru。tamenbeidaidailvmaozheijianshiqing，shiyaozaoshoudahuoerfengcide，tamenaimianzi，bukeyijienajiazhongdenvrenzuoneiyangdeshier。shizizundeyizhongjiaoxiao，shishehuixianzhuangxiangbei，tamenwufajiena，yidinglihunle。

 nannvchuguidebutonghouguoyounaxie？nannvzaiganqingdequanqiuzhong，shijishangshijundengde，tamendouduilingyibanyouyidingdeguiding。bansuizhenvrendecaifuziyou，tamenzaidangjinshehuishangdeyingxiangli，youyidingdetigao，jiaruzaodaopanbian，jiqihunhoushenghuozhongbuxingfukuaile，nvrenyeyongyudikang，zheiyeshishehuiwenmingfazhandeyizhongzhuyaobiaoxian。