出轨的代价很大，这三条你都想到了吗？

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一、对自己的影响

suoweitouxinghuireyishensao。hunwaiqingbenlaijiushibuguangcaide，chuguideqizishouxiankendingshigandaozize，youshenshendezuiegan。

suihouruguozhangfuhaishiduizijibuhao，neimeyuqingrenzaiyiqidezuieganhuimanmanjianqing。

ruguoyuqingrendeganqingyuelaiyueshen，changchanghuandehuanshi，yinweibunengyingxiangduifangjiatingyebunengwanquanyongyouduifangneizhongganjuerubaizhuanaoxin。

haipahunwaiqingbeifaxian，suoyiyechangchangxianrukongjuzhizhong。

ranerzhibaobuzhuhuo，jiranyouyuehuijiuhuiyoubeifaxiandekeneng，daoshizhihuirangzijimingyusaodi，haihuiyinqijiatingdongdang。

二、对另一半的的影响

lingyibanshiwaiyuzhijieshouhaizhe。waiyuzheichangbaofengyuduihunyinlaishuoshijudadezainan，meiyounagenanrenkeyirenshouqizibeipan。

 duinanreneryan，zhidaolaopodechuguihou，gengchongdongdezuofashiyaoxueruobeidailvmaozidechiru，yinweibumanqizichuguierzaochengdejiduanbeijutaiduole！

dangchuqiziduihunyindechengnuodouqulenali？zhenjingzhiyulingyibankaishiziwohuaiyishibushizijitaichanalizuodebuhaocaidaozhiqizichuguide？

youyuqizichuguiyanzhongsunhaizijiderengeliyi，wangwangshidebudaoyuanliangde，jishiganqingchuangshanghaole，xinrenzaiyehuibulai。

三、别人的偏见对自己的影响

suiranxuduorenzuishangshuoshiweilezijierhuo，danshiwanquanbuzaiyibierendexiangfaganshouderenhaishitaishao。nanrenxihuankanmianzi，ernvrenxihuanbierendekuazan，gengbuyongshuohenduorentianshengjiuxihuanpanbi，huoxinggehaoqiang，buxihuanbeibierenhushi。cishi，chuguidedaijiashinizaibierenyanzhongjiushizuiedehuashen，henduopangguanzhehuijuedenideaiqingguanyouwenti。