女人出轨后，男人心里到底怎么想的？怎样消除老婆出轨阴影

 youxierenshuo，hunyinshenghuoli，jiarunanrenchuguile，zenyangxiaochulaopochuguiyinying？zhixunanrenkeyijieshidaozishendebuzhengque，hewaibiandenvrenduanzhengjie，neinvrentongchanghuitiaoxuanyuanliangta，shitazaicihuidaojiazhong。qizichuguilehaojuhaosanzenmezuo？

 nanrenchuguiyizhibuyongtouruhenduodechengben，youyunvrenzongshihuiyongaikuanrongta。jiarujiaosehuhuanhuilai，hunyinshenghuolilaopochuguile，nanrenhuiyuanliangtama？

xiabianzanmenyiqilaikankansangenanrendexiaogushi。

夏老先生，50岁。

youxierenshuoyuewenwandenanrenyuewuqing，aizengfenming，nenggouduilaopohao，danyidanlaopochugui，jiuburongyijitayidianjiyu。

 zenyangxiaochulaopochuguiyinying？qunianwohuranfajuelaopojinqiyuelaiyuefeichangaichuanzhedaban，tabiwoxiao5sui，hunhouwoyizhirenzhengongzuo，wojiangzhenglaideqianjibenshangquanshangjiaodaota。youyumangzhezhengqian，suoyiwogongzuozhongyizhibijiaomang，meiyoushenmeshijianpeita，woyiweitazaihuni，lejiewo，kewobingmeiyouxiangqita40jisuilejingranhaihuijixuchugui。

 wowufayuanliangta，zhengyouyuwofeichangaita，suoyiwochengshoubuzhuzheiyangdepanbian，jinguanwoshigenande，keyinweiwohenzhongqingyi，wobingbushineileizhanhuarecaodenanren，woyizhixiangdeshiyishengyishizhiaiwolaopoyigeren，kewobingmeiyouxiangqiwoneimezhenxinshiyidaita，taqueruciduiyuwo。zhixushifenhenailingyifang，jiubutaikenengyuanliangchugui。

qingzhishenzezhiqie，zheigeshinenggoulejiede。

杨先生，50岁。

woshangnianhelaopolilehun，lihunliyoubianshiyouyuwolaopozaiwaimianyouxierenle。

 wolaopoganjuetazheidayibeizigenwoguodebugaoxing，tayizhixianglihun，kewofandui，worenweidajianianlingdouhendale，zheileiqingkuangxiahainaoliyi，zhinengbeibierenchaoxiao，henyoukenengyouyuwoguoduanbuyuanliyi，suoyiwolaopojiuzaiwaimianqingrenle，woshoulefeichangdadecijixing，yemeiyouxiangqitaweilegenghaodiyuwoliyi,jingranganyuanchugui。qizichuguilehaojuhaosanzenmezuo？

 woshunletadeyi，yunxulilehun，danzaiwoxinli，woyongyuandouburongyiyuanliangta，jiusuandajiazheiyishengzaimeiyoujiuge，yinweiwoburongyiyuanliangta，taduiyuwodaozhidesunhaiwonengjiyibeizi。

 feishiquanbunanrendouduihunyinshenghuobuzhongshi，wojiushineigeduihunyinshenghuozhongchenggenggengderen，woyigedananrenconglaimeiyouxiangguoliyi，conglaimeiyouxiangguopanbian，tayigenvrenweiheyaoneiyangduiyuwo，taweiheneiyanglangfeiwodezhenxinshiyi，woxubuxuyaoquyuanliangyigeneiyangjueqingsunhaiwodenvren。

戚老先生

budanburongyiyuanliang，haihuijixuyiyanhaiyanduifuta。

 nayigenanrenyouneimedadejinquxin，huiquyuanliangyigechuguidenvren，nvrendepanbianduinanreneryanshiyizhonghendadequru，meiyounanrenhuiquyuanliangyigechuguidenvren，zuishaowobuhuihenyoukenengyuanliangde。

 wobuzhiyicigenwolaoposhuoguo：“jiaruweilainiganpanbianwo，niruguoqueshichugui，wobudanburongyiyuanliangni，wodouhuiyiyanhaiyandiduifuni，nizenmeduiyuwo，woxiangfanbeifenghairangni。”qizichuguilehaojuhaosanzenmezuo？

 nanrenbingbushijihen，nanrenjinjinjueduibuhuiyunxuzishendewupinbeitarenzhanju，jiranjijingjielehun，neijiushiwodelaopo，wodelaopozenmekeyiqujiqitananrendanglianren。

 nvrennenggouyuanliangnanrenchugui，nenggouqukuanrongnanrenduihunyinshenghuodesanxineryi，danxiangfannanrenjueduibuhuiquyuanliangnvrendechugui，buguannvrenshiyouyushishenmeyuanyinchugui，nanrendouburongyiyuanliangta，zheiyeshijuedabufennanrendetiaoxuan。

 zenyangxiaochulaopochuguiyinying？nvrenchuguidailainanrendeshiyishengdequru，tebieshizaichuantongjiaoyuxiadedajia，zuihouzhiyouyigejieguo，bianshimaixianglihundezhongdian。