老公坚决要离婚，妻子如何挽回老公的心

yiduanhunyinshenghuolaidaoliyizheiyibu，jiubiaominglingyifangzaoyiduidajiadehunyinshenghuozaoyibubaoxiwangle，huoxujiushinideyixiegerenxingweishangguoletadexin，huoxushitachibuxiaozheipingpingdandanfaweideshenghuo，huoxushizhengzhirangdajiadejianjujianxingjianyuan，huoxushijiazhongdengwaizaigongzuoyalirangdajiafenlile。

一、寻找离婚原因

yuanyiwanjiu，jiuyingdangcongxunzhaolihunyuanyingangkaishi。lihunle，bingbudengyulingyifangdeneixinjiumeilenidebuwei，erdajiazhongjiandelianluoyebutaikenengyinerduandeyiganerjing，genjuzheizhonglianluo，haikeyilajindajiazhongjiandejianju。

yaolejie，quanshijiemeiyouyiduifuqishichedishihede。shuobailedejizhideguanlianbingquehan，quanshiyouwentideliangrenzuizhongmoheqidaozhishengxianghudounengjienade、juedaduoshudexiaonanti，zuizhongcaizaiyiqi。lijingcicidewanjiu，jianxindajiadounenggaoqingchuhunyindeyiyi。

二、提高风采

 benshenjibenjianshe。yaoxiangbianchengbeinanshengzhuiqiudeyoumeilidenvren，niwubiyaogaohaobenshenjibenjianshe。benshenjibenjianshebaohanbenzhiyuwaizai。huoxuzuiliji，zuihelidejiushishuowaizaijibenjianshe。huanjuhuashuo，genjuchuanzhedaban、nongtouxing、jifuhulidengcengmian，cushizishenbiandeyuelaiyueyoufengcai，gengweixiyinzhuren。niyaobixutigaonidebenzhi，benzhibaohannideqichang、sixiangjuewu、boxueduocai、shanxin、xianshu、yantanjuzhidedangdeng，benzhidegenggaibingbushiyichaoyixinenggenggaide，xiangyaonijianchibuxie。

fengfuduocainideyishizhuxing。congjintiankaishi，niyingdangquzuoniyiqianmeizuoguodeshier，biruhepenyouzhengye、quyicifangkongzijidelvyou……haijideyaopaixialaixiangpianfazhishejiaomeitishang，“bujingyi”tahuifajue，tahuijiandaonideyishizhuxingshineibandefengfuduocai。fengfuduocainideyishizhuxinghounijiuhuifaxianwoshenbianderenduole，yuanyiyunixiangchuderenyehuichuxian，zheiyebiaomingnidefengcaizuyitigaole，yekeyihuiwanjiutazuomaixiafubi。

三、提升联络

zaiciqudelianxizhenduiwanjiuzhangfuhenguanjian，jiaoweihaodefangfajiushishuopengmian，pengmiansanfenqing，jinkenengxiangfangfapengmian。

jiarudajiayouxianghudedepengyouzaihaobuguo，lirulianluodajiaxianghudepengyoujigouyicijuhuihuodong，ranglingyifangzaijuhuihuodongzhongzhangwonizheishideqingkuang，jiqiniyizhizaizheiyiduanshijianneidegenggai……yaoshimeiyouxianghudepenyou，nijiuzhaodajiarichangshenghuojianghuichuxianbingjidediqu，dajiaxianghudegerenaihao，tachangchanghuichuxiandedizhideng，qiaoyudoushinenggourenweiyinsushezhide。

zaipengmianyiqiannihuoxuyaozuoyixietiqianzhunbeigongzuozhong，baohanrongmaoshangde，xintaizhuangtaishangde。rongmaoshangyinghaohaoditixianyifan，zhengdejitamenyanqianyiliangdejuede。

xintaizhuangtaishangde，weichiyikelianghaodexintai，liuyipengmianshidefenwei，fenweibitanxintanhuaneironggengguanjian，butaitiyidajiashangqujiutanqinggan，nenggouduoliaoyiliaozishenjinqiyiduanshijiandexinxianshier，lingyifangfeichangrongyiduinizaiduzaochengqingyi。

suihou，yilanyanzhijideguanlianweituoci，kenqiutabangzhuzuoyixieyouyiyideshideshier。

biruzhiqiandajiazaiyiqishi，nidediannaokasile，huoshibixudiannaoxitongzhongzhuangdeng，quanshitanonghaode，rujinnidediannaoshanghuranyouchuxiannantile，nihaikeyitongdianhuaqiujiaota，ruhechuli，huoshilijiyaoqiutanayitianyoushijianshangmenfuwubangkankan。

yaoshidajiadeguanlianmeinaodefeichangjiang，huanshilanyanzhijidewendu，neimazheizhongbusuanshifeichangtaiguodekenqiu，tashiburongyihuijuebangzhude，zheimoyang，dajiajiutishenglepengmiandejiyu，ertayoubuzhudongdijinizijintourule。

四、结构加固关联

shengchanzhizaomeihaojiyi。rangdajiadeyishizhuxingnenggoudaliangdeyiwaijingxixingfu，jiufangfo，nenggouyoushihoujilingyifangyigexiaoyiwaijingxi。nenggoudajiayiqiqulvyou，qupiaoliangdelvyoujingdian，nenggouhaitan，beifangdiqukanxue，youlunzheixiedelanmandiqu，suihouzhaoxiang，banimendexingfupaixialaile。haikeyicankaolingyifangdexihaohexiaidediquhuowupin，suihoudailingyifangqunagediqu，yiqiquwan，keshibukeyiguodufanfu，youyusheidoushikuzaode，zaitongyigedachengshili，jinkenengduoquxiebuyiyangdediqu。neiyangnibuzaishi，tagenjuqingjinghuihuixiangdaodajiadediaoping，danquanguochengyidingyaogaoxing。

zhidingxianghuzongtimubiao。youzhexianghuzongtimubiaoderen，shifeichanghaojiaowangde。yincishuocheng，xianglianggerendezhangqixingguanliangengweilaogu，jiunenggoudinghaoyigexianghuzongtimubiao。dinghaoxianghudezongtimubiao，nenggoushidahuoerdouzijintourudaozheiyiduanguanlianzhonglai。zhidingxianghuzongtimubiaodefangshi ，nenggoushizuijinyounaxiezhunbeide，nenggoushigoufang，gongtongfendouqugoufang，shidahuoerdouyibianweilaideaiwuerqinfenqianxing。zhangqixingdezongtimubiaoyidingbixushiji，yaoburanshuochuqu，neizongtimubiaozongyoujianghuizhishishilixiangle。

 zenyangwanjiulaogong?jiarushanbian，xiayigejuecedouhuanglaihuangqu，neizuihoujieguoyehuiyiyang，shuobaileyinguobaoying，jiushishuoyuanyuyurenzaiqianyishizhongmeifaquchudexinxin，yincijinkuaixiajuece，bingxiajuexinjianchibuxiezheiyijuece，cuozhecuozhe，jiumeicuo。

ruguonihaiyaochichuzhexubuxuyaowanjiu，nengfouwanjiuqudechenggongshi，zheileiquefazixinhuilijiweihaidaonidewanjiu，liru，danglingyifangmeiyouzuochunixiwangyiyangdefanyingshi，jiuhuijuedewanxi，naizhihaihuijuede，weishanulineimeduo，nihuanshishierbujian?zheizhenduiwanjiueryanshibuhaode。yuanyiwanjiuzhangfu，jiuyingdangjiandingbuyizijidejuexin，diaojielianghaodexintai，neiyang，nidewanjiucaiburongyiliuyouquehan。